(PUBLISHED 5:13 PM)

I would think E-VER-Y-ONE, should relate to this episode because we've ALL been children at one point in our lives. Being able to understand a child from their "point-of-view" is extremely important if-we-really-care-about-the-child. 

Which means in order to relate to the child - we must remember ourselves as a child. What did we see, hear, taste or touch, in our childhood's that left a negative or positive mark in to our adulthood? Life experience's shape us all; whether it be good/bad or evil. Period. 

What are your thoughts? I'd love to hear!

Peace & Blessings,

~Shanda

(PUBLISHED 1:12 PM)

Lettin' it hang out. There's two parts to this y'all, be sure to play both. Keep tryin' if the system is being stubborn!

I hope you join me.

Peace & Blessings,

~Shanda

(PUBLISHED 5:16 PM)

CHANGE. The one constant. The inevitable. The unavoidable.

I understand why change is necessary - as we must keep up with the times. If we don't we'll surely be left behind.

This episode speaks of change regarding our current landscape, and why it's imperative to change how we do things or be subject to constant extermination. To many of us are dying by the hands of the mentally ill, and something MUST be done to rectify this situation. 

Two days ago, a 19 year old black woman from North Carolina, was murdered by the hands of her boyfriend. This trend of boyfriends murdering black woman and then the men of course either killing themselves or ending up in a prison, is a surefire way to eliminating our existence.

Sometimes, I feel like it's an agenda (a part of a bigger plan) that seeks to remove us from society. I also wonder about "chips" within humans and cloning, which allows another to take control of you as if you were a robot - "PROGRAMMED" to do unimaginable things. But this would be considered conspiracy theory...right? 

Nothin' is to far-fetched nowadays...in my humble opinion.

Let me know ya thoughts on the episode. 

Peace & Blessings,

~Shanda

(PUBLISHED 12:23 PM)

A word many take issue with - usually due to an unfair or unjust act. Other times, folks have an issue with acceptance EVEN when they're the one in the wrong. 

Acceptance is needed to weather any storm - por ejemplo; a judge allowed a former spouse to withhold my children from me via phone/Facetime last Thanksgiving, last Christmas, last New Years Eve/New Years Day and their 4th birthday this year. But this same judge also negated much of my evidence during trial due to me not having an attorney.

Today is Thanksgiving 2021 (which I didn't even know until I looked at my calendar lol), but I accepted the fact that this former spouse would still withhold my children from me via phone/Facetime this year. And so far she has - which doesn't surprise me at all. 

I ACCEPT who she is. I ACCEPT what she has shown me to be her truth. 

Just as she must ACCEPT the bridge is forever burned and that the CHILDREN and possibly the WORLD - will know exactly WHO-SHE-IS. 

She's ALWAYS been a fan of the limelight; get ready to be lit. 🔥 

"Guess who's goin' to jail tonight?!" ~Kanye West

Peace & blessings,

~Shanda

(PUBLISHED 1:52 PM)

It's to big y'all - too big and out of control and when it gets too big and out of control, crazy things start happenin'.

Balance is needed...

Peace & Blessings,

~Shanda

(PUBLISHED 1:31 PM)

I want y'all to stop gettin' ya feelings so hurt over social media, okay?

I'm gon need y'all lol, to not take certain things so personal 'cause there's always reasonin' behind "WHY" certain things happen.

What do I mean? Allow me to explain....

Peace & Blessings,

~Shanda

(PUBLISHED 1:25 PM)

Change is in the air y'all, and with this change comes intense energy.

It's gettin' dark y'all and WE have to do something about it. 

What do I mean? Tune in....

Peace & Blessings,

~Shanda

(PUBLISHED 3:41 PM)

This message hit me like a ton of bricks today. I speak to myself a lot lol, and in doin' so I gain so much clarity about so many things!

It hit me as to what I'm lookin' for in a future spouse - I mean I always knew, but for some reason it was made more clear to me today. 

I decided to speak on it 'cause I felt someone out there may need the message - just as much as I did. I'm grateful. I hope it can help y'all.

Peace & Blessings,

~Shanda

(PUBLISHED 11:30 AM)

Accountability is a word many run from 'cause it seems easier to blame other people for our problems.

I've definitely learned that one must "own up" to our part in ANY situation in order to figure out where one went wrong, and how to make sure it doesn't happen again AKA "not repeating toxic cycles".

I'd love ya feedback!

Peace & Blessings,

~Shanda

(PUBLISHED 11:29 AM)

Hey y'all!

Somethin' wasn't sittin' right with my soul and I had to speak on it - 'cause my intuition kept pullin' at me to re-evaluate some sh&t lol.

I needed to set the record straight as well as myself; listen and let me know what you think.

Peace & Blessings,

~Shanda