You Seem Great

Are Your Dating Standards Helping You… or Hurting You?


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If you’ve ever felt like dating gets more complicated — not easier — as you get older, this episode gets into why.


Along with our guest, Monique, we talk about how expectations shift over time, the unspoken pressures that come with age, and how those factors can shape the way people approach dating and relationships. From filtering and first impressions to the subtle ways people disqualify each other too quickly, we unpack what’s really happening beneath the surface.


This conversation dives into the different types of daters you’ll meet, how self-perception plays a role in who you attract, and why small mindset shifts can make a big difference in how you show up. Monique shares what she’s seeing in real conversations with clients, including the patterns that tend to hold people back — and how to start breaking them.


We also get into the realities of modern dating, from overthinking early interactions to the growing role of technology (yes, even AI), and why staying grounded in who you are matters more than ever.


If you’ve been feeling frustrated, overlooked, or unsure how to navigate dating at this stage of life, this episode offers a refreshing mix of honesty, humor, and practical perspective.


Tune in for a conversation about expectations, self-awareness, and how to approach dating with more clarity and confidence.


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