Anonymous says she’s in her mid thirties and has two children. She met a man earlier this year, they have a twenty-year age gap and things were going well.

She had her suspicions about the man being married so she asked him if he was and he admitted that he is married but his wife has cancer, they haven’t been intimate and he is looking for someone to be intimate with. 

They continued with their relationship, at some point she fell pregnant but miscarried. She then found out that he was actually also having an affair with his neighbour, so broke things off but they got back together. 

Their relationship has since been toxic and has affected her mentally and emotionally.

Anonymous has been with his partner for two years now, they have a child together, and he says the relationship has been great for the most part. 

His problem is that she’s always going out with her friends and he feels like she’s neglecting him & their relationship. He says she also gets very drunk and isn’t a considerate human being when she gets like that.

Anonymous says after his marriage ended he got involved with another lady but quickly realised after they went away together that she’s not the girl for him. 

After breaking things off she told him that she was pregnant, they agreed to terminate the pregnancy and went their separate ways. He blocked her after this but unblocked her months later only to realise that she kept the pregnancy. 

They were co-parenting well until she moved to another province and started avoiding anonymous. Her strange behaviour and rumours that she was seeing another guy led to him asking for a DNA test. 

She agreed to the test but has been dodging it for a couple of years now. He stopped supporting the child as a result of not being sure of paternity. He’s struggling to move on with this big question mark.

Anonymous says she got married very young, her husband is generally a good guy and her family & friends love him but she’s says something has always been missing in their relationship. 

She feels as though her loved ones never really listened to her when she would try to express this. She has now moved out from their home as a result of how she feels in this marriage.

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Anonymous moved to a new province for work purposes, she met a guy at the office, they hit it off and started dating. 

She soon realised that this guy has a partner and she is a side to him. She gave him an ultimatum to decide whether he moves forward with her or his partner. 

She started engaging with another guy while he was still deciding on them. The guy found out that anonymous was busy with someone else and he got upset especially because she was pregnant. 

She terminated the baby as result of all this chaos…

Anonymous’ fiancé got arrested 8 years ago and has been in prison since then. 

This situation put a strain on their finances and has affected their relationship. He also got into a seemingly transactional relationship with another woman that he met on social media. He said this is to help them financially but she feels like she’s not benefitting from this. 

She feels drained by the situation and is not sure what to do.

Anonymous has been with the father of her two children for about 17 years now. 

He’s cheated on her multiple times over this period and she’s forgiven him each time. She found out about two years ago that he’s been married this whole time, and still struggles to let go of him. 

Despite all of this, she says she loves him a lot and can’t imagine herself dating anyone else.

Anonymous has been with her current partner for over a year now and says they had a child together after being together for about a month. 

At the beginning of their relationship her partner told her that he had just broken up with the mother of his child. About a month ago she realised that he has actually continued his relationship with the mother of his other child despite being in a relationship  and living with anonymous. 

He has now said that relationship with the mother of his other child is over. But she’s struggling to live on from this.

Anonymous has been with her partner for about 9 years now and in the last two months she’s found herself in a relationship with a woman. 

She says he’s been cheating on her but she let all of that go. She feels like she’s discovering herself and her sexuality right now. She’s cheated on him before with other women but this particular relationship is more intense & serious. 

Her partner wants to marry her and she doesn’t know what to do.