And Then Suddenly

Calvin Gimpelevich (Invasions) was in 4th grade when he realized how much time and effort the writer must have spent creating the book he was reading. That realization turned the avid reader into a writer and that identity continues to guide his life. We talk about his experience as a transgender writer, the role of literature in society, and what it means to be a storyteller.

Additional Resources

• calvingimpelevich.com
• Calvin on Instagram: @calvin.calvin.g

Wendy Ann Gentry was waiting on the front porch when a FedEx package arrived. Feeling like she was having an out of body experience, she opened the box to find letters and pictures from the birth parents she never met. We talk about adoption, the unethical practices of her adoption home in the 1960s, and how things change when you discover where you come from.

Harry Zikos was a young professional working in the family real estate business when one day, he decided he had to leave. Taking a huge risk, the chain of events that followed changed his mindset and the way he does business. We talk about what it takes to venture out on your own, what it means to be the son of Greek immigrants, and the realities of being a New York real estate broker.

Additional Resources

• Harry Zikos: Instagram @harryzikosny

After having her daughter and changing careers, Amanda Laird felt unsatisfied. And then the US election happened and the Toronto based Holistic Nutritionist had to do something. She decided to start a podcast to address periods, reproductive health, and other taboo health topics. We chat about the politics behind menstruation, the post-election women's movement, and why you should become the expert on your own body.

Additional Resources

• Heavy Flow: Breaking the Curse of Menstruation by Amanda Laird
• Heavy Flow podcast
• Amanda Laird: www.amandalaird.ca
• Taking Charge of Your Fertility by Toni Weschler

In 2003, Richard Chang (Citizen Wong) was doing voice over work for the Bill Moyers documentary, Becoming American: The Chinese Experience, when he first learned about Wong Chin Foo, a popular writer and activist during the Gilded Age. Wong was the first to use the term Chinese American, and was known by name to the American public, but has virtually disappeared from history. Discovering him led Richard to years of research in order to create a new kind of play that smashes stereotypes and presents roles for Asian Americans. We talk about prejudice, the past, and how as a journalist at Reuters he sees history repeating itself.

Additional Resources

• Citizen Wong: a new play by Richard Chang
• History of Times Square

On her 30th birthday, Susan Fritz said something to her husband that changed everything. A week later, Dan passed away from cancer and her life as a nomad began to take shape. Ten years has passed and she has been all over the world. We talk about the useless cliches around illness, how time offers new perspective, and why she is so excited to turn 40.

Additional Resources

• The Telegraph: "Happy Birthday song and its strange past"

Tyron Cutner (Well Dress Academy) was about to turn 30 when the relationship with his girlfriend unexpectedly ended. He decided he wanted to change and began dressing sharp on a regular basis. Noticing a big shift in himself and how people treated him, the former bus driver soon became a CEO. We talk about why clothes matter, how they can improve men's lives, and what happens when style is shared between fathers and sons.

Additional Resources

• Well Dressed Academy
• Success Magazine: "13 Ways to Improve Your Life"

Artist Catherine Rondthaler had her daughter when she was twenty-one years old and got pregnant with her son soon after that. The two pregnancies, both different and both a surprise, turned her world upside down. Thirty five years later, her daughter is pregnant and she will be a grandmother for the first time. We talk about the ever changing role of parenthood, how fast time flies, and how this new year will bring a new life.

Additional Resources:

• Catherine Rondthaler: catherinerondthaler.com
• CNN: How 'Baby New Year' was born

During her sophomore of college, Angela "Merk" Nguyen (Adult ISH podcast) was sitting around a fire pit when her brother gave her some advice. That advice began to sink in as she realized that because of her family's sacrifices and experiences, she was poised to take advantage of all the opportunities that were coming her way. Now a college graduate beginning her career in NYC, we talk about the journey of her immigrant parents from Vietnam, how she found her voice, and what it means to be American.

Additional Resources

• Adult ISH podcast
• Mulan, "Reflection"

In September 2016, Chris Tatem (Cross Examined Life podcast) was in a hospital waiting room when the sound of the television became incredibly loud and all he could focus on was the two political pundits on the screen. As he watched them personally attack each other, he wondered if there is a better way we can disagree. We talk the current political divide, how the language we use gives us permission to do extreme things, and what it takes to have productive conversations with the opposing side.

Additional Resources

• Cross Examined Life podcast
• NBC News: "Americans are divided over everything except division"
• SNL: A Thanksgiving Miracle
• ASHA: How We Hear