When you become a Christian, you receive a new family identity that transcends your earthly genealogy. Through salvation, God legally adopts you into His family, giving you a perfect Father and an eternal inheritance. This adoption means you have complete access to God and are no longer defined by your earthly family's dysfunction or achievements. As God's child, you must stop living with hatred toward your earthly family and abandon the slave mentality of constantly trying to earn God's love. Instead, embrace your identity as chosen, loved, and secure in Christ, focusing on becoming like Jesus rather than avoiding your parents' patterns.