This week on Amen But, we're diving into the world of lesbian cinema! From the movies and TV shows that made us feel seen to the ones that completely missed the mark, Alyssa and I are sharing our favorite sapphic stories, our biggest disappointments, and the iconic characters that sparked our gay awakenings. Plus, we're catching up on all the latest hot topics and pop culture moments everyone is talking about. Grab your popcorn and join us for a nostalgic, hilarious, and very gay conversation.

Welcome back to Amen, But… STFU 

This week we’re talking HOT topics from Drake’s new album, to Euphoria, to Kelly Clarkson (because somehow we always end up there ). Then we dive into our main conversation: Christian influences, purity culture vibes, and the cringey things growing up in Christian spaces taught us to normalize.

We’re unpacking the weird, the funny, and the moments that made us stop and think… “wait, why was THAT a thing?”

Come laugh with us, question everything, and maybe heal your inner church kid a little.

This week on Amen, But… we dive into the wild Netflix documentary about the woman who risked everything to infiltrate a cult and help save vulnerable women from manipulation and abuse. We unpack the psychology behind cults, why people get pulled into them, and the shocking parallels to everyday life and religion.

But don’t worry it’s not all heavy this week. We’re also back to being unserious with hot topics, random tangents, and the chaotic conversations y’all love. One minute we’re talking mind control… the next we’re spiraling over pop culture.

As always: equal parts deep, unhinged, and healing.

Amen… but we need to cover THAT up. This week, we’re talking purity culture the rules, the shame, the pressure, and the reality of growing up in it. From what we were taught to what we actually experienced, nothing is off limits. We’re getting into first times, unlearning harmful narratives, and reclaiming our stories. It’s real, it’s relatable, and it might have you saying… yeah, we need to talk about this.

This week’s episode is a special one 💍✨ Nicole is sharing some big life updates yes, Nicole is officially engaged! She takes you through the moment, how it all happened, and what this new chapter feels like. I also recap my recent trip to Europe, from the highlights to the lessons I didn’t expect to learn along the way.

Beyond the excitement, we dive into something deeper: the importance of community. As adults, building and maintaining meaningful connections can feel challenging, but it’s more important than ever. I open up about why having the right people in your life matters, how it impacts your growth, and practical ways to find and nurture your own community whether you’re starting from scratch or strengthening what you already have.

If you’ve ever felt alone navigating adulthood, celebrating milestones, or just figuring things out, this episode is for you.

This week’s episode dives into a powerful and honest conversation about the common misconception that sexuality is a choice. The discussion opens the door to a deeper exploration of where these beliefs come from and challenges the myths surrounding the causes of homosexuality.

The hosts unpack how environment and upbringing are often misunderstood as determining factors, while also addressing the idea of a so-called “gay agenda” and contrasting it with the performative nature of religious influence.

Throughout the episode, they reflect on first encounters with LGBTQ+ individuals, shifting public opinions on same-sex marriage, and the stereotypes that continue to shape perceptions today. Ultimately, this conversation encourages listeners to question assumptions, recognize bias, and better understand the complexities of identity and acceptance.

Coming out is never just one moment t’s a process. In this episode, we talk about the courage it takes to live authentically, the challenges along the way, and the freedom that comes with being true to yourself. Amen

Whats up biiiitttcchhhh!

Why We Left the Church & Walked Away from Ministry | Amen, But…

This week on Amen, But…, we’re sharing the truth about why we left the church.

From mistreatment and feeling overlooked to outgrowing spaces where we no longer felt valued, this is an honest and unfiltered conversation about faith, "church hurt", and the hard decision to step away from ministry.

This episode isn’t about bitterness — it’s about clarity, growth, and choosing wholeness.

Welcome to the Amen, But… podcast!

This is our first episode hosted by Nicole Stallworth and Alyssa Phiuela. On this episode we introduce ourselves, explore our friendship, and partners.