How is catfishing still a thing in modern times? With all the technology that exist you would think that fewer people would be dealing with the excruciating pain of meeting up with someone in person, only to be disappointed because they look nothing like they said or the pictures they sent. We discuss all of this and more in this weeks episode of ATNS. Sip Sip!

We're on episode 82 and we thought we'd take a minute to get to know one another a little more and to give you an opportunity to learn a little more about Jay, Elle and Shea.  So we're playing the card game "Do you know me" with a slight variation.  

We decided we needed to do a lighthearted episode and so we're playing a little bit of Black Trivia. Join in and see how many answer you get right.

What does Legacy mean today, how do we go about leaving a legacy and what if you don't have kids, does legacy matter? We tackle those questions and we also sip on a juicy topic in the unsolicited advice segment. 

We're discussing Colorism within the communities of color and the saying of not being black enough. Why do these two things exist and how can we as a planet do better in accepting all complexions regardless of what our hair looks like, how we talk or how we dress. 

Merry Christmas Sippers! Its our last episode of 2019 and our gift to you is an early release of this weeks episode in which we discuss sex trafficking, rape and policing women. Serious sippage we know but its a needed a conversation. Hopefully what we discuss will give you the strength to have this conversation with those you know.

2019 is wrapping up so we decided to recap some of the top events, movies, shows and songs from 2019.  We get shocked by one of our guest and his experience with an edible from this past week, he was lost in the sauce.

Forget what ya heard. We don't celebrate Trump over here. The orange one gets no love on ATNS and for the record this is our first episode ever that we're dedicating to politics but of course you know we have to discuss a few other shady topics as well as a heated "that sounds about right segment"

To many people want to be the victim instead of being the person admitting that they're reason things aren't working out. We need more personal ownership and less victimization in relationships. So in this episode the ATNS crew talk about taking ownership of our lives and what it means to us when we think about the saying "own your shit" and whether or not we know people who never take ownership.

There's always interesting topics on social media and in this episode of ATNS we pull some juicy post from strangers on social media and give our unsolicited advice about the scenario they've posted about. Is it good advice? Well we aren't so sure but you be the judge.