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How to Relationship when you are dating a person with jealousy issues.
Experiencing a little bit of jealousy within A romantic relationship is not always a bad thing. After all, when a rival expresses interest in our partner, experiencing some jealousy can be a healthy sign of love and a reminder of the value of the relationship. But dealing with a partner who is pathologically jealous can be a nightmare… its a whole different story. In this video, I’m going to explain the difference between normal jealousy and pathological jealousy and share how to relationship with a jealous partner.

First… let’s make an important distinction…. JEALOUS FEELINGS ARE NOT EQUAL TO JEALOUS BEHAVIORS, the first is cause by some insecurity, fear, or anxiety over the possibility of losing someone… but jealous behaviors… those are caused by a need to control and posses your partner. There’s a big difference here.

Think about it... jealousy is the rawest of emotions.... and it's not always a bad thing. If you see a person making moves on your partner, expressing interest, or trying to date your partner, experiencing some jealousy and talking to your partner about it is a healthy and appropriate response. But in the absence of any real threat, a partner expressing jealousy, anger, and disgust may be motivated by possessiveness and a need to control. too often, we don’t realize how jealous and possessive a person is until we are in way too deep. That’s because recognizing jealous behaviors early in a relationship can be difficult to do. So, here are five of the earliest warning signs you’re your partner’s jealousy is pathological and might only get worse.

Observing any of these signs once doesn’t mean you cut your ties and run away… and Like most other difficult emotional experiences, jealousy, if treated correctly, can be a trigger for growth. And that begins with an honest conversation with your partner discussing how jealous behavior is hurting your relationship. If your partner is able to admit his jealous behavior and accept responsibility, you’re probably dealing with an insecurity issue. In that case, working together on the issue can become the first step in increased self-awareness and greater understanding both of your mate and of the relationship.

But if you’re seeing multiple warning signs or a progressive pattern develop, you should be concerned. Pathologically jealous individuals construct decisive evidence of disloyalty from irrelevant incidents, they refuse to change their views even when confronted with contradicting information, and are inclined to accuse their partner of unfaithfulness with many other individuals. Under this form of jealousy, one of the partners considers that he or she has an exclusive ownership over another individual; and that this ownership is a necessity for preserving the relationship.

Everyone experiences jealousy to a certain degree in a relationship. Fearing losing your partner or feeling threatened around other attractive people can be a sign that you care about your relationship. On the other hand, it can become a dangerous problem when jealousy becomes excessive, unwarranted and intrusive to the other person. Pathological jealousy can be quite destructive in a relationship, and, in extreme cases even dangerous in terms of assault behavior, suicide or homicide.

So,Be wise, trust your instincts, and protect yourself. If something doesn’t sound or feel right, do what’s best for you and keep yourself safe. That brings me to my next point… If you’ve had experiences with a jealous partner and you’d like to share your example, please feel free to leave a comment. Sharing your story might be incredibly helpful to someone who’s dealing with a similar situation.

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In this video, you will learn how to make your man miss you. 6 completely revised and powerful new steps that always work. Because this is such an important topic that affects so many people, I went back through all of my videos and articles and I have compiled the 6 most powerful steps that will make your man miss you like crazy. I promise you, these revised steps are even better than my previous ones.

Missing someone means that you are yearning for physical or emotional intimacy from them, but not getting it. Perhaps you’re in a relationship and you’re just not feeling appreciated.. or maybe you’re in a long distance relationship and you want to see him more. Or maybe you’ve noticed that he’s just not as in live with you as he was before.
Either way, these 6 steps will certainly get his attention and increase his yearning for you.

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I really like you, but I’m not ready for a relationship right now. We have so much fun together, but I don’t want anything serious. Let’s just hang out and have fun. Sound Familiar?

Those words are difficult and painful to hear from someone you really like. Especially if you want to be in a relationship. It leaves you disappointed and unsure of how to respond. Should you continue to see him or walk away? Is he just not that into you, is he confused, or Does he have Peter Pan syndrome?

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I’ve got to say.. this is a difficult spot to be in… it really does suck when you were hopeful about a potential relationship… looking forward to exploring possibilities with someone…. And then they tell you they aren’t sure if they want to be in a relationship right now. Nevertheless, they still want to hang out with you… just nothing serious, right?

Of course, you’re going to be wondering.. is it me? Does he just not want a relationship with me, or does he not want a relationship with anyone? Is he confused about you, does he want the best of both worlds, or does he have peter pan syndrome? Having a better idea of what’s really going on will help you make your decision regarding what you want…

Guyys who are affected by Peter Pan Syndrome tend to be afraid of committing to a relationship, taking that relationship seriously, getting engaged, chasing after a career, leaving their comfort zone, or taking on any real responsibility. Instead, they rely on acting young, crazy, careless and/or afraid for as long as they possibly can.

So, if you recognize that he’s peter pan… what can you do?

Well, first, don’t try to fix them. afterall, you didn’t break them in the first place.
you cannot save a man from PPS, he must learn on his own and find his inner motivation. And Some men will not grow out of this for a long, long time.. so do yourself a favor and exit the relationhip gracefully.

But what about if it isn’t peter pan syndrome? What if he’s super successful and responsible in all other areas of his life.. great job.. accomplished academically… responsible.. and shows mature responsible behaviors in all other areas of his life? Or perhaps he has a solid history of long term relationships… then what? He tells you that he’s unsure and not ready for a relationship..

And lastly, Know that rejection does not mean you are not good enough. If For whatever reason, you were not right for someone else. That decision is up to them. It is easy to get hung up on the “whys” behind their decision, but dwelling on them doesn’t change the reality. If you aren’t right for someone else, That MEANS they aren’t right for you. Move on and let them go. And Do not use the experience as proof that you aren’t good enough. Meeting a person that’s not right for you.. a person that is not a good match is not a reflection on you… Period.

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In this video, you will learn how to make him think about you all the time. And when you implement these tips, he is going to be showing you he’s thinking about you by texting you, calling you, and spending more time with you.

Do You catch yourself daydreaming of what the next date will be like.. or you wonder what he’s doing. Does this keep happening all day.. You find yourself replaying things that happened on the date, things you talked about.. and it happens over and over. — Can you relate to that scenario? If you can, then you know how exciting that feeling is, right? And of course, you are probably hoping that he is as excited as you are and thinking about you as much as you’re thinking about him.

You want him to have those same magical feelings that you’re experiencing. Well, I’m going to tell you exactly how to make that happen. But before we get into it, I need you to understand two things. First… These are not tips that Antonio made up.. these are tips that are based on theories of behavioral psychology and motivation and they really do work.

And secondly.. these tips are powerful, but they aren’t magical…. These tips aren’t going make an uninterested man suddenly fall in love with you. But, if he was initially attracted to you at some point, these tips will certainly peak his curiosity and get him thinking about you and wanting you more.

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Signs a Guy is Playing Mind Games Part 2

When you’re wondering if the person you’re dating is playing mind games.. dating feels impossible and almost pointless. In this video I explain more about dating mind games and give tell you exactly how to handle each type.

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Are you struggling with a relationship or dating situation that you need some help with? I coach people all over the world both over the phone or though video conferencing. Send me an email at [email protected] … and perhaps we can work together one on one.

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If you've ever felt a sense of impending doom when sending a text, waited around by the phone for it to just not ring, or felt insecure because of a partner's actions, there's a big chance that you're the victim of someone’s mind games. Mind games are defined as calculated behaviors used to manipulate, intimidate, or undermine someones behaviors or belief in the validity of their own perceptions.

So, How do you know if your partner is playing mind games with you?
The truth is, it can be difficult to recognize mind games when youre really into someone and you like them.. ya know… when they do something questionable.. or when they blow you off or are non responsive, you’ll come up with a number of different excuses for their poor behavior… . So it’s tricky to recognize mind games when you’re emotionally involved, because It’s difficult to be objective and see what’s really happening.

But The bottom line is that if you think you’re seeing examples of mind games in your relationship, you probably are. So it always helps to get validation and examples to understand how and why people play mind games.

If you start a relationship with something toxic, the relationship will be toxic. It sets a poor precedent for being together and can only lead to worse situations.

If playing a game works and you enter into a relationship, both you and your partner will think acting this way works.

The farther into a toxic relationship like this, the more miserable both of you will be.
You’ll play games to get your way, push your partner to “prove their love,” and other unhealthy practices. Not only will you have to break away from this relationship, but it will make getting into a new, healthy, relationship more difficult.

As I’ve said before, games playing and Manipulative behavior is a HUGE red flag. New relationships should be exciting, passionate, and easy. Not anxiety provoking and frustrating.

If it starts out difficult, what makes you think it’s going to be easier or better later. The beginning should be the best, right? Ya know... the honeymoon phase.

Don’t settle for anything less. \ Remember, if you’re busy waiting, wondering, and worrying about this relationship, you just might miss the opportunity to meet the right one. Successful relationships require both partners to say what they feel, and mean what they say. If someone is inconsistent with you or playing mind games to manipulate you, congratulate them on winning their game and manipulating you right out of their life.

If you are familiar with mind games or manipulation that I haven’t mentioned, please share them with us in the comments below. Oh... and I’ll link to the other video on mind games here. Be sure to check that one out too.

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In this video, you will learn 5 simple tips will show you how to get a man emotionally attached to you. These tips are based on solid psychological science and are designed to strengthen the emotional bond and make him addicted to you. So if you’re dating someone and you really want to bring him closer, then this is the video for you.

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How to Know When You Should End a Bad Relationship

People don’t dive head first into abusive relationships. Who would do that? Instead, They relinquish their lives an inch at a time as they become more entrenched in the relationship. Abusive relationships often begin as incredibly intense and passionate love affairs. Their abusers hold themselves back until they gain their partner’s trust and love. And then, little by little, the mind games, manipulation, controlling and emotionally abusive behaviors intensify.. So What do you do? how do you untangle yourself from this mess without losing your sanity? In this video, I’m going to share some strategies for detaching and removing yourself from a toxic relationship, Oh and probably most important in the last part of the video I’m going to present you with some
Questions that will help you determine if your relationship is unhealthy. Those are some tough questions, but they will really help you to Get some clarity.

Look... New relationships should be exciting, passionate, and easy.
Don’t settle for anything less. Remember, if you’re busy waiting, wondering, and worrying about this relationship, you just might miss the opportunity to meet the right one.
Today, I also have a question for all of you?
Are you in a situation or dating a person but you’re questioning whether or not your relationship is toxic or abusive. If so, ask yourself these questions

1 do you share Values and have Similar Goals, or does your partner want to stifle your growth? Does your partner encourage you to pursue your dreams?
2. Do You Inspire the Best in Each Other? Do you Feel Like Your Best Self while in the relationship!
3 do. You trust each other
4. Do You argue and Fight… productively. Or do your disagreements spiral into disrespectful and hurtful insults.
5. Do You make the relationship a top priority and you make a regular investment in the relationship.
6 do. Your friends and family approve
7. Do You Respect the Person Deeply

If you’ve answered no to one or more of these questions, it would be wise to reconsider your relationship. It might even help to talk toba professional counselor or therapist who can help you from an unbiased position.

And as always, I look forward to hearing your examples of how you have dealt with similar situations in the past.

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In this video, you will learn exactly what to do if you are dating a man who says he doesn’t want a relationship at this time. That’s right, we are going to go through a step by step plan to figure out if he just needs a little more time to get to know you, or if he is just wasting your time. And, I'll tell you exactly what to do to get him to commit now. So, get out a pen and some paper and let’s figure this out.

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If you’re single or in a dead end relationship.. finding real love is probably one of your top three new year resolutions. Sound familiar? If that’s you, stay tuned because I’m about to share 5 essential tips that will put you on the path for finding the love and relationship you deserve in 2018.

1 Know yourself, love yourself, and respect yourself first. Only then can you be ready for a partner to do the same.
I really want to stress the importance of knowing yourself—your values, desires, likes, and dislikes because they all impact relationships and are actually pre-requisites for knowing what you value and appreciate in a partner.

2. Practice Mindfulness…

We bring so many expectations with us on a date: “he should be this”, “he must look a certain way”, “I have to feel that instant connection”. These expectations along with our negative past dating experiences can lead to missing out on a wonderful relationship or falling for one that is not worth your time. Learning to date mindfully allows you to be your true self and make a genuine connection. In other words, the more you learn to be present and in tune with your needs, the less focused you will be on trying to be what “he” wants you to be or what you want him to be. So bottom line, if you are in your mind, you are not fully present. And if you are not fully present you definitely are not the best representation of yourself!

3. Allow yourself to be vulnerable.

So first and foremost, dating involves being in a vulnerable space… in the here and now. And it involves the risk of being rejected… and yes.. that’s a scary place. But it’s this FEAR of vulnerability and rejection that makes dating and getting into relationships difficult…

why? because many people fear being hurt more than they want love… but it’s always been that way… make no mistake about it… You’re absolutely not going to find love or a real emotional connection without being vulnerable and getting to a place of emotional intimacy with a partner.

4. Leave your past in the past.

We bring so many expectations, and hopes and fears with us on our dates. “He better not do this, or he better do that.” “I hope he’s cute, or tall or funny.” Let go of all of that and just OBSERVE what he does and doesn’t do. And again, do it with curiosity, not judgement.

5 Listen to your inner voice and Communicate Your thoughts without blame

If you’re sitting across the table from someone and your subconscious is telling you that your not compatible with this person, then listen to that inner voice. This is especially hard when you’re attracted to someone you sense isn’t looking for the same things as you. But those are the moments when it’s most important to be vulnerable and admit what you really want. Better to figure out that you aren’t a match now (regardless of how attracted you are to them) then after a few dates (and more of yourself invested).

So, have you made a resolution to find love this year? If so, what are some of the things you are going to do differently to make that happen. And how do you feel about engaging in an active dating search or online dating. share your thoughts in the comments below and let’s start a discussion. Remember.. you’re not alone.. if you’re single and dating, i’m sure you can also relate to these experiences. So, I look forward to chatting with you.

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How do you know if a man is really in love with you? A guy can tell you that he loves you, but how do you know if he really means it? Well in this video, you are going to learn 7 things that men say and do, only when they are in love with you. So, if he’s doing these things, you can be confident that he really means it when he says he loves you. Don’t go anywhere because we are starting right now.

In the very beginning stages of a relationship, It can be difficult to know for certain that a man loves you, especially when everything seems great. That’s because in the beginning men will say and do all the right things trying to win your affection. And knowing if he is being genuine or if he is leading you on and following his own agenda can be tricky? But, if you pay close attention to A man’s behavior, his body language, and his physiology and what he says, you can understand how he feels about you and remove any doubt. So, without further ado, here are the top ten signs that he’s in love with you.

OH.. also, make sure you watch all the way until the end because I’m going to tell you how you can win a 60 minute private, one on one telephone or video coaching session with me so I can help you with your dating or relationship issue. OK.. on to number 1

I’m Dr Antonio Borrello, and I’m a psychologist and relationship coach. This channel is all about helping you build great relationships so you can grow happy with the people you love. So, if you’re interested in dating advice and relationship advice that is focused on making your love life the best part of your life, start now by subscribing here.

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