Most of us spend our lives clinging to what we think is solid ground, but the truth is, true growth begins at the edge of our comfort zone — on the ledge of chaos, where everything familiar dissolves. In this profound conversation, I sit with Cole Chance to explore what it really means to live alive from the underworld — the raw, wild, uncharted space where transformation happens. Brace yourself for a journey into the depths of vulnerability, desire, and the power of embracing our shadowy, messy parts. You'll discover how the most pivotal thresholds—pregnancy, addiction, heartbreak—morphed Cole’s sense of self and sparked her fierce, creative voice.
We break down how life's greatest initiations demand a willingness to surrender, to fall into the void, and to trust that death is necessary for fertile new beginnings. Cole reveals her radical insights on the intelligence of our protective parts, the wild beauty of our rebellious edges, and the profound importance of honoring the natural cycles of pause and fallow—those sacred times of gestation when nothing seems to be happening, yet everything is happening beneath the surface.
This episode uncovers the subtle art of boundary-setting, the wisdom hidden in our no’s and yes’s, and the courage to let relationships evolve or dissolve without shame. We explore the unseen archetypes that shape our tendencies to cling or push away, and how conscious relational overlap—like in dance or intimacy—can serve as a mirror for life's essential shifts. Cole and I delve into the importance of re-educating ourselves around departure, the myth of the 'perfect' connection, and why letting go — softly, with grace — is one of the bravest acts of love.
Cole Chance is a yoga teacher, retreat leader, recovery educator, and lifelong student of what it means to be human. Through movement, breathwork, story, and inquiry, she explores the intersection of somatics, mythology, neuroscience, and embodied living. She is the founder of EMERGE and co-creator of The Mindfulish School, and leads retreats, trainings, and online programs that invite people home to themselves, within the wider world.
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