Anonymous is in his early 50s and has been married to his wife for 20 years now. 

He has been diagnosed with a disease that causes acid refluxes that lead to him choking in his sleep. He spoke to his wife about what to do if this happens while their sleeping but he says there was an instance in which it occurred, however, as he choked, she just looked at him and didn’t assist him.

He also feels like she’s not interested in being intimate with him, as he’s the one who’s always initiating while she never does. 

He recently fell illl….

Anonymous and his partner recently  separated after facing some issues in their relationship. His partner is now back in his life and they are now back together. 

The issues that led to the break down of their relationship don’t seem to have been resolved and they keep getting back to into the same conflicts and arguments. 

Anonymous says they’ve gone through a lot together and he wants to work on this relationship but he is now wondering if there is a way forward. 

Anonymous was previously married for 6 years despite the fact his wife had cheated on him early on in their marriage. He tried to move on but he eventually retaliated and also cheated on his wife. 

Their relationship broke down and after his wife cheated on him the second time, they got divorced. 

He has since tried to move on, but has struggled to stay in relationships with the other women he’s been with since getting divorced. 

He’s not sure if he’s trying to move on too soon or if he’ll ever be able to build a long lasting healthy relationship. 

Anonymous dated a guy back in 2023 for about four months before their relationship ended. They rekindled things last year but it seems his past is haunting their relationship. 

He is insecure and never seems to believe that she has good intentions in their relationship, and this has led to them having several altercations…

Anonymous is/was in a long distance relationship with her partner. 

She doesn’t have a huge appetite and eats small portions. While she was recently visiting her partner they got into an argument because of her eating patterns, with him saying that her breath smells bad as result of her not eating enough. 

He then said he can’t live with the odour of her breath, she left his place, tried reaching out later to speak to him about this but he doesn’t seem interested in discussing the matter further. 

Anonymous met his partner when he was going through a low moment in his life, he says she was very supportive of him and helping him out financially.

He’s going through a lot mentally and as a result, he’s struggling to be a good partner to his girlfriend. He loves her a lot but finds himself spiralling and thinks he needs a break to find his bearings . 

Anonymous and his wife have been together for about 22 years, and have been married for about 13 years now. 

He feels like his partner is “self righteous”, doesn’t give him an ear and always thinks she’s right in any conflict they have in their relationship. He also feels like she doesn’t give him space to express his emotions. 

They are always arguing and their conflicts have gone out of hand, even happening in front of their kids. 

He’s exhausted of this toxic relationship and environment they now find themselves in.

Anonymous and his wife have been married for about 18 years now and they have three children together. 

Along the way, he cheated on his partner about three times and he was caught each time. His wife then cheated on him in retaliation. Things got messy and about 5 years ago she left their married home with their children, but after two months away, she returned back to their home and they got back together.

Things have been ok for the last five years but they are struggling to rebuild trust in their relationship. 

Anonymous met a lady at her local clinic as a client, they spent a lot of time together and says she now finds her self having strong feelings for this lady. 

She wants to share her feelings with the lady, but there are some complications…