Anonymous and her partner have been together for almost 9 years now. 

She says in the early years of their relationship she ended up getting a loan for him to be able to purchase a car, on his request. He had said he’d pay it off, but he had financial struggles and she needed up paying off the loan. 

They eventually got married and decided to get a house together but he didn’t qualify for a mortgage so she ended up getting the house under her name.

They are married in community of property…