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Are you protecting yourself so well that no one, not even you, can get in?

In this episode, Nina Garcia breaks down emotional unavailability through the story of Wolverine: strong, fierce, and deeply alone. Using this powerful metaphor, she explains how emotional armor might look like resilience on the outside, but often hides deep discomfort with connection. Nina shares three practical steps to help you move from shutdown to self-awareness, and reminds you that emotional security isn’t about staying safe, it’s about showing up. If you’ve ever felt alone in a crowded room or struggled to let people in, this episode is your starting place.

What you’re going to walk away with:
💌 How emotional unavailability shows up in real life (and why it's not your fault)
💌 Why connection can feel dangerous when you’ve been hurt
💌 Three small but powerful steps to start opening up
💌 What emotional fitness looks like and how to build it

What you’ll get:
(0:09) What emotional unavailability really is
(1:02) Why emotional growth is like going to the gym
(1:52) Story: Wolverine and the fear of connection
(4:59) The hidden cost of always staying strong
(6:22) How emotional avoidance can look like success
(11:18) Three steps to move from unavailable to aware
(14:44) Take the emotional security quiz to find your profile

Ready to see where you land on the emotional security spectrum?
Take the quiz at https://form.typeform.com/to/gsy9mGLA