We're kicking off our 9-part series exploring Andie Nordgren's Relationship Anarchy Manifesto, one principle at a time. In this episode, we dive into the first principle: "Love is abundant, and every relationship is unique." We unpack what love actually means to us inside relationship anarchy, challenge the scarcity mindset (love isn't a pie with limited slices), and explore why no relationship needs to be labeled "primary" to be real for us.
We recorded this one live, and the conversation opens up into audience Q&A — we cover consent and hierarchy, how we tell whether a partner needs something different vs. is actually asking for hierarchy, and why comparing our relationships isn't always a bad thing.
Topics we cover:
- What "love" really means to us in a relationship anarchy context
- Abundance mindset vs. scarcity thinking
- Prioritization vs. hierarchy — what's the real difference
- Why comparison between relationships can be useful, not harmful
- Live Q&A: consent, hierarchy, and honoring different relationship needs
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