This episode starts with a return you’ve been avoiding and ends with a different way of seeing yourself. We’re exploring why small tasks feel emotionally loaded, what your brain is really doing when you procrastinate, and how the patterns you reinforce in the little moments shape how you show up in the big ones. No hacks. No pressure. Just a different way to respond to the part of you that wants to avoid.

What You Will Learn

Why tasks like returns trigger unexpected emotional resistance (it’s not about the task)

How shame, guilt, or dread quietly fuel procrastination—even on things that “should be simple”

The connection between small avoidance and your bigger identity patterns

How to name the emotion under the delay—and relate to it differently

A way to move forward that doesn’t require a breakthrough, just a different kind of self-leadership

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