This video covers 3 places guys get stuck in broken trust, how he can connect with her pain after broken trust, and what to know if a guy is saying, “Aren’t you over that yet?”.

TIMESTAMPS (click on a time below to be taken to that section)

0:00 Intro / Boys don't cry?

0:40 One Solution: How guys can connect with her pain *

3:27 "Aren't you over that yet?" (Therapists said it will take this long) *

5:52 Guys say, "But I don't agree with her." (agreeing vs validating)

8:12 3 places guys can get stuck *

9:15 "If he doesn't agree with me, he abandons me"

11:16 The person I want to be

11:54 One Solution: An important mindset to have *

15:08 In the next episode: “... why does she keep attacking me?”

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https://porniskillingme.com - Jay's site for porn addiction recovery

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#trust

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