(PUBLISHED 10:55 PM)

"Staying together "for the kids" can cause more harm than good. Modeling unhappy, tension-filled and chaotic behavior may lead to a high tolerance for dysfunction in their relationships and warp their perception of what love actually is." ~ By Anonymous

The word "cycle" kept running through my head as I was writing. The ending result of that word is this episode.

I truly hope these quick 6 minutes can make a lightbulb shine bright for someone who needs it. If it makes sense, you agree, and would even do something different leave a comment telling me ya thoughts. I'd love to hear!

Peace & Blessings,

Shanda

(PUBLISHED 12:03 AM)

I kept tryin' to figure out the unspoken language with birds and realized I shouldn't force it. So one day while taking a break - I spoke out loud to them, and boy was I NOT ready for the response I received!

The response of course was unspoken - but oh so beautiful and pure genius. I love how we're all connected in this circle of life, and I love HOW we connect. Everyone can connect - ya just gotta pay attention.

Peace & Blessings,

~Shanda

#TalkerToAnimals

(PUBLISHED 3:28 PM)

Y'all I never stopped to ask if you guys (the LGBTQ community) even cared about doin' away with the labels. In this pod I ask questions, and make suggestions for new names that are minimalistic in nature; please let me know what you think about the names.

It's interesting 'cause just like the word "NIGGER" was forced on a people, so was the word "HOMOSEXUAL". You know what happened? A people adopted those words and made them into what they felt was appropriate for them; so NIGGER became NIGGA and HOMOSEXUAL became the rainbow and alphabet line. 

I mean I get it; havin' a need to express/describe oneself for ya'self for the sole purpose of retainin' that power over ya'self. It makes sense! It also confuses the hell outta people lol. 

I believe my breakdown makes sense too, and would make things so much easier and less judgmental. But what are your thoughts?

Peace & Blessings,

~Shanda

#SSL #SSLQ #OSL

(PUBLISHED 10:28 AM)

The pure genius of this man brought tears to my eyes as I listened to one of his songs.

In a moment, I recognized the similarity between his artistry and mine and in a moment, I recognized how much better I can become. How much more I can do. How what I'm currently working on, is leading me down-that-same-road. 

And it overwhelmed me to the point of tears - but happy tears. The more I listen to this man's masterpieces, the more I connect to him on another level. It's so strange - I never expected this to happen but it did. I know it's for a reason.

After praising this amazing man - he gave me the love right back! Thank you Prince/Alien lol, for the love. 

Peace & Blessings,

~Shanda

(PUBLISHED 1:00 PM)

Strong women need strong - if not stronger men.

If a woman is very strong, she doesn't need a man or another woman in her life that'll try to dim her light due to their own shortcomings. She needs a man in her life who will be her equal or greater. The point is, to not be a subtraction in her life but an addition.

If one finds themselves to be easily jealous, envious and constantly in competition with your spouse - then that's not the spouse for you. Actually, no spouse is for you in that case; you'd just need to work on your inner self. Reflect in order to understand why you feel such a lack within oneself. Why does the greatness in your spouse triggers you to project negativity towards them? Inner work is the key.  

We all have many lessons to learn, and we all have constant growing to do. Just make sure that YOU DO seek to grow. Don't stay stagnant; complacency kills.

Peace & Blessings,

~Shanda

(PUBLISHED 12:44 PM)

Women have both - now how we choose to lead with them is up to us. Right?

Apparently not, 'cause either way we'll be judged for being to sexual or too smart! Ain't that 'bouta b&tch?! LOL!

Personally, I don't pass judgement on which one a woman chooses to use however, I DO pass judgement if it's consciously bein' used to hurt/harm another individual.

Do what you want with ya body (IT'S YOUR HUMAN AVATAR TO MOLD) - I hope you don't hurt ya'self. But make sure if you can - not to hurt another person in the process or it could come back to you.

What are your thoughts on women choosing to use either their box or brain for progress?

Peace & Blessings,

~Shanda

(PUBLISHED 3:12 PM)

Happy early Cinco de Mayo, if you celebrate it! TEQUILA lol!

SIDE NOTE: No seriously, where's the good tequila? And I'm talkin' about the "real" tequila, made with 100% agave - okay! The first time I had real tequila was at an establishment called 'Mr. Tequila', located in Puerto Vallarta, Mexico. The owner gave me the full rundown on how real tequila is made, and he even had a variety of delicious flavors to choose from! Sadly, he isn't doing business with the U.S., due to us bein' on some bulls&*$ - but it's all good. I'll just savor the flavors when I go back lol!

This podcast isn't about tequila y'all, I just got sidetracked lol! I am talkin' about marijewana though, and how best it can be utilized. 

Wanna know? Then listen...

Peace & Blessings,

~Shanda

(PUBLISHED 2:49 PM)

Fame. Many want it, some don't; is it worth it?

How would you utilize fame if you had it? It's definitely not something I want or wish for, but should it find me I plan to use it as a form of protection. What do I mean?

Listen to find out.

Peace & Blessings,

~Shanda

(PUBLISHED 9:35 PM)

It's happening! It's happening! The SHIFT!

A shift in consciousness out dis B&*%#!

Peace & Blessings,

~Shanda

(PUBLISHED 9:18 PM)

You eva look at a cloud and recognize it resembles something on the ground?

You eva wonder why clouds tend to take on forms of things, animals, people and even places we may know?

It would seem the earth has a story to tell us - does it not?

Peace & Blessings,

~Shanda