Anonymous has been with her husband for about 10 years now and they have two children together. 

Her husband got sick and the doctors at the hospital were not able to diagnose what the problem was, so he then opted for spiritual intervention and started visiting a sangoma, despite their staunch Christian background. 

This made anonymous uneasy but she supported her husband in his quest to find healing. 

She says he’s now behaving differently and spends a lot of time with this sangoma. She doesn’t understand why all of this is happening but suspects the sangoma told her husband that she is cheating. 

Anonymous met a guy in 2018 and they started dating four months later, which was in 2019. 

When she met this guy, she was in a relationship that was falling apart and it eventually ended and she continued with the guy she met in 2018. 

Early on in their relationship he confessed to her that he is in a long distance relationship with another woman who lives in another province. He initially said he’d leave the other woman but later on this woman fell pregnant with his child. 

They were able to move on from this but their relationship has been weird and he has been offish towards her….

Anonymous has been with her partner for about a year now and she’s currently pregnant with their first child. 

She feels like they haven’t been on the same page about the pregnancy or the future of their relationship. As a pregnant woman, he hasn’t been caring for her or giving her time and she’s currently in her third trimester. 

She doesn’t know what to read into his behaviour. 

Anonymous has been in a relationship with her partner for about 3 years and says their relationship is great, and he ticks most of the boxes of what she’s looking for a in a partner. 

The only issue she has with him is his behaviour in the bedroom, as she feels like he’s become sexually selfish. 

It wasn’t always like this but lately he rushes through foreplay and doesn’t listen to what she wants and always wants them to do things his way in the bedroom. 

Anonymous has been single for about two years after getting out of a long-term relationship.

She decided to be celibate after the breakup and has kept things that way until she started seeing her former high school crush. 

Things were going well with this guy so and it ended up with her getting intimate with him and breaking her celibacy. 

She now feels a bit weird about sleeping with him and understand why. She has also found out that he’s actually in a serious relationship with someone else. 

Anonymous has been with her partner for about 9 years now, and says things were generally fine between them until she found out last year that he actually has children from a previous relationship that he didn’t tell her about. 

She was upset about this and confronted him, to which he responded by saying that she should be happy that he married her instead of the mother of his children. 

She is now in the process of divorcing him, however, the people in her life are calling her out, saying she’s overreacting by divorcing him. 

Anonymous says he persued his current partner for about two years before they eventually started dating. 

Their relationship was going well and she fell pregnant after they had agreed to have a baby together. His partner ended up aborting the baby as she was worried about how it would affect her mental health as she’s suffering from a mental condition.

This frustrated anonymous….

Anonymous started dating her partner about three years ago and says her partner cheated on her, with his ex, early on in their relationship but they overcame this and moved on with their relationship. 

She recently found texts on his phone to his friend where he was sharing with his friend about meeting up with another girl. 

She confronted him about this and he said it’s not something that actually happened or that he went through with, he was just trying to impress his friends, who apparently thrive on that kind of behaviour. 

She’s thinking of breaking up with him, but is not sure if thats the right choice. 

Anonymous was in a relationship with a lady last year and things were going until she confessed that she was actually in a relationship with an older man that she had previously claimed was her father. 

She told anonymous that she was going to break things off with the guy but he’s not sure whether she ever really tried to break up with him. 

Fast forward to this year, he found out that she is actually getting married to this other man, however, they hooked up the night before her lobola…

Anonymous has been with her partner for about 5 months now, they are both in their 30s, they have one child each, she lives with her child and he lives at his family home with his parents. 

He often visits her place on weekends when they are both free and while this arrangement initially worked she feels like he’s become a major cost to her pocket. She brought this up and ask him to contribute a little more to her household but he didn’t like her request and it has resulted in him breaking up with her.