Ralph, Jerry and Tim cover the idea of biblical intimacy. Intimacy is "to see into me." Part 1 is a introduction to the foundation of intimacy. Intimacy isn't transactional like the world says. It is a pursuit. God's plan for intimacy is to be known and be known through mind, body and soul.Everyone wants to know and be known. Intimacy without respect is counterfeit. Our wives are our favor and treasure.The danger of emotional affairs are discussed along with proper boundaries. The idea of "entanglement" as a cultural term is discussed. Intimacy is being connected in your marriage and connected with God together.Prayer in marriage is key to intimacy. Intimacy done right is a great healing to a wife and husband. Without the identity of Christ, intimacy can be difficult.Value your wife's gifting to bless you and guide you as a man. Intimacy with amplify your gifting and your marriage. Fighting for your marriage and the level of intimacy after is totally worth it.Singleness is addressed. The desire of intimacy is God given but with boundaries before marriage. Find someone who loves Jesus more than wanting a relationship. Be a friend first. There's great reward when you wait. Become the person you are looking for. Prepare a place for your wife. Get out of debt. You become more attractive when you're debt free!Books referenced: Kevin Lehman - Sex starts in the KitchenBitter Water Test - Find this is Numbers Chapter 5.

Tim, Jerry and Ralph discuss the blessing of work as part of God's creation. They cover trusting that God has you where He wants you and that is your mission field. Working to build God's kingdom isn't always about vocational ministry. The difference between a "job" and a "work" is explained. They draw on three examples: The guy who is having hard time getting going to work, the guy who has a solid work life balance, and the guy who is out of balance working too much. The traps of our current world and culture as it relates to work is also discussed. Comparison is the enemy of contentment. They encourage men to trust that God has your back and He has you where He wants you at the moment for His purpose. When you honor Him; He will reward you.Jerry shares his experience from his Israel visit and experiencing Shabbat. Ralph discusses how to live your life from rest just as Adam did in Genesis. Rest is a gift from God. Rest comes with reward for your body, mind and spirit. It is built to restore your soul. Books mentioned: Celebration of Discipline by Richard Foster, Running on Empty by Fil Anderson

Tim, Jerry and Ralph discuss the importance of boundaries for the success of manhood. Beginning with individual boundaries and moving to boundaries with marriage, children and others they discuss, limiting access to the world until we spend time with God daily and allowing our priorities to inform our boundaries. When Godly priorities reign in our lives, boundaries become clearer to implement. The magic word "no" must be something we can say during seasons of our life that require it. Staying on mission as a man requires boundaries. The enemy doesn't want boundaries for you. He prefers chaos. Boundaries bring peace.Book mentioned:Boundaries - Dr. Henry CloudScriptures mentioned:Genesis 3-4

Tim, Ralph and Jerry discuss how wives can speak life into their husbands and help form him into the man they want him to be. They also tackle how a Godly woman can reach a unsaved man. They discuss the struggle of the curse of control from the garden that women can deal with. They cover how to inspire a stagnant man currently lukewarm in his faith."Men are ready to jump in but no one is calling them to come."Books mentioned:5 Love Languages - Gary ChapmanLove and Respect - Dr. Emerson EggerichsWild at Heart - John Eldredge

In this episode Tim, Jerry and Ralph discuss the enemy's deception tactics in a time where there's a high level of misinformation trying to make people stumble. Of high importance is realizing truth has one source and knowing biblical truth allows us to filter out falsehoods.

In this episode Tim, Ralph and Jerry discuss the targeting of men in a hyper sexualized culture. They discuss how the enemy has used the entertainment industry and social media to lure men. They draw a distinction between healthy sexuality and unhealthy sexuality. They discuss helping men get free of the shackles of a culture targeting them.

In this episode of Altar’d Manhood Tim, Jerry and Ralph draw from their individual backgrounds and upbringings to share their challenges as they pursue authentic masculinity. All from different ethnic backgrounds makes for a diverse and thoughtful discussion about each man should drive to follow the example of Jesus and He modeled perfect authentic masculinity.

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Restorative parenting is about pursuing and humbling ourselves to repair broken relationships with our children. It involves being available, consistent, and gentle in our approach. We need to communicate love, pride, and affirmation to our children, just as God does to us. It's important to be vulnerable and admit our mistakes, asking for forgiveness when we mess up. Restorative parenting requires us to rely on God's grace and wisdom, and to be intentional in our actions. It's about pursuing reconciliation and creating a safe space for our children to come back home.

In this conversation, the hosts discuss the shame cycle and how it can affect Christian men. They emphasize the importance of understanding repentance and the depth of the gospel to break free from shame. They highlight the need for authenticity and vulnerability in relationships, both with God and with other men. They also discuss the difference between guilt and shame, and the importance of replacing negative behaviors with positive ones. The hosts encourage men to take responsibility for their actions, seek accountability, and surrender to the Holy Spirit's work in their lives.

Pastor Ralph Johnson, Pastor Jerry Batista and Tim Couet engage in the premier episode of Altar'd Manhood by diving into defining what an Altar'd Man is and the heart behind their podcast. What is success? What are the distractions and traps men are facing in today's world? They share personal stories and lessons from their lives. They shared their passion to help men win in a way that God tells them to and not what the world is selling. They explore the idea that true fulfillment isn't an accumulation of earthly possessions but by a personal relationship with God and by doing right by your family.