On this episode of Uncoupled and Unfiltered, I sit down with Anne K. Wintemute, Co-Founder and CEO of Aimee Says—an innovative AI-powered support tool designed for survivors of relationship abuse and domestic violence.

We explore what makes this tool so powerful, how it supports survivors in moments of confusion or overwhelm, and the ways it helps people find their voice, advocate for themselves, and regain a sense of grounding when everything feels like it’s spinning.

Key Topics Covered:

• Why Aimee Says was created and the critical gap it fills for survivors—one that existing resources and systems often fail to address.
• How Aimee Says differs from tools like ChatGPT, and why it’s specifically designed with survivor safety, validation, and advocacy in mind.
• How post-separation abuse is rarely researched or meaningfully addressed, and why survivors are so often expected to “move on” while the abuse continues.
• The reality that the burden of proof so often falls on the victim—not the perpetrator—and how easily emotions can take over during testimony. We discuss how this AI tool helps survivors stay grounded, clear, and regulated when it matters most.
• Using Aimee Says to navigate complex dynamics with court-appointed minor’s counsel or custodial evaluators.
• How Aimee Says can support survivors in rebuilding trust in new relationships, recognizing triggers, and navigating healthy relationship dynamics moving forward.

“The antidote to chaos is clarity.” - Anne K. Wintemute

About Our Guest: Anne K Wintemute

Anne K. Wintemute is the Co-Founder and CEO of Aimee Says, an AI-powered support tool created for survivors of relationship abuse and domestic violence. With deep expertise in post-separation abuse and survivor advocacy, Anne developed Aimee Says to address critical gaps in existing support systems and help survivors find clarity, grounding, and their voice. She is a frequent speaker and advocate at the intersection of trauma-informed care, technology, and survivor empowerment.

Who This Episode Is For:

• Survivors of relationship abuse or domestic violence who are seeking clarity, validation, and tools to help them find their voice.
• Anyone navigating the family court system, including interactions with custodial evaluators or court-appointed minors’ counsel.
• Advocates, therapists, and legal professionals who want to better understand survivor-centered, trauma-informed support tools.
• Individuals are rebuilding trust after abusive relationships and learning how to navigate new dynamics with greater confidence and self-awareness.
• Anyone interested in how ethical, purpose-driven AI can be used to support healing, advocacy, and personal empowerment.

Connect with Anne K. Wintemute:

Website:  https://www.aimeesays.com/en/home 

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/anne-wintemute-897077106/ 

Connect with Ksenia Muench:

Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/ 

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/ 

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kvmuench/ 

Substack: https://substack.com/@thriveagaindc 

Email: [email protected] 

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