Alive, I Guess Podcast

By RJ GayByrd

Some days you're thriving, other days you're just… alive, I guess.

Hosted by RJ GayByrd, Alive, I Guess Podcast is where women and queer folks come to stop feeling like th

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How many episodes does Alive, I Guess Podcast have?

The podcast currently has 21 episodes available.

Alive, I Guess Podcast episodes:

April 23, 2026 Episode 21 - Codependency Be Happenin
In this episode of the Alive, I Guess Podcast, RJ discusses the complexities of codependency, its roots, manifestations, and strategies for healing. Drawing from personal experience and therapy, they offer insights into recognizing and breaking free from codependent patterns to foster healthier relationships and self-care.
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Instagram: @aliveiguesspodcast
TikTok: @aliveiguesspodcast
Watch Episodes on YouTube: Alive, I Guess Podcast
Join The Homies on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/AliveIGuessPodcast
Linktree: https://linktr.ee/AIGPodcast
Host: RJ (@simballic_rj)
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Music Credits:
Artist: Lauren "SōLAUREN" Adams
Written by Lauren "SōLAUREN" Adams
Mix, Master, + Edit by Christopher "Wilke$" Wilkes
Vocal Production: Lauren "SōLAUREN" Adams
Beat: Track produced by SFRBeats.com (https://sfrbeats.com/)
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46min
April 16, 2026 Episode 20 - Black Creativity Be Happenin w/ SōLauren
In this episode of the Alive, I Guess Podcast, RJ sits down with SōLauren, a Black, queer artist and creative from San Francisco — and the voice behind the Alive, I Guess Podcast intro song. SōLauren opens up about her journey through grief, identity, and artistry — and how pain doesn't block the creative process, it fuels it. Together, they explore the complicated legacy of the Black church, the inseparable bond between love and accountability, and why showing up authentically isn't just a personal practice — it's an invitation for everyone else to do the same. They also dig into what it means to advocate for artists living in their full truth, the healing power of Black artistry, and why supporting Black creators matters now more than ever. If you've ever wrestled with faith, vulnerability, or finding your voice in a world that doesn't always make space for it, this conversation was made for you.
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SōLauren’s Resources:
IG: @solaurenadams
TikTok: @SoLaurenMusic
YouTube: @SoLaurenMusic
Music: solauren.bandcamp.com
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Instagram: @aliveiguesspodcast
TikTok: @aliveiguesspodcast
Watch Episodes on YouTube: Alive, I Guess Podcast
Join The Homies on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/AliveIGuessPodcast
Linktree: https://linktr.ee/AIGPodcast
Host: RJ (@simballic_rj)
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Music Credits:
Artist: Lauren "SōLAUREN" Adams
Written by Lauren "SōLAUREN" Adams
Mix, Master, + Edit by Christopher "Wilke$" Wilkes
Vocal Production: Lauren "SōLAUREN" Adams
Beat: Track produced by SFRBeats.com (https://sfrbeats.com/)
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1h 47min
April 09, 2026 Episode 19 - Nostalgia Be Happenin
In this episode of the Alive, I Guess Podcast, RJ explores the nature of nostalgia, its impact on our lives, and how to embrace it healthily while moving forward.
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Instagram: @aliveiguesspodcast
TikTok: @aliveiguesspodcast
Watch Episodes on YouTube: Alive, I Guess Podcast
Join The Homies on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/AliveIGuessPodcast
Linktree: https://linktr.ee/AIGPodcast
Host: RJ (@simballic_rj)
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Music Credits:
Artist: Lauren "SōLAUREN" Adams
Written by Lauren "SōLAUREN" Adams
Mix, Master, + Edit by Christopher "Wilke$" Wilkes
Vocal Production: Lauren "SōLAUREN" Adams
Beat: Track produced by SFRBeats.com (https://sfrbeats.com/)
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36min
April 02, 2026 Episode 18 - Big Sister Duties Be Happenin
In this episode of the Alive, I Guess Podcast, RJ shares a heartfelt reflection on the role of being a big sister, the responsibilities, challenges, and joys of sibling relationships, and personal growth. The episode explores family dynamics, protective instincts, boundaries, and the impact of sibling bonds on identity and life.
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Instagram: @aliveiguesspodcast
TikTok: @aliveiguesspodcast
Watch Episodes on YouTube: Alive, I Guess Podcast
Join The Homies on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/AliveIGuessPodcast
Linktree: https://linktr.ee/AIGPodcast
Host: RJ (@simballic_rj)
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Music Credits:
Artist: Lauren "SōLAUREN" Adams
Written by Lauren "SōLAUREN" Adams
Mix, Master, + Edit by Christopher "Wilke$" Wilkes
Vocal Production: Lauren "SōLAUREN" Adams
Beat: Track produced by SFRBeats.com (https://sfrbeats.com/)
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1h 6min
March 26, 2026 Episode 17 - Unemployment Be Happenin
In this episode of the Alive, I Guess Podcast, RJ shares a candid and insightful journey through a year of unemployment, exploring its emotional, mental, and financial impacts, and highlighting the growth and resilience that can emerge from such challenging times.
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Instagram: @aliveiguesspodcast
TikTok: @aliveiguesspodcast
Watch Episodes on YouTube: Alive, I Guess Podcast
Join The Homies on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/AliveIGuessPodcast
Linktree: https://linktr.ee/AIGPodcast
Host: RJ (@simballic_rj)
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Music Credits:
Artist: Lauren "SōLAUREN" Adams
Written by Lauren "SōLAUREN" Adams
Mix, Master, + Edit by Christopher "Wilke$" Wilkes
Vocal Production: Lauren "SōLAUREN" Adams
Beat: Track produced by SFRBeats.com (https://sfrbeats.com/)
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54min
March 19, 2026 Episode 16 - Making New Friends Be Happenin
In this episode of the Alive, I Guess Podcast, RJ explores the complexities of making new friends as an adult, sharing personal insights and practical advice on building meaningful connections, vetting new friends, and maintaining authentic relationships.
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Instagram: @aliveiguesspodcast
TikTok: @aliveiguesspodcast
Watch Episodes on YouTube: Alive, I Guess Podcast
Join The Homies on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/AliveIGuessPodcast
Linktree: https://linktr.ee/AIGPodcast
Host: RJ (@simballic_rj)
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Music Credits:
Artist: Lauren "SōLAUREN" Adams
Written by Lauren "SōLAUREN" Adams
Mix, Master, + Edit by Christopher "Wilke$" Wilkes
Vocal Production: Lauren "SōLAUREN" Adams
Beat: Track produced by SFRBeats.com (https://sfrbeats.com/)
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41min
March 12, 2026 Episode 15 - Impostor Syndrome Be Happenin
In this episode of the Alive, I Guess Podcast, RJ explores imposter syndrome, its impact on success, and practical ways to overcome it. This episode offers insights into internal beliefs, the importance of self-awareness, and strategies for moving forward despite doubts.
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Want to receive advice during “I Say This With Love”? Submit your situation to the 100% anonymous form at tinyurl.com/AIGPadvice and you might hear it answered on the show!
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Instagram: @aliveiguesspodcast
TikTok: @aliveiguesspodcast
Watch Episodes on YouTube: Alive, I Guess Podcast
Join The Homies on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/AliveIGuessPodcast
Linktree: https://linktr.ee/AIGPodcast
Host: RJ (@simballic_rj)
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Music Credits:
Artist: Lauren "SōLAUREN" Adams
Written by Lauren "SōLAUREN" Adams
Mix, Master, + Edit by Christopher "Wilke$" Wilkes
Vocal Production: Lauren "SōLAUREN" Adams
Beat: Track produced by SFRBeats.com (https://sfrbeats.com/)
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38min
March 05, 2026 Episode 14 - Life After Ball Be Happenin
In this episode of the Alive, I Guess Podcast, RJ reflects on their 10-year anniversary since retiring from basketball, exploring the emotional, physical, and mental challenges of transitioning from athlete to everyday life. They share personal stories, lessons learned, and advice for fellow retired athletes navigating this significant life change.
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Want to receive advice during “I Say This With Love”? Submit your situation to the 100% anonymous form at tinyurl.com/AIGPadvice and you might hear it answered on the show!
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Instagram: @aliveiguesspodcast
TikTok: @aliveiguesspodcast
Watch Episodes on YouTube: Alive, I Guess Podcast
Join The Homies on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/AliveIGuessPodcast
Linktree: https://linktr.ee/AIGPodcast
Host: RJ (@simballic_rj)
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Music Credits:
Artist: Lauren "SōLAUREN" Adams
Written by Lauren "SōLAUREN" Adams
Mix, Master, + Edit by Christopher "Wilke$" Wilkes
Vocal Production: Lauren "SōLAUREN" Adams
Beat: Track produced by SFRBeats.com (https://sfrbeats.com/)
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58min
February 26, 2026 Episode 13 - Birthday Blues Be Happenin
In this episode of the Alive, I Guess Podcast, RJ shares personal insights and lessons learned from experiencing multiple birthday blues and traumatic events over the past decade. They discuss overcoming fear of aging, celebrating life, and embracing the present moment.
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Instagram: @aliveiguesspodcast
TikTok: @aliveiguesspodcast
Watch Episodes on YouTube: Alive, I Guess Podcast
Join The Homies on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/AliveIGuessPodcast
Linktree: https://linktr.ee/AIGPodcast
Host: RJ (@simballic_rj)
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Music Credits:
Artist: Lauren "SōLAUREN" Adams
Written by Lauren "SōLAUREN" Adams
Mix, Master, + Edit by Christopher "Wilke$" Wilkes
Vocal Production: Lauren "SōLAUREN" Adams
Beat: Track produced by SFRBeats.com (https://sfrbeats.com/)
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31min
February 19, 2026 Episode 12 - Too Much Be Happenin
In this episode of the Alive, I Guess Podcast, RJ discusses the challenges of maintaining mental health and sanity in a chaotic world. They emphasize the importance of gratitude, community, and finding joy amidst suffering. RJ shares personal experiences and coping strategies while addressing the overwhelming nature of current events and the impact of information overload. The conversation culminates in a call to action for listeners to take control of their lives and prioritize self-care.
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Instagram: @aliveiguesspodcast
TikTok: @aliveiguesspodcast
Facebook: Alive, I Guess Podcast
Watch Episodes on YouTube: Alive, I Guess Podcast
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Linktree: https://linktr.ee/AIGPodcast
Host: RJ (@simballic_rj)
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Music Credits:
Artist: Lauren "SōLAUREN" Adams
Written by Lauren "SōLAUREN" Adams
Mix, Master, + Edit by Christopher "Wilke$" Wilkes
Vocal Production: Lauren "SōLAUREN" Adams
Beat: Track produced by SFRBeats.com (https://sfrbeats.com/)
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42min

FAQs about Alive, I Guess Podcast:

How many episodes does Alive, I Guess Podcast have?

The podcast currently has 21 episodes available.