All About Your Benjamins™

In order to reach the version of yourself or the life you are Pursuing you need to move past the belief that your Pursuit is linear. The future you are pursuing already exists and is waiting on your to embody it today--think how you feel, what are you doing, who are you surrounded by, etc. Begin feeling those feelings and doing those things TODAY. In addition to sharing my thoughts on the topic, I pull in some reinforcements from James Clear's Atomic Habits.

Let's get to The Pursuit...

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The quote I forgot:

"As above, so below. As within, so without. As with the universe, so with the soul." -Hermes Trismegistus (found in The Emerald Tablets)

All About Your Benjamins with James Clear

Atomic Habits

The Emerald Tablets

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It's the return of The Pursuit. I've been busy (as I'm sure you have as well) and we catch up, level set what to expect from the show, and I share the roll signs from the Universe/God/High Being/etc. have played on my Pursuit and specifically three examples from the last couple of months.

I'm excited to get back and am looking forward to Friday morning recordings of The Pursuit.

Let's get into it...

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In this special episode, I get to help a friend launch his new Registered Investment Adviser (RIA), which is a huge honor. Allow me to introduce you to Matt Fizell, founder of Harmony Wealth. Matt is a great friend of mine, a fellow member of The AGC™, a top-notch financial advisor, and an overall great human being.

I asked him to join me for a special episode of The Pursuit to discuss how starting his own company aligned with his vision and allowed him to continue down the path of his own Pursuit. We may be talking about launching a financial planning firm but Matt's experience translates to all entrepreneurs and dreamers.

As of today, July 2nd, the audio version of the podcast is not ready--full disclosure I haven't had the chance to record my introductory segment but I will this weekend. So, be sure to check back next Tuesday for the audio version of this episode. For now, check out the video--you're only missing my ramblings, so you'll probably be just fine.

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All About Your Benjamins: Build The Addition

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In a recent call with Khe Hy, he challenged me to consider planting a single seed--shaking out everything else I work on to go all-in on one thing. This episode of All About Your Benjamins is an extension of that call. This was a fun conversation and a little personal as we each shared insight into decisions we make and why we've planted so many seeds in the past.

This will also be the last episode before taking a short break from the podcast to focus more energy on nurturing the existing trees I've grown and focusing more attention on a single seed. I'll be back and I have no doubt the podcast will be better than ever because I'll have more time and energy for it--it will be one of the couple seeds I'll be focusing on at that time 😀.

I also want to encourage you to consider Khe's next cohort of The $10k Bootcamp. If you're looking for help breaking through and arranging your time and energy to free you up to spend time on the high-value things in your life, this class is for you!

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As you go along your Pursuit you will most likely need a little help from loved ones, friends, and even strangers. You will not be able to open every door needed to reach your goals but others will--that door being opened could be an introduction to someone, could be an offer of employment, or it could just be a little emotional support to pick you up and keep you on your journey.

Others cannot help you---they cannot open those doors--if they do not know where you are going. Talking about your goals and aspirations is good because it has a similar effect as writing down your goals, which we've discussed in the past. But speaking about your aspirations is the only way other people will know when and if they can help you.

So, without being selfish and making conversations solely about yourself, share where you would like to be going or what you would like to be doing with others. You never know who might be able to help you get to the next stop on your Pursuit.

And don't forget to open doors for others whenever you can!

 

Manifest everything.

— Dasarte Yarnway (@DasarteYarnway) April 29, 2021

 

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This week's episode was inspired by my friend Derick Grant's visit to The AGC™. Derick's talk was centered around mindset but he spent a little bit of time discussing "fear" and he lead off with "Fear is not real. It's the feeling of fear that is real."

Insert head exploding emoji here.

Tune in to hear more about Derick's visit, how the feeling of fear, not fear itself, is slowing your Pursuit, and a few examples of how to handle your fear. Also be sure to check back on the blog Monday for a blog post that will have some exercises to help identify and overcome your feelings of fear.

"Fear, fear’s a powerful thing. I mean it’s got a lot of firepower. If you can figure out a way to wrestle that fear to push from behind rather than to stand in front of you, that’s very powerful." -Jimmy Iovine

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In this week's episode, we'll take a look at how the last few years have led me to taking the position of VP of Marketing and Brand at Onramp Invest--in hindsight it's so obvious why I was doing the things I was. We'll also talk about how when you're living on purpose the ability to manage multiple ventures and accomplish more becomes easier.

Read more about this week's announcement here.

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In this week's episode of The Pursuit I briefly put my financial advisor hat on to discuss the importance of financial planning for your pursuit and share how a financial advisor, who understands you have bigger aspirations that retirement and college planning, can help not only identify what you value the most, but help you align your finances with your pursuit. It's a little self-serving as this is the type of planning we do at RLS Wealth but I share this because it is important for your personal pursuit and to let you know there are more financial advisors taking this approach to planning--help is out there, you just need to know where to look. If you need help finding the "right" advisor to help you with your pursuit, let me know--I know plenty and would happily connect you with the advisor I think would be best to assist you.

Before we get to the importance of planning, I share some thoughts about how along your pursuit opportunities, conversations, and even chapters of a book present themselves at the most important, yet unexpected times.

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Notes For The Episode

During the episode, I reference Lao Tzu's Tao Te Ching, which you can grab a copy of here, and the specific chapter below.

The Empty Heart

From Lao Tzu's Tao Te Ching translated by Urusula K. Le Guin

"The greatest power is the gift 

of following the Way alone.

How the Way does things

is hard to grasp, elusive.

Elusive, yes, hard to grasp,

yet there are thoughts in it.

Hard to grasp, yes, elusive,

yet there are things in it.

Hard to make out, yes, and obsucre,

yet there is spirit in it,

veritable spirit.

There is certainty init.

From long, long ago till now

it has kept its name.

So it saw

the beginning of everything.

How do I know

anything about the beginning?

By this."

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What if I told you by putting your pursuit out in the Universe you are more likely to reach your destination or goals than if you kept it to yourself?

Now, I don't have any scientific data to back this up, but I have numerous real life experiences, both personally and through others, to convince me that I am more likely to reach my goals by sharing them with others--I rarely keep a goal or important aspiration to myself. I need it out in the universe so it can manifest itself.

Let's talk a little more about this...

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My Notes For The Episode

I don't usually "script" as much as I did for this episode, but as I began to write out my thoughts I couldn't stop writing. I ultimately decided it could have been a blog post and maybe someone would rather read it. So, don't get use to having a written version of every episode 😀 I didn't edit this--just copied and pasted it from Notion--so please excuse the errors.

Thanks, fellas.

You'll have to excuse my voice. It's spring time, which means allergies are kicking up and this is the result of a full day of talking...

I came into this evening's recording feeling confident I had a great subject planned out—earlier this week an idea came to me in the middle of the night. I confidently scribbled in a notebook next to my bed just enough to remember what I wanted to talk about.

I opened my notebook this evening to start recording and laughed—"leave open doors and not fully our journey" was what I wrote down. Leave open doors and not fully our journey—-what did this mean?!?

Well, I'm still not fully sure—I've got to make sure I do a better job of taking notes in the middle of the night going forward.

But—the notes still worked.

As I struggled to remember exactly what I was thinking, a idea along a similar thread came to me. I think it's connected to the doors and I'll eventually get there.

As we continue to discuss our pursuit—the pursuit of happiness, of purpose, of the next phase of life, whatever it is you might be pursuing I want to discuss the power of putting your wishes out into the universe to manifest themselves.

What do I mean by this?

There are many ways...

1.) write it down—your eyes only. But what fun is that?

2.) Tell someone

3.) Create content

4.) Social media

You have to do more than just think it—-there's something about saying or writing it down.

A real life example—I may have shared in a past episode—I can't remember since most of these episodes I'm just sitting down and hitting record. I love this story...

Last year my wife found a piece of paper she had written goals down on in 2019. Part of the key to this story is she FOUND the piece of paper—meaning it was "lost", forgotten about, and not something she looked at every day as a reminder. As she reviewed her goals, every single one of them had come true, even though she wasn't intentionally focused on them. Some of these goals, like revenue goal for her business, were out of her control and yet she still reached them. Now obviously, writing them down—that action in itself did not make them come true—but she never would have reached them if she didn't write them down. A goal cannot be reached—-your pursuit cannot be successful if the destination is not documented somewhere.

Another benefit of sharing your goals is the ability of others to help you. If you never share where you want to go how can anyone make an introduction, an investment, or offer support to help you on your pursuit? If they don't know, they can't help.

I have a good friend, Nyle Bayer who is ridiculously talented when it comes to many things—but his passion is music. He's in finance but I know his first and true love is music. The intro music to this podcast and many of my videos is his work—I love it. In an effort to help him pursue his passion and find a new source of purpose and happiness, I put it out in the universe that I wanted him to m...

Chef Lauren Owens, the official chef of FinTwit, joins me for a real life look at leaving a "safe" situation for one that brings more fulfillment, purpose, and happiness. In this episode, Lauren shares her journey to becoming a chef, then to branching out to become her own boss, to becoming the finance community's favorite chef, and her pursuit to opening The Tiny Onion.

Following your passions and aligning your career and life with those passions is not always possible and it certainly is not easy. But, hearing from those who have successfully navigated those waters and are on their way to bigger and better can be inspiring, informative, and even entertaining. I will bring more guests on to share their journey, but today, let's hear from Chef Lauren Owens...

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While Lauren promotes eating your veggies, and not so much ice cream, I couldn't pass up the opportunity to sneak in a video from hip-hop's chef 😉

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