Summary

Have you ever pleaded with God for a specific miracle, only to receive a clear-cut "no"? When you are fasting, praying, and exercising every ounce of faith you have, a closed door can feel like a devastating rejection. If you are sitting in the middle of spiritual heartbreak and asking what to do when God says no, you are in the right place. In this raw and vulnerable episode of the Arise, Women of God podcast, host Tamara K. Anderson and guest Bonnie Randall tackle the hardest answers we receive from Heaven.

We explore the ultimate example of submission shown by the Savior in the Garden of Gethsemane, and how drinking a bitter cup is sometimes necessary for a glory we cannot yet see. Bonnie shares a profoundly moving story about praying for her grandfather on his deathbed, revealing how God halted her mid-prayer to ask for something entirely different—a pivot that ultimately healed her broken family. Whether you are dealing with a lost opportunity, a broken heart, or the loss of a loved one, this episode will help you transition from the bitterness of a closed door to the peace of a new path. Tune in to discover how to yoke yourself with Christ, stop carrying your burden alone, and learn exactly what you should start praying for instead.

Episode Takeaways

• The Gethsemane Pattern: When Jesus faced His bitter cup, He prayed, "Not as I will, but as thou wilt." True peace comes from submitting our desires to God's greater plan.
• Yoke Yourself with Christ: God's "no" does not mean He is leaving you. He is inviting you to be yoked with Him so He can carry the brunt of your heavy burden.
• When God Halts Your Prayer: If you receive a clear "no," ask God, "What should I pray for instead?" A "no" to your specific request is often a "yes" to a much larger miracle.
• Help Thou Mine Unbelief: It is okay to struggle with a "no." You can ask God to plant the seed of belief and peace in your heart so you can heal and move forward.

Resources

When the "no" feels like static to your soul, you don't have to navigate it alone. Get our free Roadmap to Revelation bundle with a downloadable pdf & an MP3 Meditation to help you calm your mind and prepare to Receive Light & Revelation here: https://www.womenwarriorsoflight.com/Roadmap-to-Revelation

Reflection Questions

• When was a time God told you "no," and how did you eventually see His hand or a hidden blessing in that redirection?
• How can you apply the Savior's Gethsemane prayer ("Not my will, but thine be done") to a struggle you are currently facing?
• If you are standing before a closed door right now, what is a new, inspired question you can ask God to pray for instead?

Host & Guest

Tamara K. Anderson @tamarakanderson

Bonnie Randall @bonnie.randall

Transcript

https://www.womenwarriorsoflight.com/blog/what-to-do-when-god-says-no

Summary

Have you ever stood at a major crossroads in life—perhaps deciding on a job, a move, or a relationship—and pleaded with God for clear direction? If you are tired of the ambiguity and find yourself asking, "How do I get a yes or a no answer from God?", you are in the right place. In this episode of the Arise, Women of God podcast, host Tamara K. Anderson and guest Bonnie Randall tackle the heavy burden of spiritual indecision.

We break down why God often starts with simple, short answers instead of full paragraphs of direction, and how to verify those answers through "prayer experiments." We also expose the "adversary’s echo"—explaining why the first voice you hear is almost always the Spirit, while the second voice of doubt is actually the enemy trying to throw you off track. Listen in as Tamara shares a powerful story of helping her son double-check a confusing answer about a job offer, proving that sometimes a "no" is actually God's loving protection. If you want to learn how to spot the unique physical and mental signals God uses specifically for you, tune in to this episode and start calibrating your spiritual frequency today!

Episode Takeaways

• Start with Simple Questions: God usually starts by answering with a simple "yes" or "no" to build your trust before giving you a full paragraph of instruction. Make a decision first, and then ask Him to confirm it.
• The First Voice Principle: When seeking an answer, the first voice or feeling you receive is from God. The second voice that immediately follows with doubt or confusion is the adversary.
• Verify the "No": If you feel confused or unsettled about a decision, that is often a "no." You can verify this by asking God the question in reverse: "God, I feel like this is a no. Is that right?" The resulting peace will confirm the answer.
• Recognize Your Pattern: Keep practicing your prayer experiments. Over time, you will start to see a pattern in how God speaks to you—whether through chills, sudden thoughts, or specific scriptures.

Resources

Ready to start your own revelation experiment and document your spiritual patterns? Get our free Roadmap to Revelation bundle with a downloadable pdf & an MP3 Meditation to help you calm your mind and prepare to Receive Light & Revelation here: https://www.womenwarriorsoflight.com/Roadmap-to-Revelation

Reflection Questions

• When making a big decision, do you usually expect God to tell you exactly what to do, or do you make a choice first and ask Him for a yes or no confirmation?
• Have you ever experienced the "adversary's echo," where a clear, positive answer was immediately followed by a wave of doubt?
• What specific physical or mental signals (like a feeling of warmth, chills, or sudden clarity) usually accompany a "yes" answer for you?

Host & Guest

Tamara K. Anderson @tamarakanderson

Bonnie Randall @bonnie.randall

Transcript

https://www.womenwarriorsoflight.com/blog/how-to-get-a-yes-or-no-answer-from-god

Summary

Do you ever find yourself kneeling down to pray, only to realize five minutes later that you've been mentally reviewing your grocery list or replaying a frustrating conversation? If you are struggling with a wandering mind and asking, "How do you talk to God?" you are certainly not alone. In this episode of the Arise, Women of God podcast, host Tamara K. Anderson and guest Bonnie Randall explore the beautiful, informal dialects of divine communication.

We break down the formal prayer barrier, discussing why singing, walking, and even crying can be profound forms of worship. Bonnie shares an incredible visualization hack specifically for the "ADHD monkey chatter" in our brains, teaching us how deep breathing and visualizing a literal heart connection with Jesus can transform hollow prayers into sacred conversations. We also discuss the "body check" method—how to tell the difference between the anxious, "twitter-pated" excitement the adversary produces versus the deep, grounding peace that only comes from God. Whether you're looking to pour out your heart as described in Psalm 62 or simply seeking to recognize God’s voice through physical signals like warmth or chills, this episode is packed with practical takeaways. Tune in to learn how to talk to God naturally, moving from checking off a spiritual box to pouring out your authentic heart!

Episode Takeaways

• Break the Formal Barrier: Prayer doesn't have to mean kneeling in silence. Singing, walking, and even crying out in frustration are beautiful, authentic forms of communication with God.
• Tame the Monkey Chatter: If your mind wanders, use deep breathing and visualization. Imagining the light from your heart weaving together with God's light is a powerful way to anchor an active brain.
• The Body Check: The adversary can manufacture fascination and excitement, but he cannot manufacture true peace. Pay attention to body signals like grounding calmness, warmth, or chills to confirm it is God speaking to you.
• Visualize the Savior: Picturing Jesus sitting next to you—His eyes, His smile, His hands—can deeply anchor your mind and invite a sacred, comforting spirit into your prayer time.

Resources

Get our free Roadmap to Revelation bundle with a downloadable pdf & an MP3 Meditation to help you calm your mind and prepare to Receive Light & Revelation here: https://www.womenwarriorsoflight.com/Roadmap-to-Revelation

Reflection Questions

• What does your current prayer life look like, and how often do you find your mind wandering to daily tasks?
• Have you ever tried visualizing Jesus sitting with you while you pray? How might that change your connection to Him?
• Can you recall a time you felt the "twitter-pated" excitement of the adversary versus the deep, calming peace of God?

Host & Guest

Tamara K. Anderson @tamarakanderson

Bonnie Randall @bonnie.randall

Transcript

https://www.womenwarriorsoflight.com/blog/how-do-you-talk-to-god

Summary

Have you ever had a sudden idea pop into your mind and immediately wondered if it was your own imagination, the adversary, or divine inspiration? If you are asking, "can you hear God's voice in your head," you are not alone in the confusion. In this episode of the Arise, Women of God podcast, host Tamara K. Anderson and guest Bonnie Randall tackle the struggle of spiritual uncertainty. We dive into the story of young Samuel, showing that even future prophets needed practice to recognize the whispers of Heaven.

Bonnie introduces the powerful "Three Voice Filter," teaching you how to differentiate between your own subconscious, the shaming attacks of the enemy, and the gentle, progressive guidance of the Lord. You will discover why God often speaks in short, authoritative, yet loving phrases that gently move you forward rather than overwhelming you with the whole picture at once. Tamara also shares her personal process for clearing mental static and casting out fear to create a holy space for receiving answers. If you want to move from mental chatter to divine clarity and learn how to confidently identify the source of your thoughts, this episode is packed with practical tools. Tune in to start calibrating your spiritual frequency today!

Episode Takeaways

• Hearing God Takes Practice: Just like young Samuel in the Old Testament, it takes time and practice to recognize when God is calling your name. Do not get discouraged!
• The Three Voice Filter: There are three voices in your head: yours, God's, and the adversary's. Paying attention to how each voice makes you feel is the key to discernment.
• God Speaks in Short Phrases: Divine guidance is usually gentle, progressive, and hopeful. God will often give you the next right step in a short phrase rather than a long, overwhelming paragraph.
• Clear the Mental Static: If you are struggling to hear God, the adversary might be jamming your signal. Intentionally cast out fear, anxiety, and the adversary to create a quiet space for the still, small voice.

Resources

Ready to quiet your internal chatter and calibrate your spiritual frequency? Get our free Roadmap to Revelation bundle with a downloadable pdf & an MP3 Meditation to help you calm your mind and prepare to Receive Light & Revelation here: https://www.womenwarriorsoflight.com/Roadmap-to-Revelation

Reflection Questions

• When you get a sudden thought, do you struggle to tell if it is your own voice or God's?
• How does the adversary's voice usually sound in your mind compared to the gentle rebuke or guidance of the Lord?
• What is one way you can clear the "mental static" in your daily routine to make room for God's short, gentle phrases?

Host & Guest

Tamara K. Anderson @tamarakanderson

Bonnie Randall @bonnie.randall

Transcript

https://www.womenwarriorsoflight.com/blog/can-you-hear-god-s-voice-in-your-head

Summary

Have you ever looked at your messy, mundane routine and wondered, "Is God speaking to me?" It is easy to assume God only speaks to leaders or the ultra-holy, leaving us to doubt our own significance. In this episode of the Arise, Women of God podcast, host Tamara K. Anderson and guest Tiffany Fletcher tackle the heart of spiritual identity and how it dictates our ability to hear Heaven. We explore the powerful "Hagar Principle," proving that God sees and speaks to us even in our loneliest wilderness moments.

Whether you are a Christian woman looking to overcome feelings of spiritual invisibility or simply seeking to deepen your prayer life, this episode is filled with beautiful insights. We discuss why Mother Teresa believed that listening isn't just a part of prayer—it’s the beginning of it. We also break down your unique "spiritual fingerprint," explaining how God communicates differently with each of us through warmth, specific thoughts, music, scriptures, or even a pit in the stomach. Plus, Tamara shares the one profound signal the adversary can never replicate: true peace. If you’re ready to move from questioning your worthiness to confidently knowing God is communicating with you, tune in to this thought-provoking conversation!

Episode Takeaways

• The Hagar Principle: God is "the God who sees me." Even when you feel cast out or hidden in the wilderness of everyday chaos, He sees you and wants to speak with you.
• Listening is the Beginning of Prayer: Prayer isn't just talking at God; it’s talking with Him. Making time to sit in silence and listen is where true communion happens.
• Your Spiritual Fingerprint: God speaks to everyone differently. You might feel a warm blanket of comfort, receive a clear thought, feel a warning in your gut, or hear His voice through a specific song or scripture.
• The Ultimate Signal of Peace: The adversary cannot replicate true peace. If you are feeling a deep sense of peace—even in the middle of a trial—that is God speaking to you.

Resources

Ready to reclaim your identity as God's daughter and tune into His frequency? Get our free Roadmap to Revelation bundle with a downloadable pdf & an MP3 Meditation to help you prepare to Receive Light & Revelation here: https://www.womenwarriorsoflight.com/Roadmap-to-Revelation

Reflection Questions

• Do you ever feel too "insignificant" for God to speak to you directly? How does the story of Hagar change that perspective?
• What does your unique "spiritual fingerprint" look like? Does God speak to you most often through thoughts, feelings, music, or other people?
• How much of your prayer time is spent talking versus listening?

Host & Guest

Tamara K. Anderson @tamarakanderson

Tiffany Fletcher @tiffnyfletcher

Transcript

https://www.womenwarriorsoflight.com/blog/is-god-speaking-to-me

Summary

Have you ever been having a conversation with a friend or listening to a sermon, and the words spoken were so perfectly aligned with your struggles that it felt like they had read your private prayer journal? If you've ever wondered, "Can God speak to me through someone else?" you are certainly not alone. In this episode of the Arise, Women of God podcast, host Tamara K. Anderson and guest Bonnie Randall explore the beautiful relay system of Heaven. We dive into how God uses messengers to bypass our internal walls of doubt when we are feeling spiritually invisible.

First, we look at the Old Testament story of Hannah and how a priest's words changed her life. Then, Bonnie shares her powerful prodigal journey, detailing the miraculous moment she walked into a church only to hear a pastor deliver a message that could have only come from a God who intimately knew her name. Finally, we discuss how to apply "safety checks for the soul," learning to discern the first voice of revelation from the second voice of doubt. Tune in to this deeply moving conversation to uncover how the Father of Lights is sending messengers your way today!

Episode Takeaways

• The Relay System of Heaven: God often uses the people right next to us as authorized messengers to bypass our internal doubt and deliver His peace.
• Hannah and Eli: Just as Eli spoke for the Lord to comfort Hannah in her deep sorrow, God is still sending "Elis" into our lives today.
• The Prodigal Miracle: Bonnie's story proves that God knows exactly where you are sitting. He can use a stranger's sermon to wrap you in His love and forgiveness.
• Safety Checks for the Soul: The first voice you hear when seeking truth is usually the Spirit; the second voice is inevitably the adversary trying to make you doubt.

Resources

Ready to start recognizing the divine messengers in your life? Get our free Revelation bundle with a downloadable Roadmap to Revelation PDF (6 steps to hearing God in your daily life) & along with an MP3 Meditation to help you prepare to Receive Light & Revelation here: https://www.womenwarriorsoflight.com/Roadmap-to-Revelation

Reflection Questions

• When was a time someone said exactly what you needed to hear, right when you needed to hear it?
• Have you ever second-guessed a message of peace because of the "second voice" of doubt?
• How can you be more open to being a messenger for God to someone else today?

Host & Guest

Tamara K. Anderson @tamarakanderson

Bonnie Randall @bonnie.randall

Transcript

https://www.womenwarriorsoflight.com/blog/can-god-speak-to-me-through-someone-else

Summary

Have you ever prayed fervently for a miracle, but once the answer arrived, you simply moved on to the next problem? We often suffer from "spiritual amnesia," forgetting to return and express our gratitude. In this episode of the Arise, Women of God podcast, host Tamara K. Anderson and guest Kari Anjewierden answer the heartfelt question: how to thank God for answered prayers. We explore the powerful "10th Leper Principle" from the New Testament, discussing why taking the time to acknowledge God's hand heightens your ability to feel His Spirit. We also dive into practical ways to show gratitude, even when you are in the trenches of life's hardest moments.

Tamara shares a touching story of finding things to be thankful for in a hospital bed after a major car accident, while Kari explains why acting on divine promptings is the ultimate "thank you" to Heaven. Whether you're a Christian woman looking to overcome spiritual amnesia or simply wanting to cultivate a childlike gratitude for the little things—like warm blankets and light bulbs—this episode is packed with inspiration. If you've been wondering how to thank God for answered prayers and turn that gratitude into a lifelong habit, tune in to this thought-provoking conversation!

Episode Takeaways

• The 10th Leper Principle: Just like the one leper who returned to thank Jesus, taking the time to intentionally praise God opens up a world of blessings we wouldn't know otherwise.
• Find Gratitude in the Trenches: You don't have to wait for everything to be perfect to say thank you. Even in a hospital bed, finding small things to be grateful for bridges the gap between you and Heaven.
• Embrace Childlike Acknowledgment: God smiles when we notice the little things. Don't be afraid to thank Him for the carpets, the pillows, and the light bulbs!
• The Ultimate Thank You: The greatest gift you can offer back to God isn't just a spoken prayer; it's actively acting on the promptings and guidance He gives you.

Resources

Ready to turn gratitude into a lifelong habit of hearing Him? Get our free Revelation bundle, which includes the Roadmap to Revelation PDF (6 steps to hearing God in your daily life) & an MP3 Meditation, to help you prepare to Receive Light & Revelation here: https://www.womenwarriorsoflight.com/Roadmap-to-Revelation

Reflection Questions

• When you look back at your recent prayers, are they mostly filled with "pleas" or "praise"?
• What is one difficult experience in your past where you were still able to find something to be thankful for?
• How can you turn a recent prompting or piece of inspiration into an action-based "thank you" to God today?

Host & Guest

Tamara K. Anderson @tamarakanderson

Kari Anjewierden @pocket.miracles

Transcript

https://www.womenwarriorsoflight.com/blog/how-do-i-thank-god-for-answering-my-prayers

Summary

Have you ever had a sudden thought to call a friend or an impression to go somewhere completely unexpected, but then you immediately talked yourself out of it? You might be asking, "How can I know if God is speaking to me?" In this episode of the Arise, Women of God podcast, host Tamara K. Anderson and guest Kari Anjewierden tackle the fear and spiritual second-guessing that keeps us paralyzed.

We break down the "Goodness Test"—a simple rule to help you identify the source of your thoughts and confidently discern divine whispers from the static of your own mind. Together, we explore why a bizarre idea or a repetitive impression might just be a direct message from the Father of Lights. Tamara shares an awkward "doorstep moment" that proves God can work through our obedience even when we feel anxious, while Kari explains how God uses the power of repetition to rivet our attention. Whether you are a Christian woman looking to build confidence in your spiritual ears or simply seeking peace in your daily decisions, this episode is packed with practical tools. Tune in to learn how to know if God is speaking to you, and discover how acting on just one "out of the blue" good thought can help you deliver a miracle today!

Episode Takeaways

• The Goodness Test: If a thought or impression invites you to do good, you can confidently attribute it to God. The adversary will never prompt you to do something kind or helpful.
• The Father of Lights: God is the Father of lights (James 1:17). If an impression brings light, joy, or points you toward a path of goodness, it is from Him—even if the path feels a little scary.
• Growth Requires Discomfort: Sometimes God nudges us out of our comfort zone because He wants us to grow. Anxious feelings about a daunting task don't necessarily mean it isn't from God.
• The Repetition Signal: When an impression or message keeps appearing in your life, pay attention. Repetition is often a divine signal meant to rivet your focus.

Resource

Ready to clear the static and stop second-guessing? Get our free Revelation bundle with a downloadable Roadmap to Revelation PDF and an MP3 Meditation to help you prepare to Receive Light & Revelation! Get yours here: https://www.womenwarriorsoflight.com/Roadmap-to-Revelation

Reflection Questions

• When was the last time you had a sudden thought to do something good, but you talked yourself out of it?
• Have you ever experienced the "Repetition Signal" where a message or scripture kept coming up in your life? How did you respond?
• What is one "good thought" or small nudge you can act on today to step out of your comfort zone?

Host & Guest

Tamara K. Anderson @tamarakanderson

Kari Anjewierden @pocket.miracles

Transcript

https://www.womenwarriorsoflight.com/blog/how-can-i-know-god-is-speaking-to-me

Summary

Have you ever sat down to pray and suddenly felt a wave of spiritual performance anxiety, wondering if you are doing it right? In this episode of the Arise, Women of God podcast, titled How to Talk to God in Prayer, we tackle the pressure of “perfect” prayers. Host Tamara K. Anderson and Christian counselor Wendi Christensen break down the beautiful simplicity of divine communication, proving that there is no secret sequence of words required to reach Heaven.

We explore the simple four-step pattern Jesus gave us in Matthew Chapter 6 (Address God, Thank Him, Ask, and Close), which serves as a wonderful starting point for building your confidence. But we also discuss why Peter’s desperate, three-word prayer, "Lord, save me," is just as powerful and complete when you feel like you are sinking. Whether you are a Christian woman looking to overcome the anxiety of checking boxes or simply wanting to deepen your daily connection with your Heavenly Father, this episode will help you move from a formal routine to a real, bonding relationship. Tune in to learn why “getting it close” is just as effective as “getting it right,” and discover Tamara's favorite “faith hack” for mature prayer—bringing a pen and paper to every conversation with God.

Episode Takeaways

• The Four-Step Mechanics: Jesus provided a simple pattern in Matthew 6: Address God, Thank Him, Ask, and Close. This is a foundational tool to build confidence, not a strict checklist to induce anxiety.
• The Power of Three Words: When life is crashing down, God looks at the heart, not the mechanics. Peter’s simple cry, "Lord, save me," is proof that a desperate, short prayer is completely effective.
• Prayer is a Progression: Your conversations with God will evolve over time. Just like building a friendship, the more open and raw you become, the stronger the bond will be.
• The Pen and Paper Hack: As your faith grows, start expecting an answer. Praying with a piece of paper in front of you is an act of faith, readying you to catch the thoughts and to-do lists He sends your way.

Resources

If you're ready to move from checking boxes to truly hearing His response, download our free bundle! Get the Roadmap to Revelation (6 steps to hearing God in your daily life) PDF, along with the Receiving Light and Revelation audio meditation by Wendi. Download the Bundle Here: https://www.womenwarriorsoflight.com/pl/2148756546

Reflection Questions

• Do you ever suffer from "spiritual performance anxiety" when you pray?
• Have you ever felt like you only had the strength for a three-word prayer like Peter's? How did God meet you in that moment?
• How have your prayers evolved over the last five or ten years? What might happen if you started bringing a pen and paper to your prayers?

Host & Guest

Tamara K. Anderson @tamarakanderson

Wendi Christensen @wendichristensencounseling

Transcript

https://www.womenwarriorsoflight.com/blog/how-to-talk-to-god-in-prayer

Summary

In this episode of the Arise, Women of God podcast, titled How Do I Talk to God and Hear Him?, we dive into the vital topic of prayer, exploring how to hear God's voice when life feels overwhelmingly loud and your words seem to bounce off the ceiling. Our guest, Wendi Christensen, an experienced Christian counselor, shares expert advice on recognizing divine answers, breaking down the beauty of "butterfly moments" and seeing God's hand in sunsets and kind words. Whether you're a Christian woman looking to overcome prayer paralysis or simply curious about strengthening your spiritual connection, this episode is packed with valuable takeaways.

Host Tamara K. Anderson also uncovers surprising insights about the "law of the tree," discussing how true spiritual growth requires us to actively pause our own internal chatter to let Heaven speak. If you’ve ever wondered about how to hear God's voice and how it impacts your daily peace, you won’t want to miss this inspiring conversation. Plus, we share practical steps for finding stillness anywhere—even through a simple deep breath in a busy room or turning off the car radio—making it easier than ever to apply these lessons in your own life. Tune in for a thought-provoking discussion on divine connection, and don’t forget to subscribe for more expert insights on faithful living!

Episode Takeaways

• Start Exactly Where You Are: God doesn't need a polished version of you. He just wants your willingness to begin the conversation today (Isaiah 43:1).
• Look for "Butterfly Answers": God's responses are often creative. He speaks through nature, kind words from a friend, or quiet feelings in your heart.
• Practice the "Law of the Tree": Spiritual growth and revelation require quiet time. We have to pause our own internal chatter to let Heaven speak (Psalm 46:10).
• Find Stillness Anywhere: You don't need a retreat to find quiet. A simple deep breath or turning off the car radio can create the space needed to hear God's whispers.

Resources

Ready to complete the loop of connection? Download our free Roadmap to Revelation (6 steps to hearing God in your daily life) and the free Receiving Light and Revelation audio meditation by Wendi. Download the Bundle Here: https://www.womenwarriorsoflight.com/pl/2148756546

Reflection Questions

• What does your current "prayer loop" look like? Do you feel like you are doing all the talking?
• When was the last time you experienced a "butterfly answer" or saw God's hand in a small, unexpected way?
• Where in your daily routine can you carve out two minutes of complete stillness today to just listen?

Host & Guest

Tamara K. Anderson @tamarakanderson

Wendi Christensen @wendichristensencounseling

Transcript

https://www.womenwarriorsoflight.com/blog/how-do-i-talk-to-god-and-hear-him