Mark and Monica dive into personality profiles and their impact on relationships, particularly marriage. They discuss various personality assessment tools including DISC, Myers-Briggs, and the Enneagram, sharing their personal experiences with each. Key Topics Covered: - Overview of DISC personality profiles - Myers-Briggs personality types - The Enneagram system - The importance of personality awareness in marriage - Common misconceptions about personality types - Growth and adaptation in relationships Main Points: - DISC profiles explained (D-dominant, I-influencer, S-steady, C-cautious) - Mark and Monica's personal profiles:   - Monica: ENTJ (Myers-Briggs), Enneagram 8   - Mark: INFP (Myers-Briggs), Enneagram 4 - The importance of understanding personality differences in relationships - Warning against using personality types as excuses ("I am what I am" mindset) - The value of continuous personal growth and adaptation Resources Mentioned: - 16personalities.com for Myers-Briggs testing - Previous episode with Sue Moore about Enneagram and families Takeaway Quote: "Just realize that the rest of the world doesn't think like you." - Mark Tips for Listeners: - Explore different personality assessment tools - Be curious about others' perspectives - Use personality insights as tools for growth, not limitations - Consider doing personality assessments as a family Monica is at www.MonicaNeubauer.com and Mark can be found at www.TheLaughingArtist.com

Mark and Monica are talking politics! The way they follow politics has changed so much throughout their adult life.  If you are fascinated by it, enraged, or just curious, listen in for some tips for engaging when watching or listening and learning about politics in the US. Monica can be found at MonicaNeubauer.com Mark can be found at TheLaughingArtist.com - when the website works.  So much to do.

1. Say you are Sorry.  I am sorry. 
2. Forgive others.  It is easier when they apologize, but it is good for you to do this all the time, regardless of whether they say it or realize it or not.
3. Do your best to understand them.  
4. In conversation and time with others - at holidays or any gathering. 
5. Listen to what others are saying.  If you disagree, listen until they finish.  Thank them for the conversation and move on to another conversation.  There is no need to argue.  You won't change them. 
6. If you are a bit tired or don't want to "have to stay a long time".  You don't have to stay.  Go, have fun and leave early at an appropriate time.  If it is at your house, you can go to bed and let your guests continue to have fun.
7. Be in control of yourself.  Whatever that means for you. For me, it means eating and drinking in moderation. 
8. Give grace to others.  We all make mistakes.  Let more things go.  Give more hugs. 
9. Choose to no be offended.
10. Take time to process the feelings you have when anyone is late or does something you don't like - process the feelings, snuggle the pet, or get or give a hug, and then move on. 

Are you committing ASSUMICIDE?

We have lost the Art of Listening. We are facing an epidemic of people not being able to listen effectively. People are caught in the habit of Assumicide where we only hear half of the things that people say and just assume what we believe people are saying.

Sue Mohr, a Master Certified Life and Business Coach/Consultant has joined Monica Neubaue to have An Open Conversation about Actively Listening.

About 90% of the problems in relationships come from not listening. Everyone wants to be heard and wants to talk, but we need to take away our automatically self-focused nature and learn how to actively listen to hear other’s perspectives.

Sue shares with Monica’s listeners her technique of repeating back. When someone is talking, repeating in your head what the person is saying transforms you into an active listener. This allows you to stop your own thinking, pushing out the other thoughts swirling in your head and centering you to just focus on the person talking.

Sue and Monica discuss the awareness that you need  to be an effective listener.

There are 3 main areas that will help you master the art of listening:

1. Know the person speaking - their personality and history
2. Respect the person the person speaking
3. Understand yourself

Once you become an active listener, you won’t believe how your world will change!

Sue MohrMaster Certified Life and Business Coach/Consultanthttps://www.theinnervizion.com/

Sue Mohr  started a coaching and consulting firm in 2003 called The Inner Vizion. The company serves creatives and entrepreneurs through a whole-istic approach focusing on mental, emotional, and business wellness. Sue's goal is to co-create with others, helping them find their true passion and vision. Her book, Hope Is … is sharing the message that No matter the circumstances Hope is available to YOU right now.

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About The Neubauers:Monica Neubauer is a Speaker, Author and Everything DiSC consultant. Follow Monica at: www.MonicaNeubauer.com Mark Neubauer is a creator of many things. This website is for his art. www.TheLaughingArtist.com

Global Living

Doreen Cumberford works with expats, global nomads and international returnees to create happier, easier and more successful transitions while globally mobile. She is joining An Open Conversation with Monica Neubauer to discuss Living Internationally. Although Doreen’s heart is in Scotland where she grew up, she has a love for the 8 other countries that she has lived in from England, South Africa, Dubai, United States, Japan, Saudi Arabia and now Mexico where she resides. Through her experiences as a global housesitter and relocating overseas she has learned how to navigate traveling and moving internationally. 

Doreen shares with Monica’s listeners her tips for being a successful Global Housesitter and relocating successfully to different countries.

Tips for Living and Working Internationally:

●       Know the sacrifices - There will be sacrifices no matter what choices you make

●       Have Cultural Intelligence - Have the imagination, communication skill and tolerance to work across cultures

●       Remain Global Hearted with an open mind, heart and voice

●       Be willing to adopt people into your life and enjoy the varied cultures

●       Be considerate of the mindset of others

●       Have conversations of what is possible in your life - you can create the life of your dreams

Both Doreen and Monica leave us with the  question, “Are You Willing to be Transformed by Travel!”

Doreen Cumberford

Expat Author, Global Housesitter, Transition Expertwww.doreenmcumberford.com  A Certified Coach, and 30 year licensed Practitioner, Doreen speaks, writes and teaches about the principles and practices necessary to navigate global mobility while maintaining vitality through health and well-being. The author of Life in the Camel Lane, Arriving Well and Home Again, Home Again – Jiggedy jig she is currently compiling her second book on Repatriation. A native of Scotland, her experience in 8 overseas postings over 3 plus decades, on 4 continents have enabled her to constantly create new lifestyles and trained her to constantly move with ease and grace. Doreen helps globally mobile people master transitions, relocate well and find joy in-between.

Join An Open Conversation CommunityJoin  An Open Conversation Community and be a part of our open conversations about improving your life through Civil Duty and Civil Service. Sign up at: https://www.anopenconversation.com/contact We will send you 10 conversation starters to help you with having AN OPEN CONVERSATION.

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About The Neubauers:Monica Neubauer is a Speaker, Author and Everything DiSC consultant. Follow Monica at: www.MonicaNeubauer.com Mark Neubauer is a creator of many things. This website is for his art. www.TheLaughingArtist.com