Typically it is easy to criticize others and call out their wrongs while we overlook our flaws. But at what point do we see the need to be what we are asking of people. it is ok to ask for what we need but are we positioned to give as much value as we are willing to extract? On this episode Manny and Marj have a conversation about why there is a need for introspection and the need to address our personal messes to become better for what we are demanding because a healthy relationship must be mutually enjoyable, valuable and sacrificial.