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Anonymous was in a relationship with a lady for about 7 years, and he was also supporting her three children during this period. 

The lady cheated on him a few times with her ex, who’s the father of her last born child…

Anonymous was in a four year relationship with her now ex partner. 

She has three children and he doesn’t have any, which is something that affected their relationship as she felt like she was constantly needing to choose between her partner and her children.

As a result of this conflict in their relationship they broke up, and that break up has affected severely affected and she’s been struggling to even run and focus on her business, which led to her losing the business. 

She doesn’t know how to go about moving on from the heartbreak of losing that relationship. 

Anonymous started dating a guy in February this year and says he was amazing to her and she felt like he was a Godsend. 

Months into the relationship she found a text exchange on his phone with another woman and they were basically saying how much they miss each other. She confronted him about this but they resolved it as he said nothing beyond the texts had happened between and him and this other woman. 

Last month she got suspicious that he had been with another woman, there was evidence to support this but he denied having been with another woman, she got upset and broke things off with him. 

He has been apologising since then…

Anonymous met his wife about six years before, during Covid lockdown. Once restrictions eased they met up physically and got married a year later and soon after had their first child together. 

A while ago he went away to visit his family, but upon his return he found out that his wife didn’t sleep at home on the night he was away, she explained that she slept over at friends and they moved on from this. 

Fast forward to today, he just found out that she was in fact sleeping with another man on that night. 

Anonymous has been with her partner for many years and their relationship was really amazing for most of those years. 

She used to be financially well-off until she battled with cancer and they lost a lot of their money and had to downgrade their life. 

Their financial situation has affected their life negatively.

Anonymous is in a side relationship with a guy that’s in a relationship with a partner that he lives with. 

Everything has been going well between the two of them until recently when both him and his partner were on leave and spending more time together. She says during this period he was avoiding her and barely speaking to her. 

She understands that she’s a side but feels like he can’t just ignore her whenever it’s inconvenient for him.

Anonymous has been with his partner for two years now and he’s not sure if their relationship is going in the right direction. 

They started dating a week after meeting each other, and anonymous feels like they might’ve rushed into a relationship without really getting to know and understand each other well. 

One of the issues is that they appear to have differing communication styles which is creating conflict in their relationship. 

Anonymous was in a relationship with his ex partner for about three years.

After she fell pregnant he was happy and supported her through the pregnancy but a month after the child was born she confessed to him that she thinks the baby is not his as she had a one night stand while she was away on a work trip. 

DNA tests were done and proved that he’s not the father….

Anonymous has been with her partner for 8 years and they got married 5 years ago. 

She’s currently pregnant with their second child and her partner is refusing to get sexually intimate with her. She says it’s been about 5 months and despite her many advances, he’s not interested at all. 

She’s wondering if he’s getting it outside because she once told him he can’t have sex with her if he’s cheating because it’s going to affect her and their unborn child.

Anonymous met a guy who she immediately hit things off with and started having a relationship with him from the onset, and they’ve been together for about 6 months.

However, a few months into the relationship she realised that he’s actually in a serious relationship with someone who he has children with. 

She wants to exit this situation but she finds herself falling “deeply” for him.