Anonymous was in an on-and-off relationship with his now ex-partner for the last 7 years. 

He experienced a lot of betrayal and toxicity in that relationship and it’s left him in a position where he’s struggling to move forward and trust another woman.

He’s asking us to help him to be able to open up to a new relationship.

Anonymous has two children and they have different fathers. 

She was with the father of her second child for about 12 years and says it took her 6 years to heal from this relationship after things ended between them.

She met another guy who was getting a divorce when they met. He cheated on her multiple times, and abused physically and emotionally. 

She’s struggling get over the pain and the hurt of this relationship and doesn’t know if she’ll ever be ok.

Anonymous called us back in February and ended up breaking up with guy no.1 because  of the things he was doing in their relationship.

Now, months later, she started building something with a man she met six years ago and things are going well, however, guy no.1 is back in her life and wants to make things work, and the prophet at her church told her that guy no.1 is the one for her.

She feels like guy no.2 is great but she doesn’t know him that well and guy no.1 is really trying this time, so she doesn’t know what to do.

Anonymous has been with his partner for about 7 years now. 

She didn’t work when they met, however, in recent years she found a job, and lives in another province because of this job. 

The problem between them is finances, she is fairly accomplished now and has bought herself a car and a house. Despite this, she expects him to support her financially by helping her with her house, something he doesn’t understand as she has the means to take care of those things. 

They are now separated as a result of this conflict in their relationship.

Anonymous was previously in a long-term relationship and has a child from that relationship. 

She feels like she was never really happy in that relationship but stayed in the relationship because her partner was very financially helpful of her and her family, which led to her family pushing her to stay in the relationship even though she wasn’t happy. 

She eventually chose herself and realised she has a spiritual calling, through that journey she found a new partner…

Anonymous and his partner have been together for about 6 years now. 

When he entered this relationship, he already had 4 children from his previous relationships, they initially agreed that they didn’t want to have more kids but they now have two children together. 

His issue is her style of dealing with conflict in their relationship as she gets physically and verbally violent. 

The first time she got physical with him, he said to her that he would leave her if she reacts that way again, however, they got into a fight recently and she got physical again and even insulted anonymous’ first born son. 

She went away after this fight but she’s now back home and he is struggling to forgive her and move on.

Anonymous and his partner have been together for about 6 years now, they live together and have a child together. 

He says they both work, however, she earns more than he does. He adds that he’s very supportive of her and also helps with a lot of the duties in the house, however, she's not very supportive of him, especially when it comes to finances. 

Anonymous and his current partner have been together since 2010. 

Early in their relationship there was an incident where his partner saw him hug his ex while they were at a party and that turned into a conflict between them, they moved on but she never really got over that. 

Their relationship became long distance when he moved to another province for work and at some point when he went home he found her behaviour suspicious, confronted her and she confessed to cheating on him because of she felt lonely when he wasn’t around….

Anonymous met a guy back in 2021 when she was doing her final year in varsity, she quickly realised that he was in a relationship while they were in the talking stage and decided not to move forward with a relationship with him. 

Years later she reconnected with him but once again they didn’t get into a relationship as she felt like he was still recovering from a recent break-up. 

They reconnected again this year and this time around they finally got into a relationship. 

He said to her that he’s serious about her and wants to marry her one day but she feels like he’s not acting serious because he doesn’t want her to meet his children right now, just months into their relationship.

Anonymous recently started dating guy and says things between them have moved very fast but she’s starting to pick up that his financial problems are worse than what she thought they were.

She’s already in love with him and wants to help but this is all a bit too much for her as his financial problems are draining her pocket.