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Alone vs. Lonely After Divorce: Why They’re Not the Same (and Why It Matters)

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Did anyone ever say this to you after your divorce?

“You’re going to be lonely.”
“Do you really want to be alone for the rest of your life?”
“The grass isn’t always greener.”
“What if you don’t find someone else?”

In this episode of Okay, So Here’s the Deal, we’re unpacking one of the most misunderstood—and weaponized—ideas women face after divorce: being alone vs. being lonely.

Alone is a physical state.

Lonely is an emotional experience.
And the two are not the same thing.

I break down why so many women felt lonelier inside their marriage than they ever do after leaving it—and how learning to be alone can actually lead to peace, self-trust, and deeper connection. We’ll also talk honestly about those moments when loneliness does show up, including how I navigated the emotional aftermath of my ex’s remarriage.

You’ll learn:

  • The real difference between being alone and being lonely

  • Why solitude after divorce can be healing—not scary

  • How to sit with difficult emotions without judging yourself

  • A simple journaling practice to help you process loneliness when it arises

    • If you’re learning how to find yourself again after divorce—and wondering whether peace is possible—this episode is for you.

    Buckle up, gorgeous.

    You’re not broken. You’re becoming.

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    Okay, So Here’s The DealBy Marilee Grace