Anonymous has been with his partner for about two years now, he is in his late thirties and she is in her late thirties.

She was a virgin when they met and they only got intimate after nine months in the relationship. 

He thinks the fact that it took so long for them to start having sexual intercourse really affected him, and it actually did cause a rift in their relationship at the time. 

She fell pregnant shortly after they started having sex, and this also affected their sexual relationship as they were not getting together anymore…

Anonymous is bisexual and has been with his female partner for about 4 years now. 

They had some tough times in their relationship due to anonymous needing to deal with his past traumas, but they got through this. 

Recently she started behaving a bit differently, he got suspicious, went through her phone and found that she was chatting to other guys even telling them that she’s not very serious about anonymous. 

He doesn’t know how to feel about this and there’s also the matter of his sexuality

Anonymous and his partner have been together for about 10 years and they have three children, two children together and one from his partner’s previous relationship. 

They both cheated in their relationship but forgave each other and moved forward with their relationship. 

Recently they came back from a party and his partner’s friend came home with them and slept over in their house, the children weren’t there…

While he was sexually busy with his partner, she suggested that they invite her friend, who was sleeping in another room, to join them in their bedroom.

Anonymous said no to this suggestion…

Anonymous has been with his partner since about 2013 and they are now around 30 years of age. 

Her partner found a job in another country and this seems to have affected their communication. She doesn’t answer his calls and when they do eventually speak she tells him that she’s busy. 

Their relationship is now broken down and he doesn’t know what to do. They also adopted her sister’s child and that relationship is now in limbo. 

Anonymous has been with her partner for almost two years and says he’s been a good partner to her for the most part. 

Throughout their relationship he’s been talking a lot about having children, however, she wasn’t ready.

He recently revealed to her that he’s impregnated another lady, they ended things as a result. However, the other lady miscarried and he is now back, telling anonymous he wants to get back together, the pregnancy was a mistake…

Anonymous is in her late thirties and has one child. She’s been dating a guy on and off for about 10 years now, however, the guy has a girlfriend who he has two children with. 

She was with someone else when she met him and ended up dropping that guy for this one who has a partner. 

She was a side for many years but eventually gave him an ultimatum telling him to leave his main girlfriend for her but he never left the main. 

She broke up with him but four months later the guy came back saying he had left his other girlfriend. 

They are now dating again, however…

Anonymous met his wife in 2005, and they later got married after having a child in 2010.

After getting married they started attending the same church, which is his church. There’s an elderly lady on the worship team at their church who stated that there’s a prophecy that anonymous would need to leave his wife for this lady’s daughter. 

This information was shared with anonymous’ wife, but it was told to her as though it’s something that’s actually happening….

Anonymous is the eldest son in his family and only has sisters, and he’s now also married. 

Her wife has deep Christian beliefs and his mother is a sangoma, so his family tends to follow Traditional African religion. 

His younger sister has taken ill and his uncle suggested they visit a sangoma in Mozambique who could help his sister. 

He told his wife about his intention to support his family in taking his sister to this sangoma but she didn’t take this well and said anonymous is now inviting other spirits into their home. 

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Anonymous says when she met his partner he was clean and proper and was a great person towards her. 

However, after a while of dating each other, they moved in together and this is when she realised certain aspects of his personality. She says he was always moody and wasn’t as fun as he used to be before. 

As result of his behaviour, they agreed to continue with the relationship but live apart. He then moved out abruptly which took her by surprise. 

She confronted him about his move and he told her that he moved because he no longer felt welcomed in her space, the talked through it and he has now moved back to their place…