In Part 2 of this eye-opening conversation, I continue my in-depth discussion with a trauma therapist who brings her professional insight to the disturbing patterns of manipulation that have defined this story.

We pick up where we left off—examining the impact Rachel’s behavior may have had, and may still be having, on her children. From “golden child” dynamics to scapegoating and emotional triangulation, this episode explores how narcissistic parents can deeply affect the emotional development and long-term well-being of their kids.

We go deeper into the concept of communal narcissism—a presentation that hides behind a mask of altruism and self-sacrifice. Unlike the rage-filled narcissists often portrayed in media, this version operates under a “woe-is-me” persona, manipulating others through guilt, sympathy, and self-victimization. It’s deception in its most insidious form.

We also explore:

• The narcissist’s addiction to power and control
• Why remorse, guilt, and accountability are psychologically intolerable for them
• The dangerous persistence of behavior even after exposure
• Why narcissists almost never seek help—unless forced
• How trauma stores itself in the body and resurfaces unexpectedly
• The warning signs and tools survivors can use to protect themselves

As I process my own emotional fallout—including moments I thought were behind me—this conversation becomes part interview, part therapy session. We reflect on the importance of healing, the psychological traps of long-distance manipulation, and the value of becoming an expert on narcissistic behavior if you've ever encountered someone like Rachel.

This episode offers not only critical insights for survivors but also validation for those trying to make sense of the seemingly senseless. If you’ve ever asked, “How did I fall for this?”—this one’s for you.

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