Andisheh Conversations

In this eye-opening episode of Andisheh Parenting, we challenge the conventional wisdom of modern parenting that demands constant playfulness from parents. Discover the pitfalls of turning play into a duty and explore a revolutionary approach that emphasizes community-supported, child-led play. Learn from anthropology and psychology experts about the benefits of giving children the freedom to play and grow independently. Join us as we explore co-housing communities and how they can transform the way we raise our children.

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Is boredom good for kids?

In this episode of Andisheh Parenting, I explore why unstructured time is essential for children’s growth, plus what a 1930s Austrian village can teach us about purpose and connection. We’ll also look at how co-housing communities give kids freedom, safety, and a built-in village, and my vision for creating one in Austin, Texas.

Books mentioned:

Creating Co-Housing — Kathryn McCamant & Charles Durrett

Cohousing Communities - Charles Durrent

One Life, Live It — Charles Durrett

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In this episode of Andisheh Parenting, we engage in a heartfelt conversation with two mothers, Alex and Sara, about their diverse parenting philosophies shaped by cultural backgrounds and personal experiences. We explore the evolution of their parenting ideals, the challenges of sleep training, and the realities of gentle parenting. The discussion highlights the importance of community wisdom, the acceptance of imperfection in parenting, and the necessity of problem-solving approaches in raising children.TakeawaysParenting philosophies often change after becoming a parent.Cultural backgrounds significantly influence parenting styles.Expectations around sleep can lead to frustration for parents.Gentle parenting can be more challenging than anticipated.Problem-solving conversations with children can foster better relationships.Community support and shared experiences are invaluable for parents.It's normal to have regrets and make mistakes as a parent.Trial and error is a common part of parenting.Reading and research should be balanced with personal experiences.Cultural wisdom can provide valuable insights into effective parenting.

In this conversation, Homa shares her extraordinary journey from being a registered nurse in Canada to pursuing anthropology, leading her to Afghanistan to study lullabies. She discusses the cultural significance of lullabies, the challenges of conducting research in a different country, and how her experiences reshaped her views on parenting and community. Homa reflects on the differences between parenting in Afghanistan and Canada, highlighting the importance of community support and the lessons she has learned from her cultural exploration. Ultimately, she highlights the personal transformation that accompanies motherhood and the valuable insights gained from her journey.

Resources:

1. Allison Gopnick
2. EO Wilson's biophilia
3. Last Child in the Woods by Richard Louv
4. https://www.childrenandnature.org/
5. Coyote's Guide to Connecting with Nature Book by Jon Young
6. How to Raise a Wild Child: The Art and Science of Falling in Love with Nature by Scott D. Sampson

Today, I’m talking to Sara, a mom who transformed her parenting approach to connect her son with the wonders of nature.Despite not being outdoorsy herself, Sara was determined to create meaningful nature play experiences for Sam, starting with small hikes and playgroups in Vancouver. Her journey was full of challenges, low participation, legal concerns, and learning from scratch, but it led to profound discoveries about parenting, nature, and herself.If you’ve ever wondered about the magic of unstructured play or the courage to step outside your comfort zone as a parent, this episode is for you. Let’s dive in!

In this episode, we’ll dive into Lenore Skenazy’s provocative book, Free-Range Kids.

توی این اپیزود خلاصه ای از نکاتی که میتونه به پدر مادر و بچه ها کمک کنه برای روز و هفته اول مدرسه رو صحبت میکنیم.

چطور یک مدرسه رو برای فرزندمون انتخاب کنیم؟اگر انتخاب نداریم چی؟ چطور فضای مدرسه رو برای بچه مون بهتر کنیم؟

آیا آموزش در تربیت فرزند مهم هست؟

توی این اپیزود با هانیه رزاقی عزیز درباره دغدغه ش در مورد آموزش کودکان به عنوان یک والد صحبت میکنیم و از تجربه و تخصصش در این زمینه استفاده میکنیم. هانیه رواندرمانگر ثبت شده در اونتاریو کانادا هست و خیلی خوشحالیم که توی این اپیزود ما رو همراهی میکنه.