Ross and Joey chat about the dangers of negging: a seemingly playful form of sly flirting...or IS it?  Negative banter at the expense of you may seem oddly endearing - or maybe even kinda hot - but after prolonged usage, self-doubt and ultimately a loss of self shepherd a toxic, one-sided relationship.  Joey trots down (painful) memory lane to help precaution anyone from innocently entering the dark, twisted forrest of a relationship with a gaslighter. Together, Ross and Joey give some tips on how to mitigate the chances of being negged and nipping gaslighting in the BUTT.