Ever wondered why an avoidant would want to be with someone anxious? It might surprise you, but your anxious traits, yes, the ones you sometimes wish you didn't have, can actually be deeply attractive to avoidants.

In this episode, we explore the psychology behind avoidant-anxious relationships. We’ll answer a viewer’s question about why avoidants are drawn to anxious partners, break down the emotional push-pull dynamic, and explain why your sensitivity, emotional insight, and adaptability aren’t flaws.  They’re actually strengths that avoidants often crave (even if they won’t admit it). We also talk about how anxious traits like persistence and “chasing” can be powerful when used in the right dose.

If you’re anxiously attached and confused about why your avoidant partner still seems drawn to you, this episode will help you reframe your thinking, and maybe even reclaim your power.

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