Anonymous was in a relationship with a lady last year and things were going until she confessed that she was actually in a relationship with an older man that she had previously claimed was her father. 

She told anonymous that she was going to break things off with the guy but he’s not sure whether she ever really tried to break up with him. 

Fast forward to this year, he found out that she is actually getting married to this other man, however, they hooked up the night before her lobola…

Anonymous has been with her partner for about 5 months now, they are both in their 30s, they have one child each, she lives with her child and he lives at his family home with his parents. 

He often visits her place on weekends when they are both free and while this arrangement initially worked she feels like he’s become a major cost to her pocket. She brought this up and ask him to contribute a little more to her household but he didn’t like her request and it has resulted in him breaking up with her. 

Anonymous has been in an on and off relationship with her high school sweetheart for about 7 years now and they are currently separated.

They’ve broken up for various reasons over the years, mostly because he keeps cheating on her with the same woman. 

Anonymous and this guy live quite far from each other now, and every time she’s away from their home town (for school) he seems to be with this other woman. 

She just wants to know if he really loves her or just likes having her around. 

Anonymous met her current partner while she was in varsity, while he was already working and had an established career. 

When she was younger she was more interested in building her career in her twenties and then maybe building a family in her early thirties.

However, her partner was really keen to get married and have children, something she wasn’t really keen for this early in her life but he was taking care of her and was really serious about her which she feels made her more open to the idea of settling down and building a family. 

They now have an 8 month-old baby but he’s changed his tune and is no longer supporting her and their baby in the way he used to. 

Anonymous has been with a man she’s “in love” with for about three years now, and they are both in their 50s. 

The relationship is going amazing, however, she has never been to his place and he always comes to his place. She has never met his family either and he never wants to go on extended vacations either.

She brought this up and he said she must give him time to figure things out in his life. She’s wondering if she’s the only women in his life. 

Anonymous has been with his partner and the mother of his children for about 16 years now. 

Things were generally fine between them until they had their first child in 2017, and says there was a rift between them and their families. They were able to get through all of that and even had their second child in 2021. 

In 2023 he caught her cheating when he saw her kissing another man. She initially denied this but they ended up breaking up. 

He moved out of their home and went back to his family home. Things fell apart in both their lives and he invited her to come stay at this family home with their children. 

Anonymous met a lady back in 2018 and things moved quickly between them, as they even moved in together after only a month of dating. 

He cheated on her at some point in the relationship but they were able to get past this.

After she moved to another city her attitude towards him changed, even when she moved back she was just not the same person any more and was very distant. 

She broke things off with him last year and they went their separate ways. Months later she called him and they are now back together but things are a bit dry between them. 

Anonymous has been with her partner for about two years now and they’ve known each other for about 10 years. 

She says he’s a great partner and does most things in their relationship right however, the problem they have is social media. 

He follows a lot of “baddies” and is always liking pictures of half naked women who are posing provocatively. She notes that it’s also women that look nothing like her, which leaves her wondering if that’s what he actually prefers. 

She’s confronted him about this behaviour and while he’s said he would change, he hasn’t. A week ago she tried to make him account for this but he got upset and they haven’t spoken since.

Anonymous and her partner, guy no.1, have been together for about 11 years now. 

She says they met at church and when they started dating she didn’t realise that he was dating other women in their church. This complicated things between them and she ended up breaking things off with him and started dating guy no.2, who was dating her guy no.1’s side-girl. 

She fell pregnant with guy no.2’s child but things didn’t workout there and guy no.1 wanted her back despite the fact that she was pregnant with another men’s child. 

He took her in with her three children, including children from her previous marriage and the child she has with guy no.2. 

She says their relationship is now fine but he doesn’t seem to get along with her first born daughter.

Anonymous found out last year that her longterm partner had been having an affair with another woman for many years while they were together. 

She broke up with him at that point but after months of separation he came back and persuaded her to get back together with him. 

Their relationship has been great since getting back together, however, about a week ago, she found out that he’s still in contact with the lady that led to their breakup…