This week, we’re diving into the infamous “Are We Dating the Same Guy?” Facebook pages—and whew, do we have thoughts.

Do we agree with the original intention of these pages? Absolutely. Women looking out for women, sharing information to stay safe, and avoiding being played or put in dangerous situations? Yes. Always yes.

But do we agree with turning these spaces into places for public shaming, rumors, or slander? Not so much. We get real about where the line is, how it’s being crossed, and what accountability should actually look like.

Plus—Chan drops some HUGE personal news, so you’ll definitely want to stick around for that 👀

As always, this is an honest, unfiltered conversation with strong opinions, a few laughs, and some real talk that needed to be said.

Important Resources:

If this conversation brings up anything heavy or if you or someone you know needs support, help is available:

• National Domestic Violence Hotline

📞 1-800-799-SAFE (7233)

🌐 thehotline.org

• National Sexual Assault Hotline (RAINN)

📞 1-800-656-HOPE (4673)

🌐 rainn.org (24/7 confidential chat available)

If you are in immediate danger, please call 911.