Does anxiety and procrastination stop you from achieving your goals or desires? This week’s guest is the inspirational Vikki Yaffe, mentor and life coach and host of the podcast “F*ck anxiety & get sh*t done”. Based in London Vikki had a successful corporate career up until 2016 when she decided to quit her job to launch her first coaching program. She now works with clients all over the world to make changes in their life. Using her past experience with anxiety including suffering from panic attacks, she then turned to self-led research to uncover the different symptoms of anxiety, research on human biology and evolution and our individual lifestyle or environments. She helps individuals create their own definition of suffering from anxiety. This helps them overcome and take back control of their anxiety and therefore, their life. Vikki proves that change is achievable.
Podcast episode summary
· The myths and misconceptions of anxiety (3:23)
· Mindsets of anxiety (6:05)
· Vikki’s personal story (8:11)
· Why is Vikki’s strategies and steps to master their anxiety (11:31)
· Roadblocks to manage anxiety (15:01)
· Reach out to Vikki to create change in your life (18:25)
· Resources Vikki recommends to learn about anxiety (19:47)
References
“I can and I can’t mindset…..Brain decides if we can or can’t do something … and we just believe it…” (6:22)
“So many people believing our Can’t mindset is fixed…. Which leads people to stay in relationships or careers they don’t like…. Not pursing different goals or pipedreams” (7:23)
“Why we are having the anxiety or the panic to begin with…. It also comes down to understanding where we were, what we were thinking, what environment we were in…. so, we can understand and be fearless confronting it, versus hiding away from it and falling back into the victim mode” (13:07)
“What is different with what I do is…. I really work hard to reframe what people make the anxiety mean about them, because at the end of the day if you are experiencing anxiety and you are making it mean there is something wrong with you, you are creating more anxiety…….instead of willing to confront and face it and still be the authority of your brain and everything that is happening” (13:38)
“We give into our perfection tendencies, giving into our people pleasing, or fear our failure or our worry of what people will think of us, and I really want to people to overcome all of those things so they can produce things that the world needs” (18:56)
“We are not our thought’s” (23:45)
Our guest
Vikki’s website: https://vikkilouise.com Vikki’s podcast: https://pod.link/1455953384
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