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Are You An Avoidant?
By ColoredJuice Podcast StudioSociety & Culture
Are You An Avoidant? episodes
- The Ick Is a Deactivation Strategy, BestieHe claps when the plane lands. She breathes audibly. He says "excited" with too many syllables. The ick — sudden disgust that ends good things over nothing.
Chloe and Sasha sort every ick into two piles: REAL (values clash, trust it) vs RECRUITED (your brain manufacturing disgust to justify distance). The three tests — values, friend, frequency — plus the 48-hour rule that kills every fake ick by Sunday.
Hosts: Chloe (reformed avoidant) + Sasha (anxious bestie with the research). New episodes every Saturday.
Chapters:
0:00 — Cold Open
0:43 — Intro
1:56 — Two Kinds of Ick
4:44 — Why Your Brain Recruits
6:48 — The Three Tests
9:06 — The Receipts
11:00 — Scripts That Work
13:05 — Shoutout
13:42 — Listener Mail
16:47 — Bestie Verdict
MORE FROM COLOREDJUICE:
All About Friendships: Paul + Edzel on the beautiful mess of adult friendship — https://www.spreaker.com/show/...
Legends and Fables 101: one myth every week, told straight — https://www.spreaker.com/show/...
Created with AI assistance and full human creative input.
Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/are-you-an-avoidant--7485254/support.
This Episode is Brought to you by:
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Supporter Club: HERE · Patreon: HERE19 min - Dismissive vs Fearful: Which Avoidant Is HeSame sentence. Two completely different men. "I don't do labels" — but WHY?
Chloe and Sasha map the two flavors of avoidance: the dismissive locked door (steady, calm, permanently unavailable) vs the fearful revolving door (intense, swingy, 2am paragraphs). The field guide to spotting each, the Bartholomew receipts, and five scripts — the right tool for the right door.
Hosts: Chloe (reformed avoidant) + Sasha (anxious bestie with the research). New episodes every Saturday.
Chapters:
0:00 — Cold Open
0:39 — Intro
1:57 — The Two Doors
4:17 — Spot the Dismissive
6:16 — Spot the Fearful
8:35 — The Receipts
11:19 — Scripts That Work
13:42 — Shoutout
14:16 — Listener Mail
17:22 — Bestie Verdict
MORE FROM COLOREDJUICE:
All About Friendships: Paul + Edzel on the beautiful mess of adult friendship — https://www.spreaker.com/show/...
Legends and Fables 101: one myth every week, told straight — https://www.spreaker.com/show/...
Created with AI assistance and full human creative input.
Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/are-you-an-avoidant--7485254/support.
This Episode is Brought to you by:
🎵 Uppbeat — music for creators
✍️ Willow — your writing partner
🔊 ElevenLabs — lifelike AI voiceovers for creators
🎙️ Noota — The best transcription and AI Meeting Zoom alternative!
💼 Moxie — invoicing, CRM, projects, expenses, proposals and time tracking for freelancers.
✨ Castmagic — turn audio into content with presets and community prompts.
📡 FeedPress — podcast hosting, stats and feed tools for serious podcasters
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Supporter Club: HERE · Patreon: HERE20 min - Green Flags Avoidants Misread as BeigeGreen flags are real. They are everywhere. And if you keep missing them, the problem is not your eyesight — it is your training data.
Chloe and Sasha flip last week's episode on its head: nine green flags in men, rated out of ten, with the avoidant verdict on each. Why does a man who plans feel boring? Why does "good morning" give you the ick? Tala's story, the gut problem (your gut is a historian with trauma, not a psychic), the Simpson receipts, and four scripts for dating the Greg instead of running from him.
Hosts: Chloe (reformed avoidant) + Sasha (anxious bestie with the research). New episodes every Saturday.
Chapters:
0:00 — Cold Open
0:43 — Intro
2:04 — The Story
4:15 — The Gut Problem
6:00 — The Flag Rate Part One
8:04 — The Flag Rate Part Two
10:19 — The Receipts
12:54 — Scripts That Work
14:50 — Shoutout
15:47 — Listener Mail
19:02 — Bestie Verdict
MORE FROM COLOREDJUICE:
All About Friendships: Paul + Edzel on the beautiful mess of adult friendship — https://www.spreaker.com/show/...
Legends and Fables 101: one myth every week, told straight — https://www.spreaker.com/show/...
Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/are-you-an-avoidant--7485254/support.
This Episode is Brought to you by:
🎵 Uppbeat — music for creators
✍️ Willow — your writing partner
🔊 ElevenLabs — lifelike AI voiceovers for creators
🎙️ Noota — The best transcription and AI Meeting Zoom alternative!
💼 Moxie — invoicing, CRM, projects, expenses, proposals and time tracking for freelancers.
✨ Castmagic — turn audio into content with presets and community prompts.
📡 FeedPress — podcast hosting, stats and feed tools for serious podcasters
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Supporter Club: HERE · Patreon: HERE22 min - Are You the Avoidant? The Five Signs You Keep Explaining AwayAre you the avoidant? Chloe and Sasha open with the five signs you keep explaining away — the slow replies you call 'busy,' the ick you call 'standards,' the situationships you call 'chill.'
This episode roasts each sign with love, unpacks the attachment psychology underneath, and hands you the exact words to say instead of disappearing. Featuring the first Situationship Autopsy and a text decoder for 'sorry just saw this.'
Hosts: Chloe (reformed avoidant) + Sasha (anxious bestie with the research). New episodes every week.
Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/are-you-an-avoidant--7485254/support.
This Episode is Brought to you by:
🎵 Uppbeat — music for creators
✍️ Willow — your writing partner
🔊 ElevenLabs — lifelike AI voiceovers for creators
🎙️ Noota — The best transcription and AI Meeting Zoom alternative!
💼 Moxie — invoicing, CRM, projects, expenses, proposals and time tracking for freelancers.
✨ Castmagic — turn audio into content with presets and community prompts.
📡 FeedPress — podcast hosting, stats and feed tools for serious podcasters
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Supporter Club: HERE · Patreon: HERE25 min
About Are You An Avoidant?
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Are You An Avoidant? — the pop-psychology podcast for the girls who don’t do labels (but definitely have one).
Are you emotionally unavailable, afraid of commitment, or just really good…
Are you emotionally unavailable, afraid of commitment, or just really good…
at convincing yourself you’re better off alone? Welcome to Are You An Avoidant?, the relationship psychology podcast that makes understanding your attachment style a little less intimidating and a lot more entertaining.
Every week, Chloe, a reformed avoidant, and Sasha, her anxious bestie armed with research, unpack the behaviors that complicate modern dating and relationships. From avoidant attachment and emotional unavailability to situationships, mixed signals, intimacy issues, and the infamous urge to run when someone actually likes you, no dating pattern is safe from a loving roast and a little psychological analysis.
Expect situationship autopsies, text message decoding, listener dilemmas, attachment theory explained in everyday language, and practical scripts for the conversations you’ve been avoiding. Learn how anxious and avoidant attachment styles can influence your relationships, recognize your emotional triggers, communicate your needs, set healthier boundaries, and take steps toward earned-secure attachment.
Whether you identify as avoidant, anxious, fearful-avoidant, or simply someone trying to make sense of modern love, Chloe and Sasha are here to help you connect the dots without turning every text into a diagnosis.
New episodes every week. Come for the relationship tea, stay for the psychology, and leave with the words to say what you actually mean.Hosted by Chloe and Sasha.
Are You An Avoidant? is a pop-psychology podcast for entertainment and educational purposes, not a substitute for professional mental health advice.
A Coloredjuice Podcast Studio production.
Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/are-you-an-avoidant--7485254/support.
Every week, Chloe, a reformed avoidant, and Sasha, her anxious bestie armed with research, unpack the behaviors that complicate modern dating and relationships. From avoidant attachment and emotional unavailability to situationships, mixed signals, intimacy issues, and the infamous urge to run when someone actually likes you, no dating pattern is safe from a loving roast and a little psychological analysis.
Expect situationship autopsies, text message decoding, listener dilemmas, attachment theory explained in everyday language, and practical scripts for the conversations you’ve been avoiding. Learn how anxious and avoidant attachment styles can influence your relationships, recognize your emotional triggers, communicate your needs, set healthier boundaries, and take steps toward earned-secure attachment.
Whether you identify as avoidant, anxious, fearful-avoidant, or simply someone trying to make sense of modern love, Chloe and Sasha are here to help you connect the dots without turning every text into a diagnosis.
New episodes every week. Come for the relationship tea, stay for the psychology, and leave with the words to say what you actually mean.Hosted by Chloe and Sasha.
Are You An Avoidant? is a pop-psychology podcast for entertainment and educational purposes, not a substitute for professional mental health advice.
A Coloredjuice Podcast Studio production.
Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/are-you-an-avoidant--7485254/support.