Ask the question, who defines you? Is it God? Is it success? Is it money? As Christians, we are defined as God's children - Christ completed you. He loves you and no one can separate you from His love. Don’t forget God in times of blessings or in time of trouble. Sometimes it takes breaking to get to the blessing, and it takes conflict understand your calling. Don’t look for others approval, just make sure you has His approval. And that makes you special.