Anchored with Purpose | Faith, Family, Purpose, Dreaming, Planning, Overcoming Anxiety, Overcoming Overwhelm

Anchored with Purpose | Faith, Family, Purpose, Dreaming, Planning, Overcoming Anxiety, Overcoming Overwhelm

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Anchored with Purpose | Faith, Family, Purpose, Dreaming, Planning, Overcoming Anxiety, Overcoming Overwhelm episodes

  • 73| From Lent to Lifestyle: How to Build a Daily Faith Practice That Lasts

    This episode is deeply personal and full circle for me.

    After 2,470 consecutive days in the YouVersion Bible App, I’m officially a content partner, and my brand-new devotional plan is live: From Lent to Lifestyle: Creating a Daily Faith Practice that Lasts.

    In this episode, I share the behind-the-scenes story of attending the Beyond a Billion celebration in Oklahoma City, hearing from Bobby Gruenewald and Craig Groeschel, boldly asking to become a content partner, and why I created this Lent devotional for women who want a simple, sustainable daily faith rhythm.

    If you’ve ever struggled with consistency in your prayer life or wanted to move from seasonal motivation to lasting transformation, this episode is for you.

    📖 Ready to Start the Plan?

    Download the free Bible App and begin:

    From Lent to Lifestyle: Creating a Daily Faith Practice that Lasts

    👉 Download the Bible App and follow Anchored with Purpose: https://www.bible.com/organizations/9555df54-34ac-4b14-bc38-ee830fb1060b 

    👉 Start the Plan:  http://bible.us/r/He5 

    🎉 Join me and the Anchored with Purpose community for a group reading beginning March 6th (my birthday!):  👉 Join the group reading here: https://bible.com/reading-plans/67833/together/79255031/invitation?token=j8NKyJUpHTU-Lwp3gH22ow&source=share 

    Don’t do this alone. Start it with a friend, your small group, or read alongside us in the discussion section inside the app.

    ⚓️ Key Takeaways

    • Small daily consistency creates long-term spiritual growth
    • The YouVersion Bible App has over one billion downloads and will always remain free
    • Bold obedience opens unexpected doors
    • Lent is a starting line, not a finish line
    • Sustainable rhythms matter more than spiritual intensity
    • Reading plans together deepens both faith and relationships
    • YouVersion challenges and badges can help motivate consistency


    ⏱ Chapters

    00:00 – A Full Circle Moment
    01:30 – 2,470 Days in the Bible App
    04:00 – Beyond a Billion: Inside the Celebration
    06:30 – Hearing from Bobby Gruenewald & Craig Groeschel
    09:00 – The Bold Ask That Changed Everything
    11:30 – Why I Created From Lent to Lifestyle
    14:00 – What You’ll Experience Inside the Plan
    16:30 – How to Download the Bible App & Join
    19:00 – Why You Shouldn’t Do This Alone
    22:00 – Join Me March 6th for a Birthday Group Reading
    24:30 – Lent Challenge Badge & YouVersion Challenges Explained
    27:30 – Please Rate, Review & Tag Me
    29:00 – What Will Your Streak Be?

    Let’s move from Lent to lifestyle - together.

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    19 min
  • 72| Purpose Over Pressure: A Faith-Filled Path Out of Burnout ft. Misty Lakes

    In this conversation, Melissa sits down with life and business coach Misty Lakes to talk about Godfidence, which is confidence rooted in Christ instead of hustle culture. Misty shares her journey from direct sales into coaching, how God faithfully led her step by step, and why putting Him at the center of our lives and businesses changes everything.

    Together, they unpack why so many women feel burned out from wearing too many hats, how guilt sneaks in when our priorities are misaligned, and a simple but life changing visual tool that helps women realign their time, energy, and focus.

    Resources mentioned in this episode:
    • Journey to Be Godfident Devotional & Course: https://www.mistylakes.biz/store
    • 40 Day Social Media Fast by Wendy Speake: https://a.co/d/7OBkm7e
    • Misty Lakes Coaching & Collective: https://www.mistylakes.biz/coaching

    Key Takeaways
    • Godfidence means rooting your identity, confidence, and decisions in who God says you are — not in hustle, pressure, or people-pleasing.
    • God should be the CEO of your life and business, guiding decisions both big and small.
    • Burnout often comes from wearing too many “good” hats at the same time — not from doing one thing poorly.
    • The Target Exercise helps visually prioritize what matters most: God, personal wellbeing, family, and then everything else.
    • Your family is your first ministry, and your relationship with God deserves protected, intentional time.
    • Social media often consumes time without reflecting what we actually value.
    • Intentional boundaries create peace and reduce guilt.
    • Purpose brings peace; pressure brings burnout.
    • Faith and business were never meant to be separate — alignment brings flow and fruit.
    ⏱ Chapters

    00:00 – Welcome & Meet Misty Lakes
    02:30 – From Direct Sales to Coaching: Trusting God Step by Step
    06:30 – How God Prepares Us Long Before We See the Plan
    07:00 – What Is Godfidence? Confidence Rooted in Christ
    10:00 – Letting God Be the CEO of Your Life
    11:00 – Why Women Feel Burned Out and Overwhelmed
    13:00 – The Target Exercise: A Visual Way to Prioritize What Matters
    15:00 – Taking Hats Off Without Guilt
    17:30 – Temple Time: Honoring God by Caring for Yourself
    19:30 – Being Intentional With Time, Energy, and Boundaries
    21:00 – Social Media, Scrolling, and Mental Clarity
    23:45 – Why Faith and Business Shouldn’t Be Separate
    27:30 – Obedience, Stewardship, and God’s Blessing
    30:00 – Purpose Over Pressure: A Client Transformation Story
    33:30 – How to Connect with Misty & Her Community
    34:45 – Closing Encouragement

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    35 min
  • 71| Lent for the Busy Catholic Woman

    If Lent already feels like one more thing on your to-do list, this episode is for you.

    In this encouraging and Scripture-rooted episode, Melissa Wilkinson speaks directly to the busy Catholic woman who feels tired, distracted, spiritually behind, or overwhelmed before Lent even begins. Instead of a picture-perfect or performance-based Lent, Melissa walks through what real Lent looks like in real life.

    Rooted in Joel 2:12, Matthew 4, and Matthew 6, this episode reframes Lent as a season of return, not perfection. Through the three pillars of Lent — prayer, fasting, and almsgiving — Melissa offers simple, sustainable ways to grow closer to God without adding pressure to an already full life.

    If you’ve ever quit Lent by week two, struggled to stay consistent with prayer, or felt like you’re not doing “enough,” this conversation will remind you that God is not asking you to impress Him. He is inviting you to return.

    Lent is not about performance. It is about presence.

    Key Takeaways
    • Lent is about returning to God, not proving yourself (Joel 2:12).
    • The desert is not punishment — it is preparation (Matthew 4).
    • Jesus says “when you pray, when you fast, when you give alms” — not if (Matthew 6).
    • Prayer for a busy woman can be simple and repeatable.
    • Fasting helps reveal attachments and create space for God.
    • Almsgiving stretches the heart outward in love.
    • You can begin again at any time — God’s mercies are new every morning (Lamentations 3:22–23).
    • Your real life — your SUV, your kitchen, your routines — can be holy ground.
    • Choose one prayer practice, one meaningful fast, and one intentional act of love.
    • Lent is about consistency, not perfection.

    Chapters:

    00:00 — Lent for the Busy Catholic Woman

    01:59 — The Desert Is Preparation, Not Punishment

    03:30 — Why Lent Feels Overwhelming

    05:00 — Prayer: Abide, Don’t Perform

    08:30 — Fasting: Detach and Create Space

    11:30 — Almsgiving: Stretching the Heart in Love

    13:45 — When Week Two Hits

    16:30 — Making the Rosary Sustainable

    18:45 — Your Real Life Is Holy Ground

    20:30 — A Simple Lenten Framework

    22:00 — Lent Is About Intimacy, Not Impressiveness


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    16 min
  • 70| When the World Feels Scary, This Is How We Stand Firm in Faith

    When the world feels unstable and heartbreaking, it’s hard not to carry that weight in your heart and home. In this episode, Melissa speaks into the fear and emotional exhaustion many women are experiencing as they watch growing struggles within our government, rising division, and devastating stories of families being torn apart and people being detained through immigration enforcement. Entire communities are living with uncertainty, and as moms, that fear hits especially close to home.

    But Scripture reminds us that seasons of unrest are not new to God’s people. Throughout biblical history, God’s children have faced turmoil, persecution, and uncertainty. In every generation, He has given the same instruction: put on the Armor of God.

    Melissa also shares practical ways to spiritually cover your children. If you’ve been feeling overwhelmed by everything happening in the world, this episode will remind you that you are not powerless and you are spiritually protected and equipped to stand firm.

    ✨ Key Takeaways

    • Difficult and uncertain times are not new. God’s people have always had to learn how to stand firm in seasons of fear and unrest.

    • Our greatest battle is spiritual. The enemy uses chaos, fear, and division to steal our peace and distract us from faith.

    • The Armor of God in Ephesians 6 is a daily spiritual practice that protects our hearts, minds, and homes.

    • The Belt of Truth helps us anchor in God’s Word before absorbing headlines and social media.

    • The Breastplate of Righteousness guards our hearts from bitterness, anger, and hardened thinking.

    • The Shoes of the Gospel of Peace help us carry calm into our homes instead of panic.

    • The Shield of Faith is what we lift when anxiety and fear about the future rise up.

    • The Helmet of Salvation reminds us to protect our minds and set healthy boundaries with media.

    • The Sword of the Spirit, God’s Word, is how we fight fear and lies with truth.

    • Praying over your children and blessing them with holy water is a powerful way to spiritually cover your family.

    Book Melissa to Speak at Your Event

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    ⏱️ Episode Chapters

    00:00 — When the World Feels Heavy
    03:30 — This Is a Spiritual Battle
    06:30 — The Belt of Truth
    10:00 — The Breastplate of Righteousness
    13:00 — The Shoes of the Gospel of Peace
    17:00 — The Shield of Faith
    20:30 — The Helmet of Salvation
    24:00 — The Sword of the Spirit
    30:00 — Armoring Your Children
    34:00 — Standing Firm in Uncertain Times

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    20 min
  • 69| In the Wilderness? Day 41 Is Coming | ft. Mya Hull

    In today’s episode, Melissa sits down with her new friend Mya Hull, a former top 1% leader in Mary Kay who felt God stirring something deeper, even in the middle of success. Mya shares her origin story, what that leadership season taught her about identity, and the “holy discontent” that led her to lay down what looked good on paper in order to follow what God was calling her into next.

    You’ll hear the powerful meaning behind “41”—the idea that we all walk through “40 seasons” of wilderness, waiting, testing, and transition… but day 41 comes, and God is faithful. Mya walks us through how her Ignite Your Joy workshop became the foundation for a faith-led community for women entrepreneurs, and how the 41 Sisterhood is helping women grow with joy, clarity, confidence, and obedience.

    If you’re in a season of waiting, this conversation will leave you with hope and practical encouragement to stay rooted in Christ while you walk toward your own “41 moment.”

    • Follow Mya on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themyahull?igsh=ZzRoYjU1cTZxYTg4&utm_source=qr 
    • Mya on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mya.hull 
    • 41 Sisterhood / Stan Store: https://stan.store/theMyaHull 
    • Email Mya: [email protected]
    • Free Purpose Bracket Resource: https://stan.store/theMyaHull/p/snag-your-free-purpose-bracket 
    • Key Takeaways
      • Success can be a slippery slope: even good things (recognition, achievement, leadership) can quietly become an identity or an idol if we’re not careful.
      • Conviction is different than shame: Mya describes moments where God didn’t condemn her, but lovingly redirected her heart posture.
      • God often uses transition to get our attention: new environments can create space to hear Him clearly again.
      • Your gifts exist outside of your title: Mya shares the shift of separating her strengths from her previous business and realizing God could use them in a new way.
      • You don’t need all the steps to obey: sometimes God gives the idea first and the logistics later.
      • The “41” message is hope: wilderness doesn’t last forever, and God always keeps His promises.
      • Fasting from noise brings clarity: Mya talks about getting quiet (not isolating, but choosing solitude with God).
      • Your test becomes your testimony: God can use the very season you wish you could skip.
      • Chapters

        00:00 – Welcome + why this conversation felt God-ordained

        00:58 – Mya’s origin story: pastor’s kid, entrepreneur at 20, motherhood + transition
        04:07 – Top 1% leadership: what success taught her about discipline, ambition, and identity
        06:37 – “It can become an idol”: the heart shift behind achievement
        09:04 – Holy discontent: when God starts stirring something deeper
        09:31 – Transition + deeper Bible study: learning to truly hear God again
        12:23 – Obedience without answers: “I’m supposed to lay this down”
        15:55 – Recognizing your gifts outside your business + “keep writing” moment
        19:05 – People’s opinions vs the story we tell ourselves
        23:08 – What’s next: Ignite Your Joy workshop + purpose bracket tool
        29:09 – Why community matters for solopreneurs
        29:37 – The story behind 41: wilderness seasons + day 41 breakthrough
        35:33 – Launching the 41 Sisterhood: community, workshops, coaching, real transformation
        41:12 – Hope for the woman in the wilderness: how to hold faith until day 41
        46:51 – Fasting from noise + staying rooted in Jesus
        49:05 – Where to find Mya + how to join the community

        Call to Action

        If you’re in a “40 season” right now—waiting, wrestling, transitioning, or feeling like God is asking you to lay something down—friend, you are not alone. Day 41 is coming. Share this episode with a friend who needs hope, and be sure to follow Mya and check out the 41 Sisterhood if you’re craving community and clarity in this season.

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        49 min
      • 68| Perimenopause Explained with Rita Johnson: Why Your Body Feels So Different

        Perimenopause is the topic so many women are whispering about over coffee, but rarely getting real answers. In this conversation, functional health practitioner Rita Johnson breaks down what’s actually happening in your body during perimenopause and why symptoms like weight gain, inflammation, sleep issues, digestive changes, and mood shifts are not “just aging.” Rita explains the powerful connection between gut health and hormone balance, why supplements can become expensive band-aids if you don’t address root causes, and the small daily habits that can make a big difference. You’ll also hear a balanced, faith-friendly discussion on hormone replacement therapy (HRT), including common misconceptions and what to look for if you’re considering it.

        Links Mentioned
        • Rita’s Website: https://naturalfertilitycare.org/nutritional-therapy/ 
        • Rita’s Podcast (Health & Hormones): https://healthandhormones.org/ 
        • Divine Mercy Nutritional Care (Rita’s practice): [LINK]
        • Free Hormone Balancing Guide: https://birdsend.page/forms/9473/cDk9YT4KSn  
        • Perimenopause Toolkit Workshop (live + replay option): https://healthandhormones.org/perimenopause-workshop/ 
        • Key Takeaways
          • Perimenopause is a remodeling season, not a dead end. Your body is shifting from higher to lower hormone output, and multiple systems are adapting along the way.
          • Symptoms vary widely, but your intuition matters. If you’re 35+ and feel like your body is “different” or unfamiliar, it may be perimenopause-related.
          • Gut health impacts hormones in two big ways: your ability to make hormones (nutrients, fats, absorption) and your ability to clear hormones (detox pathways).
          • Healthy bowel movements matter more than most women realize. Regularity and quality can be a key sign of hormonal balance and detox support.
          • Probiotics aren’t the only answer. Food-based probiotics (like fermented foods) may be a simple starting point, and deeper digestive support may be needed depending on the root issue.
          • “We can’t out-supplement bad habits.” Slowing down, chewing, sitting to eat, and praying before meals can help your body shift into “rest and digest.”
          • Workout intensity may need adjusting in perimenopause. Too much HIIT/cardio can strain adrenals for some women, while strength training and walking often support hormone health best.
          • Collagen and protein can be helpful, but keep it simple. Prioritize whole foods when possible, and use supplements strategically.
          • Synthetic fabrics and “toxin panic” can lead to overwhelm. Focus on your body’s non-negotiables instead of trying to fix everything at once.
          • HRT isn’t the same as birth control, but it matters what you’re being prescribed. Rita emphasizes bioidentical hormones and addressing root causes alongside symptom relief.
          • Chapters

            00:00 Welcome + why we’re talking perimenopause now

            00:38 Rita’s story: cycle tracking, infertility, and functional hormone work
            02:45 Overlooked perimenopause symptoms and the “cotton to silk” body shift
            05:34 Melissa’s personal symptoms: stress, weight gain, inflammation, labs, and restrictive plans
            09:20 Gut health + hormone balance: why detox and digestion matter
            11:08 What “healthy digestion” actually looks like (and what’s not normal)
            14:40 What to do next: probiotics, fermented foods, enzymes, and targeted support
            18:35 The power of slowing down: chewing, sitting, and praying before meals
            19:37 Listener Qs: collagen, supplements, and what’s worth the hype
            22:20 Coffee + protein: stabilizing blood sugar and protecting cortisol
            23:53 Adrenals + workouts: when HIIT/cardio may be too much in perimenopause
            28:01 Synthetic fabrics + toxin overwhelm: focus on your “non-negotiables”
            31:15 HRT explained: when it helps, when it becomes a band-aid
            35:59 Misconceptions, the early 2000s study, and bioidentical vs synthetic hormones
            38:49 Where to find Rita + free hormone balancing guide
            40:27 Perimenopause Toolkit Workshop (HRT, charting, intimacy, and self-navigation)

             

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            42 min
          • 67| Vision Is Not New Age: A Catholic Approach to Dreaming With God

            Vision boards. Visualization. Imagining your future.

            For many Catholics, these words can feel uncomfortable or even off-limits. Is this New Age? Is it Christian? Is it something we should avoid altogether?

            In this episode of the Anchored with Purpose Podcast, Melissa breaks down why vision is deeply biblical and deeply Catholic when done the right way — with God at the center. You’ll learn how visualization can actually become a powerful form of prayer, how Scripture invites us to imagine God’s future for our lives, and how vision boards can be used as a faith-filled tool for surrender, not control.

            Melissa also weaves in wisdom from one of her favorite authors, Mark Batterson, and explains the clear difference between New Age manifestation and Catholic discernment.

            If you’ve ever wondered whether it’s okay to dream big with God — this episode is for you.

            🧠 What You’ll Learn in This Episode
            • Why vision is biblical, not trendy or New Age
            • How imagination is a gift from God
            • The difference between visualization as prayer vs. manifestation
            • Why surrender matters more than control when dreaming with God
            • How God provides provision where He gives vision
            • The Catholic mindset vs. the New Age mindset (side-by-side clarity)
            • How vision boards can become a visual prayer journal
            • The neuroscience behind focus, habits, and holy imagination
            • How vision connects to Melissa’s Life Anchors: faith, family, health, purpose, impact, relationships, and home
            • 🎧 Episode Chapters

              00:00 – Is Vision Biblical or New Age?

              01:08 – Grounding Vision in Scripture
              02:23 – Imagination as Prayer
              04:32 – Dreaming with God, Not Apart from Him
              06:48 – God Gives Vision and Provision
              08:15 – Catholic Vision vs. New Age Thinking
              09:18 – What a Catholic Vision Board Really Is
              11:40 – The Neuroscience of Holy Focus
              13:02 – Vision Through the Life Anchors
              14:06 – Dream Big and Trust God’s Timing

              🛠️ Practical Takeaway

              This month, spend intentional time with Jesus and ask:

              • What do You want me to become this year?
              • What vision do You have for my life?
              • Where are You inviting me to trust You more deeply?
              • Then consider creating a simple, faith-filled vision board as a prayer tool.

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                16 min
              • 66| Earbuds In: A Catholic Conversation About Sex, Intimacy, and Marriage

                This is an “earbuds in” conversation, friend. Melissa sits down with Ellen Holloway, host of Charting Toward Intimacy (a leading Catholic intimacy podcast), for an honest, hope-filled conversation about sex, intimacy, and healing in marriage—in a way that’s fully aligned with the Catholic Church. Ellen shares her personal story (including the early struggles of marriage, learning Natural Family Planning, and healing from vaginismus), why so many Catholic women feel shame or confusion around sex, and practical steps to reconnect with your body, your spouse, and God. You’ll also hear powerful takeaways like a body scan prayer, the idea that sex can be prayer, and why scheduling sex isn’t unromantic—it’s often the most loving way to prioritize intimacy in real life.

                Learn more at Ellen’s website: https://vinesinfullbloom.com/ 

                Key Takeaways
                • You’re not “bad” for struggling with sex. Many emotions around intimacy are learned responses, not moral failures.
                • Shame thrives in silence. Intimacy is deeply vulnerable, so it’s often avoided—but it’s too important to ignore.
                • A powerful starting point: the Body Scan Prayer. Noticing your thoughts about each part of your body and asking God what He thinks can be deeply healing.
                • God calls your body “very good.” Parts of the body that carry the most shame are also parts that reflect God’s design for communion and relationship.
                • Healing takes time—and wins matter. Celebrate small progress instead of only focusing on the end goal.
                • Sex can be prayerful. Ellen encourages bringing God into your intimacy—praying about your sex life and (eventually) praying with your husband.
                • Spontaneity is not the standard. Scheduling sex is often a healthy way to prioritize connection (just like we schedule what matters most).
                • Libido can be rebuilt. Desire and pleasure aren’t “either you have it or you don’t”—there are practical steps forward.
                • There are safer ways to get support. Not every level of conversation is appropriate with close friends—sometimes a coach/community outside your circle is best.
                • Free next step: Ellen shares a free webinar on January 21 focused on rebuilding libido and learning key foundations for pleasure.
                • Chapter Titles + Timestamps
                  • 00:01 — Earbuds In Disclaimer + Episode Preview
                  • 00:37 — Ellen’s Story: Early Marriage Struggles, NFP, and Healing
                  • 05:05 — “Why Didn’t Anyone Teach Us This?” (Purity Culture + Pre-Cana Gaps)
                  • 07:06 — Why Intimacy Feels Misunderstood or Avoided
                  • 13:30 — Motherhood + Disconnection: What Feels “Off Limits” and Why
                  • 14:39 — The Body Scan Prayer (Asking God What He Thinks About Your Body)
                  • 20:20 — For the Woman Carrying Shame, Confusion, or Trauma
                  • 23:55 — God-Centered Intimacy: Sex as Prayer + Praying About Sex
                  • 30:24 — Free Webinar (Jan 21): Rebuilding Libido + Foundations for Pleasure
                  • 32:51 — Scheduling Sex: Debunking the “It Must Be Spontaneous” Myth
                  • 42:12 — Where to Find Ellen + Podcast + Webinar Sign-Up
                  • 43:22 — Closing Blessing + “Stay Anchored With Purpose”
                  • Links Mentioned
                    • Ellen’s website: https://vinesinfullbloom.com/ 
                    • Ellen’s podcast: Charting Toward Intimacy (wherever you listen)
                    • Free webinar sign-up (Jan 21): https://us06web.zoom.us/webinar/register/WN_9Q4qrEa3T7q3AoXzYniGzQ
                    • Books/resources mentioned:
                      • Gregory Popcak, Holy Sex: https://a.co/d/663Dphl 
                      • Edward Sri: https://a.co/d/eNMGodf 
                      • Christopher West (Theology of the Body resources): https://a.co/d/74Yyby5 
                      • The Power of a Praying Wife (Melissa mentions): https://a.co/d/7EtCjQL
                      • Catholic marriage, Catholic intimacy, sex in marriage, Theology of the Body, natural family planning (NFP), fertility awareness, vaginismus, libido, orgasm, pleasure, shame, purity culture, healing, body scan prayer, praying with your husband, scheduling sex, spontaneous vs responsive desire, emotional intimacy, spiritual intimacy, Catholic women, marriage encouragement

                         

                        44 min
                      • 65| You Are Not Behind: A Gentle Reset for the New Year

                        January is loud. Everywhere you turn you hear, new year, new you, hustle harder, do more, become everything overnight. And if you do not get it all figured out in January, the year is basically over. In this episode, Melissa gently calls out the January Trap and shares why trying to carry a year’s worth of change into one month is the fastest way to burn out before February even hits.

                        Instead of hustling, this episode invites you to slow down, choose a Word of the Year, filter your goals through your Life Anchors, and create a simple, intentional plan using your Anchored with Purpose Planner so transformation happens one faithful step at a time.

                        ✨ Key Takeaways
                        • You are not behind if your goals or vision board are not done yet.
                        • January is for setting the foundation, not becoming a completely new woman.
                        • Your Word of the Year should guide what you focus on each month.
                        • Planning is not procrastinating, it removes the mental load.
                        • You do not need 10 goals, you need 3.
                        • Big goals become achievable when they are broken into monthly action steps and scheduled into your real life.
                        • Flexibility is not failure. You adjust and keep going.
                        • ⏱️ Episode Chapters
                          • 00:00 – Welcome + The January Hustle Culture Lie
                          • 01:11 – The January Trap and Why It Leads to Burnout
                          • 02:26 – Why Transformation Happens Slowly
                          • 04:50 – Using Your Word of the Year With the Life Anchors
                          • 07:14 – Choosing Only Three Goals for the Year
                          • 09:39 – Breaking Big Goals Into Monthly Action Steps
                          • 11:56 – Scheduling Your Goals Into Your Weekly Planner
                          • 14:21 – Flexibility, Grace, and God’s Provision
                          • 🛠️ Resources Mentioned
                            • Anchored with Purpose Planner: https://anchored-with-purpose.kit.com/products/anchored-with-purpose-planner
                            • Word of the Year Episodes: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/64-one-word-can-change-everything-why-resolutions-fail/id1775076672?i=1000743213795  https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/10-how-one-word-can-transform-your-year/id1775076672?i=1000680670747 
                            • Life Anchors Introduction Episode: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/36-anchored-in-every-area-10-life-anchors-that-hold/id1775076672?i=1000713214616 
                            • Anchored with Purpose Faith Journal: https://a.co/d/aUrUAKz
                            • Choose your Word of the Year.

                              Write down how that word should influence each of your Life Anchors.
                              Pick your top 3 goals for the year.
                              Then decide what you need to focus on this month to set your year up for success and schedule those action steps into your planner.

                              Transformation does not happen in a week. It happens through quiet obedience and small faithful steps.

                              January goals, Word of the Year, transformation, Christian goal setting, planning with purpose, Life Anchors, Anchored with Purpose Planner, faith based planning, burnout prevention, intentional living, Catholic moms, Christian women podcast, Catholic, Catholic women

                               

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                            • 64| One Word Can Change Everything: Why Resolutions Fail & Words Transform

                              As the new year begins, most of the world rushes to make resolutions. However, research shows nearly 80% of them will be abandoned by mid-February. In this powerful episode, Melissa shares why she stopped setting resolutions and started choosing a Word of the Year instead - a simple, faith-filled practice that aligns your heart, habits, and purpose with God.

                              Melissa walks you through her Word of the Year journey from 2017 through 2025, explains how to choose your own word using her free guide, and reveals her 2026 word: Transformation -  a year focused on renewing her mind, strengthening her body, and living as a true “living sacrifice” for God.

                              🧭 Key Takeaways
                              • Why 80% of New Year’s resolutions fail — and what works better
                              • What a Word of the Year is and how it shapes who you’re becoming
                              • How Melissa’s past words prepared her for each new season
                              • A step-by-step framework for choosing your own Word of the Year
                              • How to anchor your word with a definition, Scripture, and vision
                              • Melissa’s 2025 word (Impact) and how God multiplied her influence
                              • Her 2026 word (Transformation) and the physical, spiritual, and mental renewal God is inviting her into
                              • ⏱ Chapters

                                00:00 – Why New Year’s resolutions don’t work

                                01:30 – What is a Word of the Year?
                                02:00 – Melissa’s Word of the Year journey (2017–2025)
                                02:45 – Why a word works when resolutions don’t
                                03:30 – How to choose your Word of the Year
                                04:45 – Example: 2025 Word — Impact
                                06:30 – Introducing 2026 Word — Transformation
                                07:00 – Vision for Transformation in body, mind & spirit
                                08:30 – Invitation to download the Word of the Year Guide

                                🔗 Resources & Links Mentioned
                                • 📝 Free Word of the Year Guide — Download here:
                                • 👉 https://anchored-with-purpose.ck.page/b78367e68c
                                • 📖 YouVersion Bible App — Download here:
                                • 👉  https://www.bible.com/users/mjwilkinson41
                                • 🎧 Previous Episode on Word of the Year — Listen here:
                                • 👉 https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/10-how-one-word-can-transform-your-year/id1775076672?i=1000680670747

                                   

                                  11 min

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