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What does your team wish they could tell you—but probably won’t? In this episode, we flip the usual leadership conversation and share 10 things your team really wants you to know.

From admitting when you don’t have the answer and cutting the corporate speak to asking for their input, giving feedback in real time, and being clear about what you actually want people to do, these practical reminders will make you a better leader—and make life easier for everyone on your team.

Whether you manage one person or an entire organization, this episode will help you see your leadership from your team's perspective. 

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Does your career need a quick tune-up? In this episode, Patti & Mark share some of their favorite practical ideas for building a great career—whether you want to advance or simply have a bigger impact.

They share why your career moves should be stepping stones, not parking spots, how letting others know your goals can open doors, and why great performance can create more freedom at work. Plus, they cover mentors vs. sponsors, thinking beyond your company’s org chart, and other small shifts that can make you even better.

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Ever end the day wondering where all your time went—and why you still didn’t get enough done? Being productive isn’t always the same as spending your time on what truly matters.

In this episode, Patti and Mark look at time differently—not as a schedule to manage, but as a limited resource to spend wisely. They share practical hacks for deciding what deserves your time, making better use of small pockets of time, setting expectations and boundaries, and finding realistic ways to get more of what matters done.

Because you can’t manufacture more time—but you can be more intentional about how you use it.

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Artificial intelligence (AI) is everywhere—and depending on who you ask, it's either exciting, overwhelming, or you'd rather avoid altogether.

In this episode of Aren't Ya Tired Of...?, we're skipping the hype and talking about AI the way most of us actually experience it. We're not AI experts—we're simply sharing the practical ways AI has helped us think better, work faster, solve everyday problems, and make life a little easier.

We'll share how we use AI, where we don't rely on it, and why human judgment, relationships, and wisdom still matter most.

Whether you're AI-curious or already using it, you'll leave with simple ideas and our thoughts on how it may fit your life.

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What if the hardest part of making a decision isn't choosing—it's being afraid you'll make the wrong decision? That fear keeps us waiting for certainty that rarely comes.

In this episode, Patti and Mark are joined by the Chief People Officer of Varsity Brands, Martha May, to explore why ambiguity feels so uncomfortable and why our brains crave certainty—even when it isn't possible. Together, they share practical ways to make thoughtful and wise decisions without having all the answers, including the 70/30 rule, taking smaller steps, and knowing when "good enough" is enough.

If you've ever found yourself overthinking, waiting for one more piece of information, or feeling stuck because the future isn't clear, this conversation will help you stop chasing certainty and start moving forward with greater confidence.

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You know what you need to do... so why aren't you doing it? And why does putting it off feel so good—until it doesn't?

In this episode of Aren't Ya Tired Of...?, Patti and Mark take a fresh look at procrastination. Instead of getting down on yourself for lacking discipline, they explore what procrastination is trying to tell you. Is it fear of failure? Perfectionism? Uncertainty? Or simply avoiding something uncomfortable?

They also share practical ideas that work—from taking a very small first step, setting attainable goals, creating momentum, and knowing when procrastination is actually a wise pause instead of avoidance. Whether you've been putting off a difficult conversation, a career move, or that one task you've ignored for weeks, this episode will help you stop waiting for inspiration and get moving.

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What should you do if your manager consistently ignores your work-schedule boundaries? Or you keep bringing your own issues into the advice you give others? Or you need more tips for how to practice giving presentations? This episode is built around your questions and issues.

Patti and Mark answer your questions about becoming a better speaker, setting expectations with your manager, taking the very first step toward a meaningful change, separating your own issues from advice you give your kids, and navigating a workplace culture where you don't feel you can be yourself. Real questions, practical ideas, and the kind of conversation that reminds you that you're not the only one.

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Do you hate small talk? What if the problem isn't the small talk—it's how you've been thinking about it?

Whether it's a social event, family gathering, or work party you have to attend, those conversations don't have to drain your energy. In this episode of Aren't Ya Tired Of...?, Patti and Mark share that a little pre-planning and keeping your curiosity are the secrets to better conversations. They also explore why small talk doesn't have to be so painful and how a few simple techniques can help you feel more comfortable, make it easier, and even enjoy those events you used to dread. 

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Are you tired of having a boring social life?

As life gets busier, it's easy for friendship, fun, and connection to take a back seat. In this episode, Patti and Mark explore why having a full life isn't just about work and responsibilities—it's also about spending time with family, friends, and the people who matter most. And, having fun.

They share practical ideas for creating more connection, fun, avoiding common obstacles, and building a social life that fits who you are today.

Because your social life doesn't have to look like anyone else's. Create a full life that's just the way you want it. 

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Most leaders have private moments when they're unsure about the next step, question their decisions, or even wonder if they are the right person for the role. The challenge is that very few of us talk about it.

In this episode of Aren't Ya Tired Of?, Patti and Mark are joined by leadership expert Neena Newberry to explore the hidden doubts many managers and leaders face—from making important decisions with incomplete information to feeling pressure to appear confident when they're anything but.

Together, they share practical tools for navigating uncertainty, building self-assurance, and leading effectively even when you don't think you have all the answers. 

Because great leadership isn't about feeling confident all the time—it's about knowing how to move forward.

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