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All we know about the date


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When younger Umbert used to date many girls, meeting them during his numerous weekends traveling around the world.
From his experiences and readings here is All we know about the date.
Several things could attract girls: your appearance, intelligence, money, social status, kindness, attitude, style, all of those or some of these.
Something that you have they cannot describe, but that they resume with ‘he has it all”.
It’s sometimes strange that girls will tell you that they don’t like selfish boys while they seem to be sometimes attracted by the mystery that comes with it.
It could also be all that is wrong with you that they, in fact, like.
Who knows?
One day an Indian woman told Umbert: “French like to fall in love.”
That’s maybe why French date a lot.
“Love as a drug, like suicide, as a gift, as laziness.”, Christian Bobin, French poet.
1) Why are you single?

Let’s start with the truth or the reasons.
Why are you still single?
According to Aaron Zhu in Medium, here are 7 brutally honest reasons why you’re still single:

* You don’t go out much.
* You haven’t moved on from your ex.
* You’re nitpicky.
* Your self-esteem is too high.
* Your self-esteem is too low.
* You’re too mysterious (you don’t embrace vulnerability).
* You’re too independent.

Moreover, Tesia Blake adds in Medium All the Wrong Reasons Why You’re Afraid to Say “I Love You,” or maybe why you’re afraid of a long term relationship:

* You’re afraid they won’t say it back.
* You expect someone else to be responsible for your happiness.
* You believe you’re responsible for the other person’s happiness.
* “I love you” is not a binding promise.
* They might break your heart. Let them.
* Love is not like your actual heart — you do have more than one.
* And now that your fears are gone. Go enjoy love. Give it freely. Embrace the possibility that you might fall on your face instead of letting that fear stop you from living.

Going from single to a relationship is a change, but girls won’t take your life, they will be part of it. As your partner, not only in crime, they will make your life better, with more substance.
You can read the lovely article Fall In Love With Someone, But Don’t Fall Out Of Love With Yourself by Niklas Göke in Medium about this.
So let’s now move on.
2) The dating apps

Nowadays people use dating apps like Tinder, hppn, OK Cupid , Hinge,
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