Anonymous and her partner have been together for 5 years, she’s in her mid-twenties and he’s in his late twenties. 

Her problem with him is that he doesn’t seem to want to work. He’s not interested in looking and he currently doesn’t work. He’s been this way since she’s been with him and when she asks him why he’s not working he has many excuses, including his spirituality. 

She’s now broken up with him, however, he wants to get back together with her and she’s not sure if she should, because she does love him but worries about his lack of ambition.

Anonymous met a guy who lives in her complex mid-last year, they hit it off and started dating. 

Around September last year they had a miscommunication and things became a bit tense between them. They never really spoke about what happened between them and their relationship just fizzled out from there. 

Fast forward to this year, she needed closure about why things ended, so she confronted the guy, and while she felt like he left her, he thought she broke things off.

Right now she’s in a position where she’s wondering if he wants to be with her. 

Anonymous got married in her late teens and has now been with her husband for 13 years. 

Her marriage has been generally fine during this time and they have children with her husband. 

She met a man from another country through work, who she was in charge of taking care off while he was in the country, and there’s a spark between them. 

She hasn’t done anything with this man despite his advances and gifts, however, she does find herself feeling stimulated by him and this situation. 

She’s wondering if this is infidelity and what she needs to do. 

Anonymous was in a relationship for 5 years until her partner ended things between them abruptly in December last year. 

She’s struggling to get over him and they still communicate because of a business they work on together. 

She’s not sure if he’s moved on yet, and she still has many questions 

Anonymous and her husband have been together for 16 years now, and for the most part their relationship was fine until he started gambling. 

He became more distant, wasn’t present in their relationship and started defaulting on some of his financial responsibilities. 

He got help to fix his gambling problem, but it didn’t seem to help and she feels like he didn’t really take it seriously and he returned to his gambling over and over again. 

At some point he became suicidal, and she brought this to the attention of his family but they didn’t really help either. 

He’s suggested that they get divorced in order to separate their assets but anonymous feels like she won’t re-marry him as he’s now a different man from the one she married….

Anonymous has been with his wife for 15 years now and they’ve been married for 5 of those years. 

The was an incident a few years ago in which his wife lied to him and said she was sleeping at home but he then realised that she wasn’t home and he tracked her car to a shared living property. He found her there with a man but she told him that she visiting the ladies who were also at the property. 

A couple of years later, a similar incident occurred, with the same guy….