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Asking for help can feel awkward—especially when you’re asking for advice, an introduction, or a favor. But a good ask can open doors and build valuable relationships.

In this episode, Patti & Mark share what they’ve learned from being on both sides of the ask. They discuss who to approach, the difference between an advice giver and a connector, and why being clear about what you need makes it easier for others to help.

They also share the small things that matter—from making initial outreach easy to remembering to a thank you, following through, and sharing progress.

Asking for help doesn’t have to feel transactional. Done well, it can start a valuable relationship—and be an important part of learning, growing, and creating your next chapter.

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We all get some bad career advice—but every once in a while, someone tells you something that really sticks.

In this episode, Patti & Mark share some of the best career advice they’ve received—and why they still rely on it today.

From “just because you can solve a problem doesn’t mean you should,” to “be brief, be concise, and be gone,” to “your work can’t speak for itself,” - we’ve learned that sometimes the simplest advice can completely change how we approach our work.

We share the career advice that has stayed with us, why it matters, and how you can put it to work in your own career.

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You know what you need to do... so why aren't you doing it? And why does putting it off feel so good—until it doesn't?

In this episode of Aren't Ya Tired Of...?, Patti and Mark take a fresh look at procrastination. Instead of getting down on yourself for lacking discipline, they explore what procrastination is trying to tell you. Is it fear of failure? Perfectionism? Uncertainty? Or simply avoiding something uncomfortable?

They also share practical ideas that work—from taking a very small first step, setting attainable goals, creating momentum, and knowing when procrastination is actually a wise pause instead of avoidance. Whether you've been putting off a difficult conversation, a career move, or that one task you've ignored for weeks, this episode will help you stop waiting for inspiration and get moving.

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“We need to talk.” Nobody likes hearing those words—but being the one who has to say them can be even harder.

In this episode, Patti & Mark share practical ways to give honest, useful feedback to coworkers, team members, or friends without avoiding the conversation, watering down your message, or being too harsh. Being honest with someone shows respect—that you care about their growth, development, or the relationship.

Learn how to get clear on your intent and what you really want to say—and how to handle the conversation if it doesn’t go as planned.

Giving honest feedback that opens up a conversation takes courage, but when handled with care, it can make a real difference.

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What does your team wish they could tell you—but probably won’t? In this episode, we flip the usual leadership conversation and share 10 things your team really wants you to know.

From admitting when you don’t have the answer and cutting the corporate speak to asking for their input, giving feedback in real time, and being clear about what you actually want people to do, these practical reminders will make you a better leader—and make life easier for everyone on your team.

Whether you manage one person or an entire organization, this episode will help you see your leadership from your team's perspective. 

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Does your career need a quick tune-up? In this episode, Patti & Mark share some of their favorite practical ideas for building a great career—whether you want to advance or simply have a bigger impact.

They share why your career moves should be stepping stones, not parking spots, how letting others know your goals can open doors, and why great performance can create more freedom at work. Plus, they cover mentors vs. sponsors, thinking beyond your company’s org chart, and other small shifts that can make you even better.

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Ever end the day wondering where all your time went—and why you still didn’t get enough done? Being productive isn’t always the same as spending your time on what truly matters.

In this episode, Patti and Mark look at time differently—not as a schedule to manage, but as a limited resource to spend wisely. They share practical hacks for deciding what deserves your time, making better use of small pockets of time, setting expectations and boundaries, and finding realistic ways to get more of what matters done.

Because you can’t manufacture more time—but you can be more intentional about how you use it.

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Artificial intelligence (AI) is everywhere—and depending on who you ask, it's either exciting, overwhelming, or you'd rather avoid altogether.

In this episode of Aren't Ya Tired Of...?, we're skipping the hype and talking about AI the way most of us actually experience it. We're not AI experts—we're simply sharing the practical ways AI has helped us think better, work faster, solve everyday problems, and make life a little easier.

We'll share how we use AI, where we don't rely on it, and why human judgment, relationships, and wisdom still matter most.

Whether you're AI-curious or already using it, you'll leave with simple ideas and our thoughts on how it may fit your life.

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What if the hardest part of making a decision isn't choosing—it's being afraid you'll make the wrong decision? That fear keeps us waiting for certainty that rarely comes.

In this episode, Patti and Mark are joined by the Chief People Officer of Varsity Brands, Martha May, to explore why ambiguity feels so uncomfortable and why our brains crave certainty—even when it isn't possible. Together, they share practical ways to make thoughtful and wise decisions without having all the answers, including the 70/30 rule, taking smaller steps, and knowing when "good enough" is enough.

If you've ever found yourself overthinking, waiting for one more piece of information, or feeling stuck because the future isn't clear, this conversation will help you stop chasing certainty and start moving forward with greater confidence.

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What should you do if your manager consistently ignores your work-schedule boundaries? Or you keep bringing your own issues into the advice you give others? Or you need more tips for how to practice giving presentations? This episode is built around your questions and issues.

Patti and Mark answer your questions about becoming a better speaker, setting expectations with your manager, taking the very first step toward a meaningful change, separating your own issues from advice you give your kids, and navigating a workplace culture where you don't feel you can be yourself. Real questions, practical ideas, and the kind of conversation that reminds you that you're not the only one.

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