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February 01, 2020

Anticipatory Service and Non Monogamy (Tillie King)

1 hour 11 minutes

content warning: we briefly discuss blood play

Sometimes when folks talk about a gold standard of service, they talk about anticipating the needs of someone else which is problematic to say the least.

Getting it wrong is only human as no one is perfect.

Accepting our imperfection is hard enough but asking someone how you can help can require courage.

Asking for help ourselves sometimes requires more.

So when asking someone else is seen as asking them for help on our task of anticipating what they want, we might shy away, especially if we’re a certain kind of human.

Tillie is back to help us get clarity on this topic of anticipatory service, but first we delve into some early non monogamy experiences and learn a little more about who Tillie is.

I’m excited to share our discussions on these two topics with you. I appreciate you. Thanks for coming back again and again.

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By Victor Salmon

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