Anything Goes with the Bonis

We took the time to remember some of the most memorable weddings we’ve been to. We talk about what made them special. And we also talked about our wedding and how things have changed since then. If you are looking to get married soon, we also share a few things we learned through the wedding process that has a lot to do with fear, foolishness, faith and Great Big Father God.

 

What We're Into: Taylor Swift and Screwtape Letters Audiobook (1:08)

Topic of the Day (14:41)

What have been some memorable weddings for you? (24:48)

Did you like our wedding? (41:26)

Tips for those who are planning to get married (43:50)

Question and Answer (1:05:15)

We took the time to ask each other questions we haven’t asked each other before. Here’s the link to the questions we asked: https://www.indwellweddings.com/resources/2019/2/4/50-questions-to-ask-your-partner-during-date-night

 

What We're Into: Oven Kick Bakery & The Bible Project Podcast (2:08)

Topic of the Day: How people change  (9:25)

In what ways are we the same? And it what ways are we different? (15:25)

When did you first learn you loved me? (20:57)

When was the time that you felt really close to me? (26:01)

 What personality trait of yours do you wish you could change? (32:50)

What would constitute a perfect day for you? (35:30)

 What is your favorite time of the day to be physically intimate? (38:24)

What movie reminds you of us? (39:16)

How do you want to be remembered after you die? (47:16)

 Do you like kissing or hugging me? (54:05)

Question & Answer (55:42)

What We're Into: Divinity 2: Original Sin & The Body Keeps Score by Bessel van der Kolk (00:54)

Topic of the Day: Mental Health Part 2 - How God intervened and the road to healing (07:49)

Question & Answer: If your boyfriend searches girls in social media, is it considered cheating? (52:14)

What We're Into: Balara Studio and Content House & Flacbox

Topic of the Day: Carla's mental health

Question & Answer: Do you have a 5-year or 10-year plan for your family?

What We're Into: Melatonin & Sex with Presidents: The Ins and Outs of Love and Lust in the White House audiobook (00:36)

Topic of the Day: The Power of the Tongue (19:21)

Question & Answer: How do we take notes: notebooks or tablets? (59:55)

What We're Into: Apple Watch & The Tudors Audiobook (07:20)

Topic of the Day:

When is it wrong to be bold as Christians? (14:02)

How to know the right church for you? (19:37)

Church trauma and authoritarian Christians (27:26) 

Cheating in a relationship (40:32)

Being equally yoked (48:46)

How to deal with a husband who accuses you of liking someone else (57:53)

What We're Into: Chicken Binakol & Rope Flow (05:40)

Topic of the Day: Strong Women (10:31)

Question & Answer: How to overcome a heartbreak? (53:37)

We continued the discussion on church trauma. Hopefully this helps model for others how to process the situation.

What We’re Into: Orgain Protein Powder & Life of Fred (02:15)

Topic of the Day: Church Trauma (14:44)

Question & Answer: How to say no to relatives who ask for money without them thinking you're selfish? (01:29:12)

We take the time to respond to a widely circulating post about What Church Trauma looks like. We talk from personal experience, stories we've heard, and, most importantly, what the Bible says. Some of these we've experienced, some of it we're guilty of and have repented from, some of it we still may still even stand by. We barely got through all the points so we'll continue it in the next episode.

What We’re Into: Christian Rap & Sparkling Water (01:32)

Topic of the Day: Is This Trauma? (Church Trauma) (09:16)

Question & Answer: Balancing All Roles (1:18:02)

What We're Into (2:58)

Topic of the Day (13:08)

Question and Answer (1:15:06)