In this episode, Karolina (anxious) calls out Gabriel (avoidant) on a juicy and oh-so-common double standard: why do avoidants crave the benefits of commitment while running from the responsibility of it? 

From love bombing to ghosting, we unpack why avoidants often look secure at first. And how the illusion starts to crack once real intimacy knocks. We dive into parental enmeshment, past relationships, perfectionism, and the emotional tug-of-war that leaves anxious partners over-giving and under-committed. 

If you've ever felt like you’re building a relationship solo while your avoidant partner is off journaling in the woods about “needing space,” this one’s for you. 

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