Navigating Perimenopause: How to Support Your Wife and Strengthen Your Marriage

In this episode of The Confident Husband Podcast, Chuck Chapman addresses a common yet rarely discussed issue in marriages: perimenopause. Many men notice a significant change in their wives' behavior, mood, and sex drive during this phase, leading to feelings of disconnection and frustration. Chuck explains what perimenopause is, its impact on women, and how husbands can support their partners through this challenging time. He offers four key strategies: being present, respecting and ensuring safety, maintaining your frame, and cultivating creative intimacy. By following these steps, husbands can help their marriages not only survive but thrive through the perimenopausal transition. For those needing further support, Chuck introduces the Confident Husband Solution, a program designed to help men lead their marriages with strength and purpose.

00:00 Understanding the Shift in Your Marriage
00:30 What is Perimenopause?
01:15 The Emotional and Physical Impact of Perimenopause
02:43 The Role of a Husband During Perimenopause
03:06 Common Mistakes Men Make
03:45 Medical and Emotional Support Options
04:33 Four Strategies for Confident Husbands
08:43 Maintaining Intimacy During Perimenopause
10:08 Conclusion and Invitation to the Confident Husband Solution

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Join Chuck Chapman in this episode of The Confident Husband Podcast as he discusses why admiration alone is not enough for a fulfilling marriage. Learn the vital difference between admiring and adoring your wife, and how expressing adoration can transform your relationship. Discover how to connect deeply with your wife's essence, making her feel cherished and truly loved. Chapman shares practical insights and a challenge to help you shift from mere respect to profound adoration, ensuring a rich, intimate connection. Tune in for actionable advice and an invitation to a free webinar for more transformative tips.

00:00 Understanding the Struggle: Why Your Efforts May Not Be Enough
01:32 The Key Difference: Admiration vs. Adoration
03:54 The Impact of Adoration: How It Transforms Relationships
05:17 Practical Steps: How to Show Adoration
05:54 Conclusion and Next Steps

Overcoming Nice Guy Syndrome: Reclaiming Your Significance
In this episode of The Confident Husband Podcast, host Chuck Chapman addresses the common fear among men, especially those recovering from 'nice guy syndrome,' of appearing needy. Chapman explores the origins of this fear rooted in childhood, where many were taught that expressing needs could lead to abandonment. He explains how this leads to patterns of validation-seeking and the suppression of personal needs in adulthood, particularly within marriages. Chapman outlines the difference between validation and significance, stressing the importance of men creating significance through living with integrity, presence, and purpose. He encourages men to become 'integrated husbands,' who are grounded and lead their marriages with strength, ensuring both partners feel safe, connected, and valued. For more insights and to learn about The Confident Husband Solution program, visit chuckchapman.com.
00:00 Understanding the Fear of Seeming Needy
00:09 Childhood Messages and Their Impact
01:10 Suppressing Needs and Carrying Others' Burdens
01:39 The Nice Guy Syndrome in Relationships
02:40 The Misconception of Validation Seeking
03:53 The Importance of Significance
05:13 Becoming an Integrated Husband
06:34 Conclusion and Next Steps

Transform Conflict with Curiosity: Moving Beyond Defensiveness in Relationships

This episode delves into the concept of defensiveness in relationships and its impact on connection. The speaker shares personal experiences and professional insights to illustrate how defensiveness can escalate conflicts by protecting one's ego, rather than the relationship. Instead, the speaker advocates for using curiosity as an antidote to defensiveness. By asking open-ended questions and seeking to understand the other person's perspective, we can create a safer space for both parties. This approach helps in de-escalating tension and fostering empathy, ultimately strengthening the relationship. Practical steps and real-life examples are provided to guide listeners in applying these principles to their own conflicts.

00:00 Understanding Defensiveness in Relationships
01:12 The Physical and Emotional Response to Defensiveness
02:36 The Power of Curiosity as an Antidote
06:15 Practical Steps to Replace Defensiveness with Curiosity
06:58 Real-Life Application and Final Thoughts

One of the major reasons Nice Guys don't get the life they want is because they are bad enders. They tend to stick around when something isn't working claiming to be loyal when in reality they are simply afraid to end things. In this video I teach you how to become a good ender so you can get what you want in life, love and sex.

How do you create leadership and polarity masculinity in your relationship? Today we discuss the advice of authentic masculine leadership in relationships and address the consequences of role reversal between partners. Learn how to set the tone, create a vision, inspire your partner, and develop a definite plan to restore balance and connection in your relationship. Discover why leadership is crucial and how to rebuild trust to achieve a powerful and meaningful partnership.

We explore the deep connection between your relationship with money and your relationship with feminine energy. Masculine energy is what structures money. Discover how changing your view on feminine energy can impact your financial well-being. The video dives into the concept of financial independence, emphasizing three main pillars: mindset, habits, and relationships. Gain insights from 'Think and Grow Rich' by Napoleon Hill, learn actionable steps for shifting your money mindset, and explore the importance of affirmations, visualizations, and consistent habits. Join me for a transformative journey towards financial freedom by aligning your financial habits with your masculine energy and deeper values.

What is Positive Masculine Energy? It's needed in Positive Masculinity in men more today than at any other time. Discover the 30 rates of positive masculine energy and how the power of language shapes our unconscious mind and influences our actions. In this video, Chuck Chapman shares a personal mountain biking experience to illustrate the importance of positive focus. He explains how focusing on what we want rather than what we want to avoid can drive success and positivity. The video also introduces the concept of positive masculine energy and outlines 30 key attributes to cultivate it. Chapman provides a printable 30-day calendar to help viewers focus on and enhance these attributes daily. Download the calendar at https://www.chuckchapman.com/downloads subscribe for more content, and explore the 30-day recovery from the 'Nice Guy' syndrome. Keywords: #masculinity #nomoremrniceguy #toxicmasculinity #robertglover #niceguysyndrome 

I delve into self-improvement and self-development by teaching you the crucial questions to get what you want in life. I introduce six universal psychological needs—connection, security, respect, vision, purpose, and growth—that are essential for personal fulfillment. I also explore how societal and familial expectations can lead to feelings of shame around desires. By understanding and addressing these needs, you can create a more meaningful and fulfilling life. Learn how to take responsibility for your happiness and start your journey of self-discovery today.