Hey y’all, it’s Lynn and Cynthia! Welcome back to Another Way to Think About It—the show where we ditch the “right” answers and lean into honest conversations about life’s messier, more meaningful questions. We’re so glad you’re here.

In this episode, we had an incredible, eye-opening conversation with our longtime friend and veteran ghostwriter, Kat Moore. Kat has developed and ghostwritten over 15 books across memoir, self-help, YA, and fiction over her 17-year career. But as we found out, her role goes far beyond “putting words on a page.” She’s part therapist, part confidant, part advocate, and always a witness to the richness (and pain) of her client’s lives. Together, we pulled back the curtain on the ghostwriting process—what it really takes (emotionally, professionally, even spiritually) to help someone else share their story, and why the act of storytelling is so deeply human.

This episode runs the gamut from practical questions—how do you know if a client is ready to open up?—to big-picture reflections on what it means to be seen and heard, how to hold someone’s story without judgment, and all the messy, imperfect humanity along the way. Whether you’re a writer, a reader, or simply someone with a story in your heart, there’s something in this conversation for you.

1. The process of ghostwriting memoirs, including trauma narratives, celebrity stories, and fiction
2. How Kat establishes trust and emotional safety with clients—and knows when the fit isn’t right
3. Why ghostwriting feels a lot like therapy (for both writer and subject!)
4. The emotional boundaries ghostwriters must set while still bringing empathy and care to their work
5. The unique role of being a silent partner: carrying emotional weight without public recognition
6. The difference between factual truth and emotional truth, and how both play into memoir writing
7. Why every story is worth telling—yes, even if you’re “just” an ordinary person
8. The transformative power of being witnessed, and how storytelling is central to our sense of connection
9. The wisdom and life experience held by elders and why their stories matter, especially in a culture obsessed with youth
10. Some hard but funny truths about generational divides, family history, and what makes for real connection in our modern world

If this conversation gave you another way to think about ghostwriting—or your own story—we’d love for you to stick around and join our growing community. Hit subscribe (right down there!) so you never miss an episode, and if you resonated with what Kat shared, drop us a note or share this episode with a friend. Real conversations, real stories, real connections—that’s why we’re here.

With love,

Lynn & Cynthia

Don’t forget: Everyone has a story. Maybe it’s time to tell yours—or simply listen more deeply to someone else’s.

Welcome back to Another Way to Think About It! We’re Cynthia Zeito and Lynn Kindler: two longtime friends inviting you to ditch the idea of “right answers” and join us for real—and sometimes delightfully messy—conversations.

In this episode, we kick off the new year by challenging the classic “Happy New Year” attitude and digging into what it really means to start fresh. Instead of just resolutions or big shifts, we get honest about the beauty of small changes, staying present, and finding magic in daily life. From the adventures of waking earlier to the hilarity of speech quirks and the joys of generosity, we share our hopes for the podcast and dream up the guests we’d love to invite on. It’s another heartfelt exchange anchored in helping you discover another way to think about your own new beginnings.

In This Episode, We Talk About:

1. A fresh take on “Happy New Year” and why simply doing one small thing differently can make a world of difference
2. How meditation—and even just lying in bed with your thoughts—clears the mind for both kids and adults
3. Spotting magic and beauty in everyday life, from January wildflowers to spectacular sunsets
4. The value of self-awareness and poking fun at ourselves (including
5. Lynn Kindler
6. 's speech quirks)
7. Our secrets to wanting “things to go our way,” preparing for opportunities, and letting go of perfection
8. Our dreams for the podcast: helping lots of people, inviting inspiring guests like authors, ghostwriters, healers, and scientists—and, yes, maybe getting sponsors!
9. Our vision of using any success to support others, travel, and give back (with a little nod to shoes and Cadillac jokes)
10. Why we hope you laugh with us (and at us!) and feel a bit lighter when you tune in

If you connected with this episode, got a new perspective, or just appreciate honest and curious conversation, please subscribe on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or our website (once it’s ready). Your support means we can keep bringing good vibes, good guests, and a whole lot of realness your way!

Thanks for joining us—here’s to finding another way to think about it together.

Welcome back to “Another Way to Think About It,” where we ditch the idea of right answers and have real conversations that dig into life’s messy and beautiful questions. We’re your hosts, Lynn and Cynthia—two longtime friends who've had our fair share of life’s curveballs, and who believe a little humor and a whole lot of heart can go a long way. In this episode, we’re diving deep into what it takes to keep our hearts open (especially when life makes us want to shut down), the importance of staying present, and the imperfect art of supporting each other through all of it.

This week, we lean right into the challenges of the holiday season, reflecting on what hardens our hearts and how we come back to ourselves when things get tough. From the realities of caregiving and family stress to pulling out our tried-and-true tools for support, you’ll hear us get personal—sometimes serious, sometimes silly, and always real—about navigating fear, anger, and overwhelm. Lynn Kindler shares raw memories of dissociation and self-medicating in tough times, as well as the power of relationship support and learning to ask for help. Cynthia Zeito gets honest about the distractions that steal our presence, the necessity of compassion, and learning to apologize with action, not just words. Together, we figure out (in real time!) how grace, laughter, and clean Pilates butts help us keep showing up as our truest selves.

What We Discussed

1. The struggles of keeping our hearts open when overwhelmed or afraid
2. Why presence is so easily lost—and ways to recognize when you’re checked out
3. Personal stories about dealing with anxiety, panic, and old coping mechanisms
4. Navigating relationship conflict, intimacy issues, and the work of real communication
5. The difference between reaching out for support and seeking someone to “fix” us
6. The role of friendship, support systems, and vulnerability (even if it’s uncomfortable!)
7. Using recovery tools and therapy to ground ourselves in the present
8. The importance of apologizing genuinely, and the many ways women say “I’m sorry”
9. Lighthearted lessons from Pilates, clean butts, and going off on silly tangents
10. Encouragement to do your inner work during the “lulls”—before crisis hits

If this episode gave you another way to think about your own heart (or at least made you laugh or feel a little lighter), we’d love for you to hit subscribe and join us for more honest, imperfect, and heartfelt conversations. The holiday season can be tough, but you don’t have to navigate it alone—come hang out with us and let’s keep finding another way to think about it, together. See you next time!

Welcome back to "Another Way to Think About It," where we invite you into our real, unfiltered conversations that swap out “right” answers for honest sharing. We're Lynn Kindler and Cynthia Zeito—longtime friends exploring life’s messiest questions with humor, vulnerability, and lots of heart.

We took a break for a little rebranding, but we’re back and kicking off our refreshed show by diving headfirst into the chaotic world of the holiday season—specifically, how we try to keep a grip on our sanity when the “shiitake” hits the fan. We pulled back the curtain on our personal experiences, shared the emotional rollercoaster we both ride as highly empathic women, and most of all, we laughed with each other (and at ourselves!).

We talked about how family histories, expectations, and memories of loss can complicate this time of year, even when you’ve done “all the work.” Both of us revealed tools from years of meditation, therapy, and 12-step programs, but also admitted that sometimes, you just need to hide out in the bathroom, cry, or fake-laugh until it turns real. We explore how personal triggers (hello, money stress!), old wounds, and ever-changing relationships can amp up the stress, but also lead to precious growth if we let them.

Highlights from this episode include:

1. Navigating old emotions and expectations during the holidays
2. The surprising value of grace, boundaries, and deep breaths (literally!)
3. Admitting when we’re resentful or angry—and why naming our feelings out loud shifts everything
4. Real talk about spiritual arrogance and self-improvement
5. Why it’s okay to take a bathroom break at a family gathering—or laugh until you actually feel better
6. How being empathic makes the holiday season even more intense
7. The magic of silly animal voices and “orgasmic laughter” as therapy
8. Passing on the wisdom of mentors, sponsors, and beloved chosen family

If you’re searching for a space where holiday chaos is met with compassion, where you can learn to laugh at life’s messes, and where you might pick up a new tool (or lipstick shade!), you’re in the right place.

If this episode gave you another way to think about sanity during the holidays, please hit subscribe and join us next time for another honest, curious conversation. We love you, and we’re grateful you’re here.

Lynn & Cynthia

In a world where conversations too often become debates, what if we chose a different path? What if we could talk about the hard, messy, even controversial topics with curiosity instead of judgment—and walk away with more understanding than when we started?

Another Way to Think About It is a podcast that opens the door to honest, unfiltered, and deeply human conversations. Hosted by transformational coach Cynthia Zeito and career-and-life-transition coach Lynn Kindler, the show explores life’s big questions and complicated edges with warmth, humor, and a lot of heart.

Lynn and Cynthia have been friends for more than five decades. They’ve lived, worked, and wandered across the globe—collecting stories, perspectives, and the kind of wisdom that only comes from living a full, messy, curious life. Think of them as your favorite aunties: the ones without filters, but with plenty of hard-earned insight, laughter, and maybe a few unconventional takes on the world.

These aren’t arguments to be won—they’re conversations to be shared. Together, Lynn and Cynthia remind us that empathy and humor can bridge divides, that contradictions are part of being human, and that understanding grows when we listen with open minds and open hearts.

Each episode invites you to question, laugh, and connect. You won’t find all the answers here—but you will find perspective, compassion, and maybe even a reason to smile.

If you’re awake enough to feel everything and brave enough to think again, this is your show.