Around the Table Podcast

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This week, we're discussing the 100 hour rule (as opposed to the 10,000 hour rule), and bringing back our "what's working" segment to share our favorite personal care products.

What you'll hear:

Maggie confess some recent style choices that she's previously sworn against Plant ladies are the new cat ladies. Get into it. Limitations of the 10,000 hour rule Our current favorite personal care products

Can I quote you on that?

"You are the end product. Even if you decide to change course after you've invested a lot of time, it's not necessarily a complete loss." Jacey "I like knowing a little about a lot of things." Maggie "Maximize your strengths more than you try to overcome your weaknesses." Jacey "We've talked enough about self care. We need to talk about honing your strategies for personal neglect with the least amount of fallout possible. That's where my expertise really comes in." Jacey "Go home, and don't go big." Maggie

Links:

Take our survey! The 100 hour rule [Modern Mrs Darcy] Ciaté London Chisel Liner Kérastase Nectar Thermique Not Your Mother's Double Take Dry Finish Texture Spray Kiehl's Rare Earth Deep Pore Cleansing Masque CeraVe Moisturizing Lotion AM/PM Papaw Ointment CND Shellac in Rubble essie nail polish in Blanc Revlon Gold Series Slant Tweezer Mac lipstick in Brave Palmer's Cocoa Butter Lotion Not Your Mother's Clean Freak Dry Shampoo Batiste Divine Dark Dry Shampoo

Thoughts, questions, comments?

Find Around the Table on Facebook, Instagram or Twitter, or leave a comment below. Maggie on Instagram, Twitter, and her blog Jacey on Instagram, Twitter and her blog

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This week, we are asking ourselves what we are willing to be in pain for, rather than what would make us happy. We're also sharing some practical tips for incorporating eco-friendly habits into daily life.

But first, we wanted to say thank you again for all the lovely reviews you all have left for us on iTunes. If you haven't had a chance to leave one yet, scroll to the bottom of the page for instructions! 

What you'll hear:

Maggie share some things she learned while living with Jacey A discussion of small daily risks versus large dramatic ones Our thoughts on the value of struggle Whether just wanting something is enough Some practical tips for living a more eco-friendly life

Can I quote you on that?

"That's the paradox of happiness. In order to attain any sort of happiness you have to go through seasons of unhappiness." Maggie "Longevity and consistency mean a lot more than we realize." Jacey "It's what you accumulate in the small moments of the day to day that equips you for the big picture stuff." Maggie "Whatever is it you are aiming for, has to outweigh the pain of the struggle to get there." Jacey "There's an imbalance with how much we emphasize the reward or the endgame. The reality is that most of the good stuff is what happens in the struggle, in the process, on the way there." Maggie "I'm willing to struggle just to keep doing it." Jacey (on writing)

Links

Better question article 'The Hidden Cost of Happiness' Zero Waste Home Bea Johnson on The Lively Show Seafood Watch Bees wrap ILIA Cosmetics W3ll People

Thoughts, questions, comments?

Find Around the Table on Facebook, Instagram or Twitter, or leave a comment below. Maggie on Instagram, Twitter, and her blog Jacey on Instagram, Twitter and her blog

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In this episode, we are joined by author Annie Downs. We chat about her new book, Looking for Lovely, our shared affinity for nail polish, and why it's important to have friends who aren't like you.

What you'll hear:

What music Annie's loving right now Why Annie takes her nail polish seriously What it looks like to find friends (and be a friend) committed to staying Why it's important to have friends who aren't like you

Can I quote you on that?

"We are so lucky that we're all on the same team." Annie Downs "Glitter is a neutral to me." Annie Downs "Wherever you live, you need to live like you're never leaving." Annie Downs "When you only have friends like you, you think what you do is right, and you think what you do is the best." Annie Downs "We need friends who don't agree with us, and say it." Annie Downs

Links:

Connect with Annie on Instagram, Twitter, or her website Buy Annie's new book, Looking For Lovely Connect with us on Instagram, Facebook or Twitter

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This week, we're sharing life lessons we've learned from books and movies, plus what we've been reading, watching, listening to and following. 

But first! Make sure you're following us on Instagram, and join in on our April #dinnerpartychallenge by inviting someone over for dinner this month.

What you'll hear:

Our April challenge Jacey's experience as an audience member at The Late Show with Stephen Colbert What #Hiddlebum is and why you should check it out. Life lessons gleaned from Bridesmaids, Pride and Prejudice, Taken, Twister, and more.

Can I quote you on that?

"Smart and snarky is the new tall, dark and handsome." Maggie, on what she learned from Gilmore Girls "You can be both smart and stylish." Jacey, on what she learned from Legally Blonde "Do I wait to go for a walk in the evening until it's dark enough to see into people's windows? Absolutely." Maggie, on whether or not she's nosy "There's no crying in baseball." Jimmy Dugan, A League of Their Own "If you're ever wondering what you should have for a snack, just make yourself a dang quesadilla." Jacey "Never undervalue a good nap." Maggie "If you get kidnapped, don't worry - because there's always Liam Neeson, and he has a very special set of skills." Maggie

Links:

It's supposed to be hard [Jacey's blog] "K Troop" [Matthew Pearl for Slate] "9 reasons Christians Should Welcome Muslim Refugees" [Relevant Magazine] Who is Stephen Colbert? Modern Love podcast The Great Debates podcast The Popcast tomhaverfoods.com Tom Haverford food nicknames On Coming Alive project

Thoughts, questions, comments?

Find Around the Table on Facebook, Instagram or Twitter, or leave a comment below. Maggie on Instagram, Twitter, and her blog Jacey on Instagram, Twitter and her blog

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This week, we are talking about space and the importance of your physical surroundings. We are also bringing back our 'stuck in a rut' segment to answer a listener question about morning routines.

Don't forget to check out our friend Crystal Stine's Creative Basics course and use the code 'ATTcreate' to get $10 off!

What you'll hear:

Our thoughts on the word 'girls' How we are affected by our physical surroundings That neuro-architecture is a thing Practical ways to enhance your mood through your environment Our morning routines (and struggles) Tips for finding a morning rhythm

Can I quote you on that?

"I need my ideas and schedule to have structure and order, but not my physical space." Jacey "If my things have a place in this space, then I have a place in this space." Maggie "I appreciate beauty, but I don't necessarily cultivate it." Jacey "Neuro-architecture: how your surroundings affect your mood or your emotional state." "It's not shallow to care about your surroundings." Jacey "If I get out of the warmth of these sheets, I get to put food in my belly. So let's do this, Tuesday." Maggie

Links

If you're confused about your Myers-Briggs personality type, read this: an intro to cognitive functions 'Mood-boosting Home Decor' Crystal Stine: Creative Basics

Thoughts, questions, comments?

Find Around the Table on Facebook, Instagram or Twitter, or leave a comment below. Maggie on Instagram, Twitter, and her blog Jacey on Instagram, Twitter and her blog

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Around the Table is sponsored by Rover.com, the nation's largest network of pet sitters and dog walkers. Visit Rover.com/table and get $20 off your dog's first booking!

Make sure you're following us on Instagram for a chance to win a Novaelle tote!

If you're anywhere near the Charleston area, come to our meet up on April 3rd! Time and location TBD, depending on RSVP's. Even if you can't make the meet up, make sure you've liked our Facebook page so you don't miss any updates.

This week, we're chatting about venting: the good, bad and ugly of getting things off your chest. Plus, our guide to the ideal dinner party.

What you'll hear:

Jacey's vs. Maggie's meltdown styles Definition of an external processor Questions to ask yourself before venting The power of writing drafts How to respond when someone vents to you Practical tips for a dinner party that's about more than dinner

Can I quote you on that?

"I'm an external processor, so what that means is that I often have to verbalize how I'm feeling about people or situations as my way of dealing with them." Maggie "If you're not looking for a solution, and you're rehashing the same issues over and over, venting has crossed the line." Jacey "I'd rather have people over and make it simple than put the pressure on myself to make it elaborate and never do it." Jacey "The heart of hospitality is about creating space for someone to feel seen, and heard and loved." Shauna Niequist, Bread and Wine "People like imperfection." Maggie

Links:

Lunch break with Sarah Harmeyer of Neighbor's Table Lunch break with Shauna Niequist

Thoughts, questions, comments?

Find Around the Table on Facebook, Instagram or Twitter, or leave a comment below. Maggie on Instagram, Twitter, and her blog Jacey on Instagram, Twitter and her blog

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This week we are joined by Jenn Gietzen: designer, entrepreneur, and cocktail connoisseur. We chat about finding creative community, incorporating faith into design, and we hear some of Jenn's recent romantic blunders.

But first, don't forget to follow us on instagram and keep and eye out for a chance to win THIS awesome tote bag from NovaElle, an organization cofounded by Jenn that uses design to give back to the community. Giveaway will run 3/26/16 through 3/29/16, and all entry details will be on instagram.

What you'll hear:

Tips for finding a creative community Some delicious cocktail recipes and ideas Some of Jen's romantic blunders About an awesome giveaway

Can I quote you on that?

"Figure out where your community it in your town, maybe even do a little light Instagram stalking." Jenn Gietzen "You never know who is going to know someone." Jenn Gietzen "It is a milestone, you have your first date, then he meets your parents, then…you fart in front of him." Maggie "Sorry I farted that one time, please still like me." Jenn Gietzen "Vulnerability is not a large trend right now, and I'm trying to help get it to that point." Jenn Gietzen

Links:

Connect with Jenn on Instagram, Twitter, or her website Shop NovaElle Connect with us on Instagram, Facebook or Twitter

Around the Table is sponsored by Rover.com, the nation's largest network of pet sitters and dog walkers. Visit Rover.com/table and get $20 off your dog's first booking!

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This week, we're celebrating the start of Spring: a time for warmer weather, new beginnings, and for some of us, terrible allergies.

Don't forget to check out our Facebook page and RSVP to our first Around the Table gathering!

What you'll hear:

Our Pi Day celebrations What we do and don't like about Spring The things we hoard and give away freely What produce is in season and some yummy Spring recipes Our travel wish lists

Can I quote you on that?

"If my food is green, it better be because it came from the ground, not because there is food coloring in it." Maggie "I learned a long time ago not to let Martha Stewart speak into my life, Maggie." Jacey "I think we could all afford to live a little more simply." Maggie "I might not have my tax forms, but I will have my dental floss." Jacey "We learned from the pleated pant in the 80's…didn't we?" Maggie

Links:

The finer things in life and seasonal Spring food You are not Beyonce Arugula pesto pizza with herbed ricotta Smoked salmon and asparagus pasta 5 ingredients lemon chicken with asparagus Roasted baby artichokes Strawberry and avocado salsa Fashion trends to expect in 2016 Spring 2016 fashion trends

Thoughts, questions, comments?

Find Around the Table on Facebook, Instagram or Twitter, or leave a comment below. Maggie on Instagram, Twitter, and her blog Jacey on Instagram, Twitter and her blog

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Around the Table is sponsored by Rover.com, the nation's largest network of pet sitters and dog walkers. Visit Rover.com/table and get $20 off your dog's first booking!

If you're anywhere near the Charleston area, come to our meet up on April 3rd! Time and location TBD, depending on RSVP's. Even if you can't make the meet up, make sure you've liked our Facebook page so you don't miss any updates.

This week, we're chatting about the importance of fun in our overworked, efficiency worshipping culture, and "fun" activities we don't actually like. Plus, our monthly Read Watch Listen Follow segment.

What you'll hear:

The difference between faux fun and real fun Extrovert/introvert face off A debate about whether there's pressure for women to be "the fun girl." Fun activities we don't actually like

Can I quote you on that?

"No vegetable is safe from the jaws of my spiralizer." Maggie "The number one reason that making room for fun is so important is that it reminds me that my value as a person is not wrapped up in what I accomplish" Jacey "Spending time doing something for the pure joy of it is an exercise in accepting my own self worth, and that I'm worthy of joy." Jacey "In those moments where we're not focused on whatever outside pressure might exist in the workplace, we can explore what we would want to do if we had the choice to do anything." Maggie "I'm glad I finally got you in this corner to admit that the world is still set up for extroverts." Jacey "I like experiences where I'm learning something and having fun at the same time." Maggie "How are we friends?" Jacey, reflecting on our VERY different ideas of fun

Links:

No-Knead Bread Faux Versus Real Fun {Oprah.com} The Enneagram Made Easy I Was Told There'd Be Cake by Sloane Crosley The Swans of Fifth Avenue by Melanie Benjamin Cooked Sisters Tumbledown Show Me a Hero Tumbledown soundtrack M. Ward Another Round Episode 23: The Audacity of Despair (interview with David Simon, not clean.) RE/code media with Peter Kafka: Danielle Weisberg and Carly Zakin, theSkimm Co-Founders @thefeedfeed Bible in One Year app @drakeoncake

Thoughts, questions, comments?

Find Around the Table on Facebook, Instagram or Twitter, or leave a comment below. Maggie on Instagram, Twitter, and her blog Jacey on Instagram, Twitter and her blog

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Around the Table is sponsored by Rover.com, the nation's largest network of pet sitters and dog walkers. Visit Rover.com/table and get $20 off your dog's first booking! In this episode, we're joined by spoken word poet, author, and doughnut connoisseur Amena Brown Owen. We discuss the power of vulnerability in art, learning to dig the skin you're in, the metaphorical "table" of our lives. What you'll hear:

How Amena got started in spoken word Amena's choice to share a very personal experience in her art The work it takes to "dig the skin you're in" The value of confident friends

Can I quote you on that?

"I get nervous every time." Amena Brown Owen, on performing "If I go a long period of time and I haven't written a poem, I almost feel sick." Amena Brown Owen "I don't owe that personal part of myself to anyone, but if I come to a place in my soul where [sharing it] could be super healing for me, then for myself, I need to say it boldly, not to make a point to anyone else." Amena Brown Owen on vulnerability in her art "One of the things that really helped me was having women friends who were more confident than I was." Amena Brown Owen "You're going to fall in love several times, but you only have one of yourself." Amena Brown Owen "If you have the option to have dinner with Beyoncé, you need to move heaven and earth to do it." Amena Brown Owen

Links:

Amena's spoken word albums on iTunes Connect with Amena on her website, Instagram, Facebook, or Twitter Revolution Doughnuts Gourdough's Donuts Connect with us on Instagram, Facebook or Twitter

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