American Fight Stories with Dabar invites Richard and Anita Parvin on to share their 43-year marriage fight and why marriage is a covenant with God, not just a contract. They recount meeting at a skating rink, building a family, and enduring decades of conflict, repeated forgiveness, and unresolved trauma rooted in Richard’s abusive childhood. In 2021–2022, Anita said she was done, filed for divorce, and moved into a camper, while both sought God amid bitterness, triggers, and spiritual warfare; Melissa refused to support the divorce because she had prayed for their marriage. Through church, sermons on bitterness, prayer, repentance, counseling conversations, and an intense process of reading Anita’s notebook of hurts line by line, Richard changed, and reconciliation followed, including remarriage and ongoing daily maintenance. They encourage struggling couples to pray together, stay in the Word, forgive, seek forgiveness, choose words carefully, and stay in church.
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This episode was recorded at SRP Studios and Produced by Shelby Row Productions LLC
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