Pastor Daniel Simmons preaches from 1 Peter 5 on Shepherds for our Life Together Series.
Who Are Shepherds and What Do We Do With Them?
1 Peter 5:1-7
Exegetical Main Point: Peter calls Shepherds and sheep to humble themselves before God in their respective roles.
Main Point of the Sermon: : Shepherds, humble yourselves before God in the way you serve, and sheep, in the way you submit yourselves to your shepherds.
Introduction
I’m a PK, a pastor’s kid so I grew up in the church. And that experienced is quite mixed. I have many fond memories like singing with my family in the church pews, often being led by my Dad. But I also experienced a lot of confusion as I watched my parents endure very painful situations. My dad faced much defeat in his ministry, including many complaints against him, some small and some more substantial. The most challenging actually was a few years back when about fifteen members of his two-year-old church plant came to him just before a Sunday service and asked him to resign because they didn’t feel like the church was growing fast enough under his leadership.
I’ve been in your shoes also as a sheep submitting to flawed men. I could share a number of other stories of ways I’ve been hurt by church leaders. I’ve also ministered as a shepherd, trying to care for sometimes very challenging people and have also been made all the more aware of my weaknesses and sin, which can be very discouraging. Pastor Mark Devers recently said that he’s getting calls almost daily from men who are ready to step away from ministry because of its challenges.
Now, I’m not there, but as both a sheep and a shepherd, there’s been a lot of joy, but also pain for me in the church.
And what’s sad about this is that I’m not the exception. We’ve been reminded in the last few weeks just how common this experience is for both sheep and shepherd.
This sermon is titled “Who Are Shepherds and What Do We Do With Them?”
We are including this sermon as part of our Life Together series because:
God has set up his church with a particular structure of leadership that we want to follow in an accurate and healthy way. So, today we will explore what the Bible says about 1) who shepherds are 2) what they are called to do and 3) how the church (the sheep) should respond to them.
We’re including this sermon because, historically, communities rise and fall based on its leadership. Good Christian leaders have been catalysts for great Gospel movements and others have brought about disgrace to Christ’s name and have led many astray by both their teaching and their character. So, as your God-ordained shepherds, we want to remind you of the commitment we make to you as your pastors and invite you to hold us accountable as we seek to faithfully fulfill the call God has given us to shepherd the flock.
Because there are so many opportunities for suffering for both sheep and shepherds in the church, we want to offer comfort to you that God will ultimately reward your suffering as each of us endure through trust in God.
Let’s Pray
GOD:
Context: Speed through this.
We just read from 1 Peter, a book written by the Apostle Peter most likely around the mid-60’s A.D. to the many churches near and far who were being persecuted. These churches were hurting, confused, discouraged and they needed comfort. So, Peter, who had both witnessed Christ’s sufferings and resurrection and himself was enduring suffering, wanted to show God’s people how to suffer faithfully as they follow Christ. Our text applies the same message to both sheep and shepherds. Let’s look at verse 1.
vv. 1-2
So I exhort the elders among you, as a fellow elder and a witness of the sufferings of Christ, as well as a partaker in the glory that is going to be revealed:
Who – office of elder
The Apostle Peter exhorts the elders among the churches. His letter would have been heard by everyone in the churches, and Peter had a specific exhortation for the elders. That word “exhort” is a strong one. It’s not a “maybe try this” but a “you must do this” urgent kind of word for the elders.
Who are the elders? I need to get nerdy here for a minute. (I’m sorry for stealing your thunder, Ross. Ross is our resident nerd on staff. Truthfully, I don’t know where our church would be without him.) The word “elder” comes from the Greek word πρεσβύτερος, meaning relatively advanced in age (BDAG). The elderly of the community were generally the wiser who would lead. Now, we know from the book of Timothy that not all elders were elderly – Timothy was a young man appointed by the Apostle Paul as an elder – but they were regardless the wiser and more mature of the community who were appointed to lead the church. This leadership office is also called overseer in Scripture, but elder is the most commonly used title for the leaders of the church.
So the Bible teaches that an elder is a particular office of the church appointed by God to lead the church.
How were they appointed? In Acts we see Paul and Barnabas appointing elders for the churches in each town, and likewise, Titus, Paul’s disciple, is called to do the same. So elders are simply sheep themselves who are appointed by other elders who see that they are qualified and competent to lead God’s church.
Notice also that Peter address “elder(s)” (plural) among you. Consistently, in the Bible you will find churches being led by not just one man but by a plurality of elders (Titus 1:5; Acts 14:23; 1 Pet. 5:1-2). This is important, though it has been overlooked by many in our generation to the detriment of the church. One important reason for this is that each elder has different gifts used to equip the church – some elders thrive at starting new churches, some at teaching, some at making disciples, and some at calling their community to repentance. Without multiple leaders with multiple gifts, the church suffers. I’m not saying every church has to have every one of these gifts present on the elder team, though that would be ideal, but rather that God appoints a plurality of leaders for the good of the church.
Further, we know from the list of qualifications for elders in Timothy and Titus that elders must be men (1 Tim. 3:1-7; Titus 1:5-9). Scripture teaches that this detail is an implication of God’s created order. He made man first and then the women. Just as in the home God calls men to lovingly lead their wives, so too in the church he calls men to lovingly lead the congregation. In both cases, this position of leadership is one of sacrifice and responsibility, not comfort and privilege, as we’ll see in just a minute.
So Peter addresses the elders, and he addresses them as a “fellow elder”. Not only is he an Apostle, he also served as an elder of God’s church.
Further, Peter reminds the elders that he is a witness of the sufferings of Christ and that he is also “a partaker in the glory that is going to be revealed.” I believe Peter is reminding them of his qualification to make such a charge. As someone who saw Christ die with his own eyes, and who is himself enduring suffering with Christ and these other men, he is basically saying, “We’re in this together, elders, I share in both your suffering and the future hope.
So, what is the exhortation?
We’ve explored the “who” of pastors. Now we get into the “what” or the function of elders. What are we called to do?
Read verse 2.
2 shepherd the flock of God that is among you, exercising oversight…
First, the image Scripture gives of God’s church should warm your heart. Whatever your view or experience of the church, I need you to see that God sees his church as his flock. If you remember Psalm 23, “The Lord is my Shepherd, I shall not want,” you’ll know that God loves his flock very much. He cares for his people tenderly and carefully, like a shepherd would care for his flock.
And God has called others, like Peter, into fellowship with him to love and care for his flock alongside him. You may remember that Peter was called by Jesus just before his ascension to feed his lambs. Now, this same Peter reminds the elders to have this same mind – “shepherd God’s flock.”
Elders are shepherds. This is where we get the word “pastor” that we use so commonly for elders. Pastor is a Latin word meaning Shepherd. Elders, or pastors, are shepherds who care for the sheep, the people of God.
How are they to care for the sheep?
What better example than Christ who calls himself “the Good Shepherd”.
Whereas David calls Yahweh his Shepherd in Psalm 23, Jesus claims in John 10 to be that Shepherd. He says, “I am the door of the sheep… if anyone enters by me, he will be saved and will go in and out and find pasture. The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy. I came that they may have life and have it abundantly. I am the good shepherd. The good shepherd lays down his life for the sheep” (vv. 7-11).
Slow down here:
Jesus’s point is that he has come to give his people everything they need for abundant life, even unto eternal life. Even though the shepherds of Israel had failed for many years to lead the people to God, God promised in Ezekiel 34:15 “I myself will tend my sheep and have them lie down, declares the Sovereign Lord.” Friends, Jesus fulfills this promise. God came in the person of Christ to rescue us! He is the GOOD Shepherd. He is the good leader humanity needs and has been longing for.
So when Jesus calls Peter to feed his lambs, and likewise, Peter calls the elders to shepherd the flock of God, he is, in essence, calling them to make sure that the sheep keep coming to him, to Christ, that they would never try to find a different way, a different kind of happiness, because it is only a path of destruction; God is the only path to life.
Shepherds are called to lead the flock to where they can meet with Jesus and find joy in him, to feed the flock the very words of Christ so that their souls will be nourished and built up into maturity in him, held fast in their faith. Negatively, shepherds are called to keep watch over the flock that they would not wander into sinful paths, into false teaching that would destroy their souls. This is where church discipline comes into play.
Ultimately, the purpose and goal of the shepherd’s ministry is the same as Christ’s, to help the flock find and hold fast to eternal life in Christ in the face of many trials and temptations.
But there is a problem. There is a reason Peter needs to exhort the elders. Notice Peter’s words starting in the second half of verse 2 through 3, where Peter warns against three common temptations shepherds face.
vv. 2-4
Leading under compulsion
Leading for shameful gain
Leading in a domineering way
I want to give some examples that highlight these dangers that I think apply to Peter’s warning.
Leading under compulsion: “Do I really have to deal with that person again?” “Ugh…I have to preach again this Sunday. They don’t even listen to me.” “How can I minister to those who slander me?” “How can I care for those who take advantage of my family’s time?” “I just need to get through this Sunday” This would include dreading your work, despising it, having a serious dislike for the people etc.
Sheep who experience this see a leader who often fails to lead, who is cold and perhaps bitter or reclusive. There’s a lack of joy.
But Peter says, don’t lead this way, but lead “willingly, as God would have you.”
Leading for shameful gain: “How do they expect me to care for them well when they barely pay me enough to scrape by” “Well… It is a good paying job” “This role really boosts my position in society” “This will be a great launching pad to what I really want to do” This would include greedy, sleezy, deceitful, and haughty behavior. Sheep who experience this often may learn of a moral failure from their pastor, or may just get the sense that their shepherd cares more about his appearance and status before men than he does the holiness of the people.
Peter says, don’t lead this way, but eagerly.
Leading in a domineering way “They won’t do it my way…Then find someone else” “It’s my way or the highway” “It’s my pulpit” “It’s my church” “I’m the elder” “I’m the lead Pastor, who does that other leader think they are?” This would include intimidating, manipulating, bullying behavior. Sheep who experience this often come away from time with the Shepherd with their tails between their legs, feeling disrespected and about two feet tall.
Peter says, don’t lead this way, but instead lead by example.
There are a number of things that lead Shepherds to act in these sorts of ways, but I believe the core issue that applies to every flawed pastor is when their own hearts are not moved by the love and mercy of God towards themselves or towards the flock whom they are called to care for. This leads to a cold heart that overlooks the gravity of the role they’ve been given.They’ve forgotten just how much mercy has been shown to them.
Maybe you’ve experienced some of these nasty sinful behaviors from your pastors in the past or perhaps presently at All peoples Church. I’m so sorry. I’m so sorry if you’ve been hurt directly or indirectly by us. Further, I’m truly sorry that we who have been called to be an example of Christ’s loving care to you so often fail you in our sinfulness.
But what I need you to know is that Jesus never serves you out of compulsion. He didn’t come out of compulsion, forgive you out of compulsion, die out of compulsion, or give you his Spirit out of compulsion, but willingly, joyfully, eagerly. He walked among us and entered into mine and your sinful stink because he loved us. It wasn’t for selfish gain, nor was it domineering, but rather he has always been patient, going the extra mile even when we have resisted him.
It is only when Shepherds see this picture of Christ that we will be moved to willingly, joyfully, eagerly serve the flock of God. We must be led by his example of leadership and we must ourselves be following Jesus as sheep if we are going to be faithful examples to others.
Peter gives these warnings because he himself knows that only Jesus is sinless in his leadership.
But he also offers hope in verse 4 to shepherds who fight to serve faithfully.
4 And when the chief Shepherd appears, you will receive the unfading crown of glory.
Friends, ministry is hard because people are hard and sinful.
Even when one has pure motives to serve the flock of God, the challenges of life and ministry along with the sinful responses of those we serve can tempt shepherds to sinful and dangerous behavior.
But Peter here reminds the elders who suffer in their role, that Jesus, the chief Shepherd will again appear. It’s not a matter of if, but when! And when he appears, Peter says, those who have endured faithfully in their labor will receive glory and honor that is unfading, even as Christ himself was exalted to glory. These words give me so much hope.
Now, we’ve answered the questions “who are shepherds?” and “what do they do”. But we need to cover another very important question, “how should the church relate to shepherds?” What do you do with Ross, Sam, and I?
YOU
Read verse 5 with me
vv. 5-7
5 Likewise, you who are younger, be subject to the elders. Clothe yourselves, all of you, with humility toward one another, for “God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble.”
How are sheep to respond to the shepherds? Sheep are called to “be subject” to the shepherds. This is a loaded word and topic all together, so it’s important that we define this term. Secondly, we need to answer who the “younger” refers to. Who exactly must be subject to the elders?
Define: ὑποτάσσω: “to submit to the orders or directives of someone—‘to obey, to submit to, obedience, submission.’”[1]
This word is describing a relationship with ordered roles. Peter uses this same term to describe the relationship of servants to their masters, citizens to their ruler, wives to their husbands, and even the church to Christ.
See why I say this is a loaded term? Our culture hates the idea that anyone could lead you with this sort of authority. This topic is actually at the core of most philosophical, political, economic, and even racial debates. But it’s not only our culture who baulks at authority. So do I. This is true from birth! My little two-month-old hates to be denied his desires. Anyone with kids knows what I’m talking about, right?
I understand why so many baulk at this idea of authority. There have been a lot of bad leaders throughout history. We’d rather be responsible for our own failures than have someone else responsible for them, right? I get it!
Even so, Church, this is a command of God who created the earth, including the order of all things in it.
And I need you to see the beauty in this God-given command.
Friend, when Peter calls you to welcome the elder’s leadership in your life, he’s not saying that they will always lead you perfectly – that’s clear from the previous warnings – but that God ultimately has your good in mind. This is not a malevolent ploy of religious leaders to gain as much power of humans as possible, but the effort of a tender-hearted God who is concerned for the well-being of his sheep.
Listen to Jesus’s response to what he saw as he ministered throughout Israel: “When Jesus saw the crowds, he had compassion for them, because they were harassed and helpless, like sheep without a shepherd”(Mt 9:36).
Don’t you see the compassion of God? This is just before Jesus called the disciples to pray for more laborers for the harvest. There weren’t enough leaders to help these harassed sheep!
Friends, whether you have a good reason to fear submitting to another’s leadership or not today, I need you to understand God’s good purpose in it. He is for you. He wants abundant life for you. And if Christ is the example shepherds are called to follow, than you can trust that even in submitting to your elders, God has good in mind for you.
Listen also to Heb. 13:17, which captures this same point: 17 Obey your leaders and submit to them, for they are keeping watch over your souls, as those who will have to give an account. Let them do this with joy and not with groaning, for that would be of no advantage to you.
Peter and the author of Hebrews believe that you will benefit and thrive more by joyfully receiving our care for you than you will having a resistant attitude or heart.
Hebrews also touches on our second question, who must be subject to the elders? Hebrews clearly directs the entire church to obey and submit to their leaders, but who are “the younger” Peter is talking about in verse 5?
Bible scholars agree, Peter is not singling out young people here. He is using words skillfully, contrasting the two groups of people in the entire community, “elders” and “younger”. Even as the elders were relatively older than most in the community, even if just in maturity, the rest of the community were for the most part younger in age and also those urged to submit to the other group, the elders.
I believe Peter may also be offering a warning to the church, even as he has been offering warnings to the elders. It is the temptation especially of the young, both in age and maturity to rebel against authority. Peter is challenging the church not to be like rebellious teenagers, or two month old’s… Everyone is called to submit to the oversight of their elders, even when they don’t like what they are doing. I’ll touch more on this in a moment.
Peter follows this charge with these important words, “clothe yourselves” in humility. In fact, all of you must clothe yourselves in humility – sheep towards other sheep, sheep towards shepherd, and shepherd towards sheep. You’ve got to wear humility like a garment. Notice, this is not a passive activity, but one that requires personal action from every one of us – you must clothe yourselves. Humility doesn’t come naturally. It must be practiced continually, even as you dress yourself daily. Especially in the Christian community, Peter says, it must be practiced if a community is going to thrive. Pride, on the other hand, is at the center of strife in all our relationships, with one another, with sheep and shepherd, even with God.
This is why Peter quotes this somber warning from the Proverbs: “God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble.”
Peter’s burden is about more than submission to shepherds. It’s about our submission to God. Sheep and shepherd relationships, and all relationships for that matter, tell us something about our relationship with God. Verses 6 and 7 makes this clear:
6 Humble yourselves, therefore, under the mighty hand of God so that at the proper time he may exalt you, 7 casting all your anxieties on him, because he cares for you.
Don’t you see? God is saying that when you humble yourself, even before imperfect shepherds, humbly following them, you are ultimately humbling yourself before God. In the same way, when we reject the care of those whom God has placed over us, whether their correction or counsel or teaching, we are actually proudly opposing God. Friends, your pastors are not ultimate, but God is. And we don’t want God as our enemy.
The same is true for Shepherds. When we lay down our lives for sometimes ungrateful and stubborn sheep, we are humbling ourselves before God. But when we take matters into our own hands and try to proudly control those same people in the ways mentioned above, we are ultimately squaring up with God. We oppose him.
Some of you are anxious over our leadership, our teaching, or other things. Perhaps you have been hurt by us or others. Yet you continue to submit to us lovingly and humbly. You pray for us. You show up and serve. You don’t slander us or complain, but you cast your cares on God. First of all, thank you. Thank you.
If this is true of you, we would encourage you to come to us with your honest challenges and questions. (This is why we have a pastoral covenant that we make to you in order that you might hold us accountable to God’s call on us – I hope each of you got a copy.) Casting your cares on God doesn’t negate the call to keep your elders accountable. There’s a time for challenging others, leaving a church, defying a government, even for leaving a marriage. But I think we are far too quick to do so, and often far too worldly in our approach.
Taking matters into your own hands, some of you have resorted to gossip and slander, defiance, and some have simply left without saying anything. Some have caused division, even hindering the mission of God.
Peter says, humble yourselves under the mighty hand of God. God opposes the proud, but gives grace to the humble.
Humility, friends, is the key to enduring challenging ministry situations or challenging sinful leadership.
And humility works itself out in trust.
First, it trusts that God will exalt you at the proper time (v. 6). Humility believes that God has your good in mind even if you feel like your leaders don’t see you or know your potential or agree with your perspective.
Secondly, humility “casts all your anxieties on God”, trusting that God cares for you. Right now. In this moment. In that challenging situation you are walking through. God cares for you. He will vindicate you in his time.
Humility in relationships looks like us laying aside our proud natural instinct to try to control others and the outcome of situations and instead trusting God to ultimately bring about the change we want to see in another. Yes, we should confront sin. Yes, we should challenge what we think may be poor leadership, but we should do so with a heart submitted to God, which has first prayed for the person or situation and served diligently while trusting that God knows and cares.
In chapter 2, Peter reminds us that Christ did the same for us:
21 To this you were called, because Christ suffered for you, leaving you an example, that you should follow in his steps.
22 “He committed no sin,
and no deceit was found in his mouth.”[a]
23 When they hurled their insults at him, he did not retaliate; when he suffered, he made no threats. Instead, he entrusted himself to him who judges justly.
Are you following in Christ’s steps in the way you suffer in his church?
When we humble ourselves before God and others, we are following in Christ’s footsteps. You are suffering with him. And those who suffer with him like this are promised also be raised with him.
WE
Suffering is sure to come as Christian, and sadly, often in the family of God. But God has given us instruction knowing the challenges we would face and he has kindly given us hope for a future without suffering in his glory.
Church, this hope-filled response to suffering is what sets us apart from the world. It is often a greater witness to the world than our words.
What if it began in the church with one another? In how we relate to sheep and shepherd and to one another, we must live as Christ lived and follow his example. We long for the promised day together, humbling ourselves to God, trusting that he cares for us, both now and for eternity.
Let’s Pray
Benediction:
10 And after you have suffered a little while, the God of all grace, who has called you to his eternal glory in Christ, will himself restore, confirm, strengthen, and establish you. 11 To him be the dominion forever and ever. Amen.
[1] Louw, J. P., & Nida, E. A. (1996). Greek-English lexicon of the New Testament: based on semantic domains(electronic ed. of the 2nd edition., Vol. 1, p. 467). New York: United Bible Societies.