Anonymous and her partner have been together for about six years now and says their relationship has been going well and he’s the man she prayed for. 

Her problem is that he never pays attention to his phone when he’s out with family and friends and doesn’t give her any attention when she tries to reach him. 

They’ve recently had a fight about this and as usual, he’s now giving her silent treatment. They have also been together for 6 years now and she’s yet to meet a member of his family. 

Anonymous has been with his wife for about two years now and they are in a long-distance relationship.

They recently had a fight because he found out, for the first time, that she’s in communication with the father of her child. While their chats were mostly about their child, there are also texts where he refers to anonymous’ wife as “my love”, however, she doesn’t reply in the same way. 

They got into a fight because of this and he ended up saying to her that this is why he didn’t want to marry someone who already has children. She was hurt by this and has now blocked anonymous.

Anonymous and his partner have together for a while and they live together.  They often go out together and recently, while they were at a party, his girlfriend joined her friend, who was with some other guys. 

He spotted her flirting with one of the other guys and at some point it looked as if she wanted to leave the party with the other guy. This angered anonymous, he confronted her, and even got physical with her, and they needed up going home together. 

He’s frustrated and angered by this behaviour and it’s even led him to violent acts and thoughts against her.

Anonymous and her partner were together from the time they were in varsity and they have a child together. 

She got a job first and made more strides in her career, while he struggled and was doing well financially which affected their relationship. She ended up breaking up with him because of his financial problems.

She then met a woman, who she fell in love with, things were going well in that relationship but she ended up going back to her ex because of her need to have her child living with their mother and father. 

This has now become a cycle and she doesn’t know what to do.

Anonymous has been dating a guy for about a year and a half now and he’s a great partner for the most part but the thing that annoys her about him is that he seems to be a bit of a pathological liar, especially when it comes to his finances….

Anonymous says there’s lots of drama in her mother-in-law’s life. Not only is she hiding her relationships with younger men, she’s also in fraudulent dealings that have affected her son, who’s anonymous’ partner….

Her mother-in-law seems to always go out of her way to derail her partner from getting work or making things work for himself. 

She doesn’t understand this behaviour and it’s now putting a strain on their relationship. Her and her partner are also intertwined in spiritual rituals that have complicated their relationship. 

Anonymous has been married to her partner for four years now and says they resolved some of the issues they had before they got married but those seem to be coming back into their relationship. 

She feels like her partner is too relaxed about how other women behave around him, he downplays it when they get touchy with him, with some of it happening in front of her. 

There’s also messages that she’s seen on his phone that she feels cross the line. He has given her full access to his phone. She’s worried about why they are so comfortable behaving that way with him.

Anonymous rekindled things with her ex about a year ago. He broke up with her the first time they dated because he felt like he couldn’t provide for her “as a man” should.

After getting back together they spoke about expectations they have of each other but she now feels like he’s expecting too much from her, especially in terms of house chores. 

They don’t live together and he expects her to perform all kinds of chores at his place and she doesn’t understand this. She wonders if this is a red flag.