When you know better you do better and you want better for yourself. The romantic partners you choose are a reflection of how you feel subconsciously on the inside no matter how confident that you may appear to the outside world you have to do the work in order to attract who you really desire.

Ghosting — when someone cuts off all communication without explanation — extends to all things, it seems. Most of us think about it in the context of digital departure: a friend not responding to a text, or worse, a lover, but it happens across all social circumstances and it's tied to the way we view the world. Ghosting can mean the shutdown/ceasing of communication with someone without notice. This can include but doesn't always require the closing or shutting down of social media accounts or ports of contact such as email addresses or phone numbers.

Breadcrumbing -is the act of sending out flirtatious, but non-committal social signals (i.e. "breadcrumbs") in order to lure a romantic partner in without expending much effort. In other words, it's leading someone on. Breadcrumbing involves a sporadic, shallow pattern of communication. These occasional moments of connection keep the person hopeful that a relationship may yet be possible. This often prevents the breadcrumbee from ending the relationship, even though they may be struggling with confusion, frustration, or disappointment. Research suggests that people who have been breadcrumbed tend to feel more lonely, more helpless, and less satisfied with life. The prolonged nature of the process makes it particularly difficult, perhaps more so than ghosting. The person is stuck on standby, leading to feelings of uncertainty, anxiety, and invalidation.

What's for you is for you and it's not for you is not for you but sometimes it's just about timing, it may be for you but it's just the wrong time. You can meet the right person for you, but you may not be in alignment with yourself or your life, to be able to receive, we have all been on both ends of this at some point or another. You have to trust the process you have to believe that everything will work out and everything happens for a reason for the betterment of you.