In this fifth session on prayer, Fr. Gabriel continues exploring how a life of prayer reorients every aspect of our lives towards God. Drawing from Archimandrite Ioannikios’ book, The Beginnings of a Life of Prayer, he emphasizes that prayer isn’t only a time-bound activity but an ongoing process that permeates daily life, guiding us to seek communion with God rather than being overly attached to the things of this world.
The main theme of this session is obedience, a concept often misunderstood in modern culture as a loss of independence or as blind submission. However, in the Christian life, obedience is redefined as a willing alignment of our will with God’s, echoing Christ’s example in Gethsemane when he prayed, “Not my will, but yours be done.” Fr. Gabriel explains that true obedience comes from a place of freedom and love, where we freely choose to trust and follow God’s will over our own desires.
This relationship of obedience is not forced but cultivated through a deep connection with God. Fr. Gabriel encourages practicing obedience in small ways, such as consulting with spiritual mentors or trusted friends and seeking God’s guidance in prayer. He likens this to a relationship where, over time, we learn to listen, trust, and submit our will to God, thereby growing in humility and letting go of self-centeredness.
Fr. Gabriel concludes by reminding participants that obedience and humility are essential virtues in the Christian life, helping us form a deeper bond with God and align our lives with His will, ultimately leading us to spiritual growth and peace.