<p>Looking back, it's pretty clear that controlling others is a major symptom of the Nice Guy syndrome. Who knew that being Mr. Nice Guy was just a passive way to be Mr. Control Freak? It's not a good masculine trait. And guess what? Being controlling doesn't create positive relationships or a fulfilling life. Shocker, right? It’s exhausting and totally counterproductive. So what can you do about it? Watch this video and see if you are a good man or a control freak.</p>

Looking back, it's pretty clear that controlling others is a major symptom of the Nice Guy syndrome. Who knew that being Mr. Nice Guy was just a passive way to be Mr. Control Freak? It's not a good masculine trait. And guess what? Being controlling doesn't create positive relationships or a fulfilling life. Shocker, right? It’s exhausting and totally counterproductive. So what can you do about it? Watch this video and see if you are a good man or a control freak.

Are Nice Guys Control Freaks?

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The Confident Husband Podcast is for the man who’s done settling. If you’re tired of feeling disconnected in your marriage, confused by your wife’s needs, or unsure how to lead without controlling or caretaking—this podcast is for you. I’m Chuck Chapman, a licensed professional counselor, a men’s relationship expert and creator of The Confident Husband Solution. After 20,000+ hours working with men, I’ve seen the patterns that keep us stuck—and I’ve built the roadmap to help you lead with strength, presence, and purpose. Each week, we dive into what it really means to be a husband, how to rebuild trust, reignite intimacy, and take full ownership of your life and marriage—without losing yourself in the process. Real tools, real stories, and real transformation. Because your marriage won’t change until you do. Let’s do the work—together.

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