Am I a Mother?

Episode 32 — and yes, recorded as file #32 in my dictaphone. Just one of the little signs that you’re always more supported than you think.

This short, raw episode (recorded straight from the car), serves as a reminder for the moments that life brings you to your knees — physically, emotionally, spiritually.

It's to honor the surprising signs of love that still surround us — even when everything feels heavy or lost.

We’ll talk about:

• What happens when you finally stop escaping your pain.

• The courage it takes to say no — and what can unfold when you do.

• The quiet reminders that love still exists, even if it’s not visible.

• Why the lowest moments often open unexpected doors.

This episode is all about remembering that even when it feels like everything is falling apart, love is still present — often in ways you don’t yet see.

Resources & Support:

If this episode resonates with you, I’d love to hear from you! Share your reflections or reach out on Instagram.

Looking for deeper support? Explore my 1:1 coaching or my coaching program for childless and childfree women. Visit @iam.anne.visser on Insta or www.iamannevisser.com.

Let’s Connect:

Your stories remind me why I do what I do. Don’t hesitate to share your thoughts or experiences.

Much love,

Anne☀️

The holiday season can be challenging—a time meant to be joyful often brings up feelings of loneliness and struggle, especially for those without children. In this episode, I share personal experiences, including an insight in my recent plant medicine retreat in the Colombian jungle, and offer insights on how to navigate this emotional time.

We’ll talk about:

This episode is all about finding ways to hold space for yourself and others when the holidays don’t feel so festive.

What You’ll Learn:

Resources & Support:

If this episode resonated with you, I’d love to hear from you! Share your reflections or reach out on Instagram (link in bio).

Interested in deeper support? Explore my 1:1 coaching sessions or join my online program designed for childless and child-free women. Visit @iam.anne.visser on instagram or www.iamannevisser.com

Let’s Connect:

Your stories remind me why I do what I do. Don’t hesitate to share your thoughts or experiences!

Much love,

Anne☀️

In this episode of Am I a Mother? I sit down with Nadine, a 50+ vibrant and inspiring woman who chose a childfree path. We explore societal expectations, personal choices, and the unique freedom and challenges of living life outside the traditional mold. Nadine shares her journey, including an unexpected parenting experience as a foster mom, her relationship with her parents’ expectations, and the deep insights she gained along the way.

Whether you're exploring your own path, curious about the child-free experience, or simply drawn to authentic storytelling, this episode offers inspiration, connection, and valuable food for thought.

What You’ll Hear in This Episode:

Want to experience working with Nadine? Nadine is a body-oriented therapist and energy healer based in Leiden, the Netherlands. To book a session or learn more about her work, visit her website https://www.bijnadine.nl.

Work with me:

If you’re on your own journey of exploring motherhood, being child-free, or navigating childlessness, this is how I offer support:

Visit www.iamannevisser.com, find me on insta @iam.anne.visser or reach out directly to learn more.

If you enjoyed this episode, please:

Stay tuned for a follow-up episode where Nadine shares how her child-free lifestyle inspires her work with clients in her practice.

& Remember Nadine’s advice to her 30-year-old self: “You were right all along.”  Listen to your intuition, especially when it whispers softly.

Much love, Anne☀️

Creating impact in this world where there is so much emphasis on the value of having kids and starting a family, especially for women, can feel very heavy.

In this episode I take you on this journey and hope to inspire you to find YOUR unique way of creating impact.

All of this inspired by just having attended the funeral of a person that made a huge impact on me and many others, by his personal mission to help others in need. This person is Peter Zeeman, the beloved father of my high school best friend. He touched the hearts of many and opened his house and his family to friends but also kids in need, like I was one day.

Rest in peace Mister Zeeman. Thank you for all you've done and the impact you've made.

In this episode I speak to currently childfree Veerle Beelen da Costa David, who is a coach on inner and outer journeys.

This episode is about self-discovery, setting boundaries, and making personal choices amidst constant movement and change. We go from Veerle moving to Australia and the challenges she faced during the pandemic, including job loss and adjusting to new environments.

On a deeper layer we talk about finding purpose, toxic relationships, whether travel is an escape or actual help. And whether your travel dreams should end when you desire to become a mother.

How do you create YOUR best life?

Thank you again Veerle! Find my guest on insta @unpackbyveer.

Did you get a travel itch by listening to this podcast? Or do you want to try out the digital nomad lifestyle? I host my next transformational coworking retreat in Feb/March 2025 in Portugal.

Send me a DM on insta to know more! @iam.anne.visser

Much love,

Anne☀️

Sometimes it just strikes. You did not fail. You succeeded. At creating a life that lights you up. Against all odds.

A quick and dirty recording from my mom's house, in the village where I grew up, on an evening where I joined a kids event that used to trigger the F*** out of me.

Let me take you on a journey to a small town called Hippolytushoef (The Netherlands).

Next Mamacita Moment: June 21, at the beach near The Hague. Get your tickets here: https://www.iamannevisser.com/mamacita-moment

More info on my events and coaching on https://www.iamannevisser.com.

Check out @iam.anne.visser for daily stories ☀️

Much love,

Anne

In this episode I go all into my current fears in dating and how I deal with my struggle of self-acceptance. Going from a painful past relationship to meeting someone special, referred to as 'Mr. Number 5' I share my fears and the internal voices that threaten to sabotage my happiness. 

Check out this episode for the importance of inner work, learning to handle emotions, and keeping your heart open! 

For more of this: join my upcoming Mamacita Moment, on June 21st, live in The Netherlands where we celebrate childless and child-free women.

Want help navigate similar challenges? Send me a message on instagram @iam.anne.visser or check out my website: www.iamannevisser.com.

More info on the Kura Manifestion Program I refer to in this episode? DM me on insta!

Last but not least, feel free to drop in my DM to connect.

Much love,

Anne

00:00 Introduction and Welcome

00:30 The Desire to Run Away

01:40 Dating Experiences and Mr. #5

07:28 Reflections on Past Relationships

10:38 Personal Growth and Coaching Journey

16:21 Navigating New Relationships

22:19 Invitation to Connect and Upcoming Events

In this heartfelt episode, Anne opens up about the complex emotions surrounding Mother's Day, especially for those who are childless by circumstance, child-free by choice, or doubting motherhood. She shares her personal journey from feeling triggered by Mother's Day to finding peace and empowerment.

Anne discusses her struggles with entrepreneurship, her attempts to heal her relationship with her mother, and the importance of acknowledging and moving through difficult emotions to find joy.

Throughout the episode, Anne provides insights on handling societal pressures, personal insecurities, and the significance of community support in navigating life's challenges.

Are you ready to raise your vibe so you can shine?

✨ Healing ritual: Shine sister!

📆 Friday May 10, 7-8.30 PM CET

📌 online via ZOOM, replay available

Get your ticket here: https://iamannevisser.plugandpay.nl/checkout/masterclass-shine-sister-shine?test_token=NQ5jJ3EKXymL

Want to connect based on this episode? Send me a DM on insta: @iam.anne.visser. I'd love to be in touch with you!

Much love,

Anne

00:21 Exploring Mother's Day Emotions and Childlessness

02:18 Sharing Personal Struggles and Insights

05:56 Dealing with Business Challenges and Personal Growth

08:33 Emotional Journey Through Family Dynamics and Self-Reflection

13:02 Connecting Childhood Emotions to Adult Challenges

17:27 Embracing Emotions for a Brighter Life

17:43 The Power of Acknowledging Pain and Joy

19:38 Navigating Emotional Healing and Mother Relationships

21:21 Personal Journey: Overcoming Emotional Challenges

24:20 Sharing Vulnerabilities and Seeking Support

27:15 Healing Rituals and Mother's Day Reflections

31:46 Offering Support and Overcoming Insecurities

33:50 Invitation to a Healing Ritual: Shine Sister Shine

(thank you AI for helping me and writing my show notes this time! you did a great job)

In this podcast episode, I share my raw and honest journey of falling into a toxic relationship due to my deep desire for motherhood and a romantic partnership. 

This is my experience of being involved with a narcissistic individual. I know the use of this term is becoming popular and going into naming/shaming/blaming is easy. This episode is not here to blame, it’s here to emphasize the importance of recognizing toxic behaviors early on and knowing when you are an ‘easy’ victim.

I share practical tips with you for that difficult phase of desiring motherhood or a romantic partnership badly.  Moreover I want to make you aware of the need for real change that goes beyond mere mindset shifts.

Do you seek additional support? Check out my coaching program, "Am I A Mother?", next launch October 2024, which offers a comprehensive journey of self-discovery and healing. The program provides tools and guidance for embracing authenticity and creating a life aligned with your deepest desires. If you want to start working today in a 1:1 setting, just send me a DM on Instagram: @iam.anne.visser.

00:00 Opening: A Raw Dive into Choices and Emotions

00:13 Welcome to the Podcast: Intentions and Goals

01:54 The Heart of the Matter: Navigating Toxic Relationships and Motherhood Desires

06:31 Personal Journey: From Desire to Self-Discovery

14:09 The Bigger Picture: Choices, Risks, and Recognizing Desires

18:43 Practical Advice: Avoiding Toxic Relationships and Making Conscious Choices

26:41 Personal Coaching and Support Offerings

28:28 Reflecting on Past Relationships and Lessons Learned

37:10 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

Retreat diaries! Are you still doubting to join my coworking retreat?

You need to hear this; we're covering all the basis...

Whether you need a dedicated space to do admin tasks, or a beautiful setting to create content, today we cover what coworking is and what YOU can get out of it.

Hear it first hand from a super special guest and how she planned out 6 months of her next steps in just 1 WEEK with me! 🌟

Follow me on IG @iam.anne.visser and be ready for me to drop new dates.

Much love,

Anne ☀️